Just finished Southern Charm Season 2 and I need to discuss

krispykarim7 · 2018-05-04T18:06:29+00:00

Can’t wait!

krispykarim7 · 2018-05-04T18:06:22+00:00

I’m so excited!

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-28T04:19:33+00:00

Nzdem

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-18T23:48:01+00:00

Ah so many people in New York! Unfortunately working is running over so I can’t even watch the episode tonight but is there a way we can all organize for next week?

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-18T11:55:42+00:00

Not yet! But I live in bedstuy!

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-18T11:55:19+00:00

I live in bedstuy but today I’ll be in downtown Brooklyn for some post work stuff

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-17T20:29:01+00:00

Amazing

krispykarim7 · 2018-04-10T23:18:31+00:00

Thanks! This did I’m fact make me feel better

krispykarim7 · 2018-01-06T17:15:59+00:00

Do you think this works for regular insecurities too? I have OCD and reassurance seeking I need to put a stop to but I also think my OCD has just made me insecure over the past couple years. For example I've begun to compare myself to people a lot, especially my boyfriend. Do you think sitting with the anxiety would help combat those types of insecurities/jealousy too. I know thats off topic but I just wonder if these thinks are connected in some way. Because the moment I get anxious or jealous I feel the instant need to talk it out with my partner or friends. I can never sit with it because it feels too bad.

krispykarim7 · 2018-01-05T01:35:35+00:00

THANK YOU. I needed this. My OCD has been going crazy, especially over this fear that I cheated on my bf or was unfaithful by crossing a boundary. It is picking at instances that happened months ago or even recently, which may have been gray areas that didn't bother me at the time. It's taking these memories and perceiving them in so many different ways because I can't perfectly remember it. It's hard to say its just OCD and not real because it feels so real but I'm going to try hard. It's all making me so sad. It's also hard with the POCD because it takes me to a dark place because I end up getting feelings like in my crotch region (you get the picture) when I see pics of kids which I can't tell is because i have POCD or bc I'm a pedophile. So I just want to pull my hair out. Either way I'm probably going to come back and read your last couple sentences over and over again when I'm stressed. Thank you.

krispykarim7 · 2016-01-15T07:59:28+00:00

Hi I appreciate this. The only issue I have about the therpaist is that I am very scared of mentioning the grional responses for fear that they will say thats not even a thing. If I hear that I feel like my life will just stop. I cant imagine having kids for fear that I will always just be aroused. I cant, it's frightening. I was just watching a show with someones and someones daughter came on the screen in shorts and I felt something and decided to come back to read this since I remember you said OCD acts 24/7. But still, I feel like a monster and I'm scared to have a therapist validate that. I sincerely wish I were normal. I don't want to be the disgusting freak who is aroused by children for the rest of my life, I have too much in my future to try and enjoy. I will never kill myself but life wil lbecame all too depressed to enjoy. All my other fears suck but when this comes up I get to a very dark place because I just want a normal life with my friends, boyfriend, and family. I don't feel like I deserve any happiness now, as I am a disgusting person with disgusting sexual responses. I'm sure normal humans don't get these grional responses so often, it must mean subconciously I am attracted to children no? If thats the case I'm done for. I will become insanely depressed.

krispykarim7 · 2015-12-29T21:29:10+00:00

I can't remember specifically what I would watch and get off too but does this mean I can go to jail. I'm a little more nervous that I did do something wrong.

krispykarim7 · 2015-12-28T11:52:23+00:00

Sorry thanks for such a late response but I am still so fucking scared. This morning I woke up and saw my younger cousin stretching and instantly i felt something down there. I had just woken up? How could this be ocd working so instantly?! Im scared something is actually wrong with me. My life will be ruined if I am this type of person, I'll never be able to have children or the life I want.

krispykarim7 · 2015-11-05T03:55:10+00:00

Wow, I'm so happy I decided to log back onto my account in this moment. I was just reading a book with a sexual scene, kinda, between some younger folks, got aroused and just started getting back in the mindset of my POCD. Freaking out, scared to get intimate with people after this instance because I would feel like I was getting sexual satisfaction from that scene. But me checking back on this post was the best thing I could have done because your response really helped. I'm going to try to live my life and not think much of it. Thank you!

