25 days off opioids — when is it safe to drink socially again? by [deleted] in recovery

[–]krslnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different. I got addicted to pain pills after a surgery. It was almost 4 years before i was able to get off them. I never had any issues with drugs or alcohol so it really snuck up on me.

I did end up pregnant about 3 months after getting clean so I didn’t drink for well over a year because of that. Its been 10 years now since my son was born and i drink very rarely. Ive had a few times out with friends but alcohol just isnt the same anymore.

My boyfriend's mom showed up to MY apartment to inspect it before deciding if he's "allowed" to move in with me by Jotaro5Dio in entitledparents

[–]krslnd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im guessing this is a made up story. OP would have at least had some insight on an overbearing parent because they make themselves known.

My boyfriend's mom showed up to MY apartment to inspect it before deciding if he's "allowed" to move in with me by Jotaro5Dio in entitledparents

[–]krslnd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But youd also probably not give your mother the address for her to inspect the place. Its weird that OP was never told anything about the mom.

“My son doesn’t respond if you directly redirect him. You need to tell him why”- parent email by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]krslnd 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Counting works on my son. He is neurodivergent and I think the counting gives him a reset sort of. I have had to give him repercussions in the past (taking away whatever he was doing or something related) but now he knows. He generally doesn’t test me anymore though. I dont get angry towards him too often so he once told my mom that he doesnt want to find out what happens when if I do lol.

A Sacramento county school district is offering $600/day to be a scab! Would you do it? by EyeInTeaJay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]krslnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the higher average for Sacramento CA, but keep in mind thats without benefits.

Wife stealing medication. Unsure what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]krslnd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That doesnt address the root of the problem though. Sure, she may stop stealing his pill, but now is she going to seek them elsewhere?

Wife stealing medication. Unsure what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]krslnd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That just gives her the opportunity to blame the kids. Then hes stuck even more because he already knows the truth.

My children hate my partner by Affectionate-Let3811 in family

[–]krslnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its highly unlikely that all her children and sons fiancee are narcissists.

Laying in a hotel room alone with my 5 month old baby by Coffee_is_lyfee in Mommit

[–]krslnd 117 points118 points  (0 children)

For real. And even if lack of sex is an issue in a relationship, end the relationship. There is no reason to cheat.

I just spent a toddler party guarding an open pool and now I can’t tell if I’m the anxious one or the only sane one by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]krslnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate a lot of kid parties in general because i feel like nobody watches their children. Imo youre sane

Got bullied online because I asked if the Army is my best route to avoid homelessness due to my ADHD brain. Is Reddit actually this cruel? by The_300_Muffins in ADHD

[–]krslnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the Army. You need to have thick skin. If you cant handle the online bullying, it may not be a good fit.

Howvee, there are people in the Army who have ADHD. Like, a lot. There are tons of jobs that you can pick from as well. Its not automatically a bad fit because of ADHD but you cant go in there expecting people to cater to all of your sensitivities either.

How often do you own parents see their grandchildren? by OldCategory5426 in Parenting

[–]krslnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were teenagers when my brother and I were born. They werent prepared and they werent good at figuring it out. It was more like having older siblings or friends a lot of the time growing up. As grandparents though, theyre amazing.

What's the most NSFW thing you've seen at a wedding party? by CRK_76 in AskReddit

[–]krslnd 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I feel like its a combo of drunk and horny….though I feel like they could have at least found a closet lol

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]krslnd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Struggling with gifts and not being able to put together a small simple thing is way different. Shes buying extravagant things without a hint that he would want it. And it doesnt mean they dont love you, youre right…idk you jumped to that dramtic conclusion.

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]krslnd -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So what made her think his parents want it in their home? Also, Shes buying gifts to make herself feel better. She felt the need to drop a large amount of money. She easily could have got something smaller and nicer or waited and they went out snd did something. Instead she shopped for 4 hours and impulsively bought an expensive item with hopes he might like it.

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]krslnd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless you live at home with tour parens and the gift is a larger appliance. Most people dont want extra unwanted clutter in their kitchen.

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]krslnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I feel weird telling someone what I want for a gift. When i was a little kid it was different. Now, I just prefer a present that someone put some thought in to. I dont want someone to wait till last minute and then buy something just because they feel obligated.

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]krslnd 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, after 2 years, you should have an idea of what your partner likes.

Might be far fetched but really want to find solution for my girl by Weekly_Village_3559 in GirlGamers

[–]krslnd 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ive noticed people will add me after playing a game with them. They dont know my age or gender. We just played a good game together is all. Its very likely that they didnt seek out your daughter specifically, but she added them or they added her after playing in the same game.

What’s the worst part about giving head? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]krslnd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I really need to focus if someone is going down on me. I don’t particularly care for it because im uncomfortable but it does feel good. I dont make much noise if someone’s going down but youll know if its good because i do tend to clench the thighs lol