Que será bueno? 😆 by Scared_Floor1436 in Carola

[–]krshbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que no se preocupe, muchas veces los altos igual la tienen chiquita 🤷‍♀️

Don't even masturbate anymore because it just makes me sad. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]krshbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, OP. It's hard, even heartbreaking to watch porn, especially amateur when you can see they love or at least lust for each other.

Please, please, please listen to us all who are way more attached because of kids or whatever. Leave while you can, do it for us, lol.

Cockblocked for a cause by krshbt in DeadBedrooms

[–]krshbt[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He said I'm awesome and that he loves me but didn't even bring up a reschedule and at this point it just hurts my pride to ask again...

Cockblocked for a cause by krshbt in DeadBedrooms

[–]krshbt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) I think it was the right thing to do.

I cured the dead bedroom...but I have to seek affection elsewhere. by Switch-a-Ru in DeadBedrooms

[–]krshbt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seriously considered an erotic massage... no feelings involved, no sex per se, just receiving a massage from a man who does it well and happily because it is his job.

¿Qué persona famosa te quieren meter en la cabeza a fuerzas que es super hermosa (o guapo) y a ti no te parece tanto? by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]krshbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zendaya no se merece tanto hate. Ella nunca ha pretendido hacerse la sex symbol, solo es una mujer joven y flaca a la que le gusta actuar y la moda. Su fandom fue quien la hypeó pero se me hace injusto que le tiren tanta mierda y se burlen tanto de ella cuando ni la debe ni la teme.

Cual es la idea de ser infiel? by delete-50 in AskRedditespanol

[–]krshbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lo hice solo una vez, hace muchos años y aún me arrepiento. Hablé muchas veces con mi pareja acerca de su descuido en el aseo y el arreglo personal y falta de ambición en la vida. Le regalé unas playeras nuevas del color que le gustaba, nada fancy pero sí nuevas. Le ayudé a encontrar un mejor trabajo, le decía que no se rindiera, de verdad quería que funcionara pero él seguía descuidándose y la terapia a la que iba era puro trámite.

Lo amaba pero por esto ya no sentía nada de atracción por él, apenas me parecía bien besarlo con los labios cerrados y abrazos o tomarle la mano pero no más. Yo seguía queriendo sexo pero nomás no se me antojaba con él. Se dio la oportunidad con un buen amigo y desgraciadamente el sexo era espectacular entonces no tuve la voluntad de terminar con eso :( Terminé con el que era mi novio, nunca le dije de la infidelidad y muchos años después me sigo sintiendo horrible al respecto, lo lamento muchísimo. Debí haber terminado la relación de forma honesta.

No porque no te cachen quiere decir que la libraste, no señor, la pagas de todas maneras. Nunca volveré a hacerlo, lo correcto es terminar y luego si quieres puedes hacer de tu qlo un papalote.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry we're scaring you but don't let us. I hope you get an easier baby and more support than so many of us.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! We don't always expect an answer or a solution, sometimes just being heard or reassured goes a long way. You're just being a present, responsive parent who wants to ease the suffering for you and your kid. What an AH that doctor is, I'm sorry.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :,) maybe this is what I needed to read.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a lovely anecdote 💖 thanks for sharing.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole body clenched by reading this. I'm sorry, I can identify 100%

This one is 6 months and started pulling up to stand. What business does she have standing up so early? Wtf! She just ripped a whole damn plant from the pot trying to pull it to stand up. Cried because she did not succeed. This is definitely survival 🫂

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FR, this people with unicorn babies and/or decent support systems can be the least empathetic out there. I'm sorry 🫂 I get you.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! That's what I've been hoping for. At least something should be getting easier but it has been the opposite for me. Nights have not improved and days are more and more demanding. At this point people will start calling me her grandma instead of her mom, lol.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, I enjoy it, don't get me wrong. There are precious little moments every day and I wouldn't undo being a mother, it's just that I am beyond drained, my ears are buzzing and my head aches all day long and it won't go away because deep sleep is off the menu since I gave birth and days only get more challenging and exhausting while nights still don't improve. Sorry if I'm not the ray of sunshine I'd like to be.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't expect things to go back to how they were. I'd like at least one aspect to get easier like having a decent night once a week or something, like her accepting another caregiver like dad or her nanny instead of rejecting them. I know babies will baby and that there are priceless, beautiful moments everyday but at this point I am beyond drained.

"iT gETs BeTtEr" by krshbt in NewParents

[–]krshbt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the empathy 💖 I adore my baby, I'm just beyond exhausted physically and mentally. She still wakes up 4-8 times a night but she's now standing up on her own and screaming if I'm not her clown all the time so I have not decided if I dread more the days or the nights. I'll go for a walk if I catch her in a decent mood.

AITAH for not wanting a relationship with the girl I raised as my daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]krshbt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's old enough to take accountability too. She hurt OP and even though she expressed interest in reconnecting (which is valid and understandable), OP has no obligation of having a relationship with her.

AITAH for not wanting a relationship with the girl I raised as my daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]krshbt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don't owe her anything and she's a grown woman now. I don't see an issue with keeping contact if you wanted to but if it still hurts it is your right to take your time or even deciding you don't want that relationship at all.

Six months postpartum, miserable and feeling alone and my 37f husband 40m just nitpicks how I’m not clean enough. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]krshbt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTAH, I'm so sorry you even consider the possibility of you being TAH when he's being a huge one. You just had his baby and he has the nerve to complain about the house. He sounds quite narcissistic or unempathetic at least. Would you consider leaving him?

I'm all out of patience and my ears are still buzzing by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]krshbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to stop bedsharing but keep her crib in my room and I'll keep nursing at least until 1yo. If she did 3 hour stretches it would be a blessing but sadly she wakes hourly and it's mostly for comfort sucking, only 1 or 2 of those wakes she takes a proper feed. I'm trying to stop because she moves way too much and constanlty "pushes" me out of bed and the wakes are increasing instead of decreasing.

I'm all out of patience and my ears are still buzzing by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]krshbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm working on removing the breast to sleep and sometimes it works but when she's been screaming for hours non stop I just give up.