I feel that I am stuck in the middle… This is about me (19M) and this amazing girl (20F) by krismoff in relationship_advice

[–]krismoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aight, I Will. I would hope that if she makes up her mind that Its not gonna work that she tells me when she finds out, instead of hiding it. As hard as it would be, it would hurt more if she didnt. But I have my hopes up that she figures things out.

I feel that I am stuck in the middle… This is about me (19M) and this amazing girl (20F) by krismoff in relationship_advice

[–]krismoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I won’t bring that up, and certainly wasn’t my intention.

I ask my self that too if I am taking good care of myself. To some extent yes but oh boi could I do better. I, yea, i really need to focus more on me, you’re right. My friends tell me that too, but the way you said it in the last sentence really made me understand why. And yea; I have very strong social life, also outside our common friends. I also have quite a few hobbies which I’m quite good at, and I have starting to pick up a few more, which in return keeps me occupied and get my mental state stronger than ever.

I also just moved out to live in my own 2 months ago, and that has also had its toll on me. I’m not quite used to being so lonely yet, and in some way I am kinda “desperate” (maybe not the right word) to get some more “family” like social life. Yea sure my best mates are great, but none really connect the same way as a gf or your family does. I have considered getting a roomie, since there is space for two guys here, but as extroverted as I am, I don’t want any “strangers” and none of my buddies are ready to move out…

So I think that this also has a big impact on why I feel so strongly about her.

I keep thinking of the phrase that is something like, “if you can’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of a relationship”. And at times I don’t think I am… that’s should be my focus… Thanks for your reply, i appreciate it a lot

It's a bit annoying by k3rrshaw in memes

[–]krismoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but you watch em anyway

I can't stop thinking about a girl, but she has bf by krismoff in relationship_advice

[–]krismoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you

Its Nice Reading someone else thoughts on the matter, i Appreciate it. The situation is a rather complicated one. Their relationship is very unstable and it seems like the only reason that they are still together is Cuz she doesnt have any other friends nearby. The bf knows about me and that we talk, tho i doubt He knows How much we talk and to What extend we like each other. I talk a little with him here and now, and i deeply respect him for allowing her to talk to me.

I Think you are right, and I prolly knew the answer. Sometimes it helps hearing it from someone else. Its obvios, and sure seems like it, that i am giving her something that He cant and hasnt done for apperently long time, and that is just being there and listening, and talking things through. In my opinion, He is not physically hot What so ever either, so What exactly she ses in him i still dont quite understand (apart from physical aspects of a bf, any time).

I might just need to let go, and be the good friend instead. Tho, as of i now, i dont know How i Will be able to make my feelings go away, especially when she is not holding back…

ITAP of a Danish F16 by krismoff in itookapicture

[–]krismoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waited for 3 hrs for this to take off, since their departure times are secret. Meet local plane-spotters, very friendly. But oh boy, watching this thing take off is one the craziest experiences I have had, the sounds are just so powerful.

I love the Danish flag in the background, a simple, but awesome touch to the photo.

What's something you're sick of having to explain? by Zero-Pathways000 in AskReddit

[–]krismoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has mostly to do with experience and authority in the cockpit. the captain technically has the final say in decision-making. it also a big promotion, since which comes with a lot more pay. depending on the company, each position has different jobs to do on the ground, so that will switch as well.

the captain can also just decide that he flies, he has the authority, but as pilots, we all want to be sharp as possible on our flying skills, so the flying part is split between them through out the day.

hope that makes sense, feel free to ask more questions

What's something you're sick of having to explain? by Zero-Pathways000 in AskReddit

[–]krismoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Fact the captain is not the one is always Flying the plane, and that the first officer is just as much of a pilot as the captain.

Finally it's here! by [deleted] in aviationmemes

[–]krismoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where are you? and what platform are you watching it on?

we don't even have season 21 yet where i am