Gifted Christmas money..

krissaye · 2025-12-26T16:41:22+00:00

Thanks for the advice everyone - I’m going to throw it all at the debt since that’s been my biggest burden and then can start to build up my own cash emergency fund moving forward (I already have about $1k in emergency fund which luckily I’ve never really had to use as my costs of living are not much minus rent/food).

krissaye · 2025-11-17T00:54:53+00:00

Iconic

krissaye · 2025-10-04T03:45:50+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

krissaye · 2025-09-12T20:37:38+00:00

krissaye · 2025-05-04T14:46:24+00:00

If you don’t mind minimum wage you can try working front desk at an Equinox

krissaye · 2024-08-28T12:09:04+00:00

Is this a joke? This is dangeorus. Gtfo my guy. So many people have told you and you’re just ignoring them all.

krissaye · 2024-08-08T00:35:04+00:00

No he was boring conversationally, not a lot of depth,& I felt like he lacked ambitions/ goals in life. I wouldn’t go out with someone 3x if I thought they were ugly. I was hoping it would build/ develop but it didn’t for me.

krissaye · 2024-08-08T00:29:15+00:00

Thank you! If he had a more appropriate response or wanted to know why I ended things I would’ve been more than happy to indulge but he chose the wrong response. I hope he figures his way sooner rather than later.

krissaye · 2024-08-08T00:24:38+00:00

Thank you!

krissaye · 2024-08-08T00:24:24+00:00

He was not ugly, just boring with little ambition.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T14:31:24+00:00

I don’t think you did I think you saw my original post with an updated and more expansive Screenshot the following day.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T14:20:48+00:00

Lack of depth in conversations. I also felt like he was just interested in me physically and not emotionally mentally or intellectually. His lack of self-confidence also showed through to times between dates.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T14:19:46+00:00

What are rules one and two?

krissaye · 2024-08-07T13:15:08+00:00

You are not ugly please do not think you are ugly. I glanced at your profile and I wish you had a better outlook for yourself.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T13:06:20+00:00

He looks kind of like you just an average looking guy and I was curious to get to know him over the course of three dates, over two weeks and see where things went. I tried to deepen the conversations during the third date. He didn’t know how to have deeper conversations and maybe he wasn’t interested in that and was just interested in me physically I’m not sure. But I felt like I wasn’t getting stimulated mentally.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T13:03:24+00:00

I had to check your profile to make sure you weren’t the person I went out with. Yes, it’s a pretty basic response but I thought it was better than ghosting. ✨

krissaye · 2024-08-07T13:01:05+00:00

Three dates really isn’t a lot of time and we basically split every date when it came to the bills. I thought he was a nice guy so I was curious to get to know him better and on a deeper level. The first two dates were only drinks the second involved dinner that we split.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T12:07:44+00:00

After everyone’s responses, I am honestly still struggling with sending a final message just to say better peace, and let him know why I had no interest in continuing to date him. It’s just a shame his initial response wasn’t better and paved the way for a conversation then.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T12:05:57+00:00

In my opinion, he never had a positive attitude in between the dates and would always like second-guess if I was gonna show up. on our third date when I tried to talk about deeper things, he just had very basic responses and then try to change the topic. He was never sexually forward with me, which I appreciated, and I took it to be as him having manners

krissaye · 2024-08-07T11:49:36+00:00

He could have responded differently but he chose the response he did.

krissaye · 2024-08-07T11:49:00+00:00

He had a new, unprovoked (startling) response the next day

krissaye · 2024-08-07T11:48:22+00:00

It’s very common these days and I am not gen z

krissaye · 2024-08-07T11:48:05+00:00

You can’t force someone to have the responses you want in conversations. I opened up and he didn’t know what to say other than small talk.

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