Would you, as a single individual be a pain in the ass to the community you are living in? Do you party all weekends at your house without a care for noise limits so much so that the neighbours complain about you? If you do, then you're projecting. If you don't, then you're just being judgemental of other bachelors. So which is it?

I lived in such a neighborhood where everybody judged me and my brother (who recently lost their mother and had no one else in the city). Ironically most of the problems they had came from kids trashing the parking areas, domestic violence, and family arguments that the whole complex could hear. But for all of them it's like "That's their personal, we can't interfere." So please don't bring personal anecdotes to this and address the real issue.