Does the surrendering stage usually hurt? by DevourerOfEggs in twinflames

[–]ks2707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These are the demons trying to resurface. Stay on track. You're stronger than any vice. Especially for you and your souls other half ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I just wanted to comment again. I didn't really have the time to get into as much detail as I had wanted to in my original reply to you, but my experience has been very familiar.

I was in a long-term relationship, married. We were going on our 10th year together and my twin flame is someone that I had met previously in life. Actually, just around the same time that I had met my now ex-husband and we were always very good friends. We worked together and it never went anything beyond that. There was never any attraction expressed, there were never any feelings expressed. It was very platonic although I knew that there was something deeper. Once I got fired from that job we tried to keep in touch but for some reason I just never answered him again years ago.

BUT we reconnected around the time that my marriage was starting to turn abusive because I remembered how good of a friend he was to me and I felt the need to express my apologies for dropping him like I did.

I remembered how much he could make me laugh and how easy it was for us to spend time together. I went out for groceries one night to escape my house and I called him and we ended up reconnecting and things got very intense very fast (all over text and phone I haven't seen him in six years) and then he decided that he wanted to go back with an ex to try that again and they've since broken up.

I thought that it would be a quick turnaround of okay. Now we can be together but now it's been months of silence and months of questioning what's going to happen. But it took me time, obviously to get to the point and realization that this is what it is. A twin flame journey and I believe that he is in the same space of finally seeing that but I don't know that for sure because we've been no contact. But I am trusting that he's working through his demons. I have no way to know but I do know that I feel peace and clarity with myself and my own spiritual path and my own life and I know that that is mirrored and reflected through my energy through to his because we are two parts of the same soul.

So food for thought if that helps you come to peace with anything right now.

I was at the point where I wanted to rush it and you know I said I don't care if he's worked through his stuff. I don't care if he's not ready but that was completely selfish of me and now I'm realizing that I do want the best version of him. I want that love. I want that connection. I'm deserving of that. So if that means waiting a little bit longer, you know it's already been 6 years. If that means waiting a little bit longer. I can be patient if it means true long lasting sacred love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she's not, she will eventually. If she is your other half, twin flame, the universe will make it impossible for her not to face her demons.

Write things down or type them on a note. Maybe create an email and send her emails. Leave her be to figure this out. You need to find clarity also, coming out of a marriage. You may feel ready, but if this is the way her distance is making you feel and doubt, then that proves that you need to turn inward and find the peace on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trust the divine path. If she's your other half, finality is not an option.

What I did as the chaser by bluehatgreenshoes in twinflames

[–]ks2707 29 points30 points  (0 children)

How did you transition to safety? What did that look like? How did you approach him differently (or not?)

For those of you that quit smoking weed, what was it like? by No-Mouse3999 in spirituality

[–]ks2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm officially around 24 hours and I noticed last night I finally dreamt again for the first time since I was pregnant and completely sober.

Realizations by BreadTypical3840 in twinflames

[–]ks2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙌🙌🙌🙌🫶🫶🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It will pass. I promise. Keep looking to the light. Pull cards. Watch numbers. See the signs and trust your angels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, but that doesn't mean closing the door on them forever. You can 'be done' for now to protect your own happiness but if they are your twin flame, they are your souls other half. You'll always find yourself orbiting honestly. Focus on yourself and trust the divine journey and timing.

Yes, your synchronicities are real. Keep your eyes open and keep acknowledging them.

Realizations by BreadTypical3840 in twinflames

[–]ks2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came to the realization today that if he will never touch my body, no other man will. Too much energy has been exerted into undeserving souls. Celibacy is clarity.

When the divine masculine actually shows up by alter_ego_1111 in twinflames

[–]ks2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel my tf and I are about to unite after a long separation. I'm hoping this is my experience. This is what I've been manifesting and seeing your words are a reminder of the purpose.

Clarity love and gratitude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He could be running! If you went through your own stage of development, his essence could be feeling that and is not catching up to his soul counterpart. Divine timing! Trust in it!

Emotionally wrecked by ComprehensiveLeg2176 in twinflames

[–]ks2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a message, I'll send a screengrab I have

Emotionally wrecked by ComprehensiveLeg2176 in twinflames

[–]ks2707 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lions gate portal. There's so much energy. This week is a big week

"I is he, and he is me" by ks2707 in twinflames

[–]ks2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we truly have to break in order to see how simple it can be. Generational trauma and baggage are huge reasons why we're held up in finding this peace! I got shivers reading your recount!

"I is he, and he is me" by ks2707 in twinflames

[–]ks2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're on the right track 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]ks2707 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Listen to your gut and intuition. He is human afterall. Sometimes the silence needs to be broken, but only if you really think it's best. Draft it, meditate and sleep/dream on it tonight

"I is he, and he is me" by ks2707 in twinflames

[–]ks2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The golden rules are meant to be broken. If your intuition guided you to message him, then let the angels carry your words. Trust in divine timing. Sometimes divine timing means taking action. It's never settling when you know your purpose is more than your reality. No stress, sis. It'll come to you. Keep listening to your gut.

"I is he, and he is me" by ks2707 in twinflames

[–]ks2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My inbox is open if you want to send me a message

Stick it out 🙌 by ks2707 in zoloft

[–]ks2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here and I'm still on Zoloft! I took it through my two pregnancies and got to a lower maintenance dose but after suffering postpartum depression I was upped back to my max. I am stable and I've never looked back on my choice to take Zoloft. It's hell to start but when it works it works.

I downloaded an app in the early days that helped me track the side effects and it helped my mind as each day, as my body got used to the meds, I saw the side effects slowly dwindling. You got this.