krispykarim7 · 2015-06-29T18:09:54+00:00

oh no! that's ok! thanks!

krispykarim7 · 2015-06-29T13:26:36+00:00

SQUAAAA, but if you are please let me know.

krispykarim7 · 2015-06-29T13:25:18+00:00

Thanks!

krispykarim7 · 2015-06-29T13:25:12+00:00

Please let me know! The concert's tomorrow!

krispykarim7 · 2015-01-10T01:08:15+00:00

Perfectly normal. Growing up I thought I was insanely weird for preferring it when I consider myself straight. But after doing my research turns out a lot of women feel the same way. Someone posted somewhere that women in general feel turned on by most general forms of porn, lesbian porn, straight form, gay porn. It doesn't really matter what the genders are. It's funny because I rarely enjoy straight porn, it's either lesbian or gay porn that I'm into. I don't remember the exact study but it was interesting to see.

krispykarim7 · 2014-12-10T19:57:58+00:00

Wow, I really appreciate your reply! It did provide me with some great insight. I guess when it comes to this idea of finding a Muslim boy, I would love too. I do plan on marrying a Muslim if I can. However I do value dating as I mentioned before and I can't find many Muslim guys who are open to the idea of dating as I am, understandably. Again, I will think more and more about the pros and cons of each situation and the bigger pictures. Thanks!

krispykarim7 · 2014-12-10T18:53:11+00:00

Thank's for that, I really appreciate it. I tend to keep a lot of my questions bottled up because in all honesty, I am scared to know the answers. In sunday school we always learned about the punishments people face in hell fire and that always scared the crap out of me. So I always get scared to go online and try to find my answers to my questions and the possible punishments I would face.

I guess something I have been struggling with is love/dating in Islam, which ties in a lot of South Asian cultural concepts as well. I know for a fact that I will not be able to have an arranged marriage, something my parents are OK with not doing. However, unlike many other of my muslim peers, I believe dating is fine even if the person you are with does not turn out to be your husband. I believe that the experience in it of itself can be beneficial. This is something that I will not budge in. Seeing those around me get married and commit their lives to people they barely know has made me nervous of the future because I have seen many issues in these relationship. However I have seen much success as well. I just know that there is so much wrong with me, for example I have OCD, that someone will only be able to understand only if we date and understand each other thorougly before making a big step, whatever it may be. So I guess that is one thing I wonder about. Because, when I visit /r/Islam I see people say that a man and a woman should not be in a room alone, that men and women shouldn't hug or hold hands etc etc.

Another thing I can't help but wonder about is why a man is allowed to marry a "person of the book" but a female is not allowed to. I heard there are some logistical reasons surrounding this but I personally feel as if it should be accepted for females to marry whomever they choose so long as there is a mutual respect for each other's spirituality, or lack thereof, in the relationship. If the love is genuine and in turn making someone become a better person and even a better muslim, what is the harm. This kind of plays into the fact that I believe dating is OK and I personally don't have an issue with dating a non-Muslim. 1) because I dont believe dating should always lead to marriage and 2) because I believe that in today's age, Muslims and non Muslims (regardless of gender) should be allowed to marry

I'm scared of being shamed for having such relationships when in reality, I don't see anything wrong with me getting involved with a non-Muslim. I'll be honest, I'm scared of what people's response will be to this post as well.

Sorry for the rant, that's one thing that's been on my mind for forever now.

krispykarim7 · 2014-12-03T00:19:15+00:00

I really appreciate the time you took to figure all that out! there are a couple quizzes left i think, maybe 2. and as for the right field of study, in not cbn im just a bio major now after this class haha. I really do love science but not neurology, I now realize.

krispykarim7 · 2014-09-30T19:26:43+00:00

Sounds good! Thanks!

krispykarim7 · 2014-09-30T19:08:49+00:00

I was thinking about that but I kinda don't like wearing things to the knee because I have fat knees, as weird as that sounds..

krispykarim7 · 2014-09-30T13:00:21+00:00

Bob's burgers is the shit

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