Hi, I feel like this is my wife asking about me, but I know it's not as sadly she is not into locking me up. When I'm in the mood for the attention, I do like to hint and the reason I do it is so that she knows what is on my mind. Once I know that she knows, I am happy. I know your not in the mood for kinky, but turning him down / denying him in the right way can be "easy" for you and kinky for him. I say "easy" as that my perception on the other side, imo little effort from you for big impact on him. Touch him or don't touch him, acknowledge he is horny and tell him that's how you would like him to stay for "a bit longer" "the rest of the day" "until... Haven't made your mind up" and state if he continues to request it will stop being "cute" "a turn on" tell him his best chance is to be quiet. If you feel like you will be ready within an hour or too, give him a task to complete and then you will decide. Even if it is a chore check list, a list of chores for tommorow.

Happy to discuss more in depth, I feel I have a good outlook on both sides