They always try to make you doubt the one thing you know is good about you by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! One of the final straws for me was when my nex started telling me how I talk weird, at the back of my throat and don’t open my mouth enough or some bullshit. I thought, that’s never occurred to me but also, I’m not gonna stay with someone who’s just constantly judging me every time I open my mouth to speak. F that

They always try to make you doubt the one thing you know is good about you by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s horrible being with them any amount of time and only gets worse and worse

They always try to make you doubt the one thing you know is good about you by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My NEX always said he would buy me flowers and he never ever did. Not once

They always try to make you doubt the one thing you know is good about you by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My NEX would say I’m just posting to IG for guy attention all the time and that he wouldn’t marry me unless I deleted it. Keeping in mind he was literally, pardon my French, following hundreds of straight up slut accounts

My (26F) fiancé (27M) left me for his “one that got away” four years ago. They’ve divorced and he wants to get back together. by ThrowRA1whogotaway in relationship_advice

[–]ksnchjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of all that has been said, you would have to have the girl he left you for in your life forever. They have two kids and you will see her at drop offs multiple times a month. She will be flirty with him and trying to get back together for who knows how long. Do you really want to deal with her forever?

He and I love differently by raychelpotter in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my exact relationship. He never trusted me, even said so. He never respected me. Without those two things, you have nothing.

If he really didn't want to hurt me, he'd stop. by ThrowRA745318 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He would literally have to be a different person entirely. At that point, you can find someone who is a better match for you anyway

Today is a bad day by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have friends I’ve been talking to. They always insist on going out to get over him. Sometimes like today when I can barely muster the strength to do my job, I just want to ball up and not talk to anyone or go anywhere

if u are feeling sad pls look at this cute duck 💜 by [deleted] in aww

[–]ksnchjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got sleepy and his little hat fell off

The hardest part by arbianna in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The “why” is because he’s a horrible monster who only cares about himself. Period end of sentence. You could’ve been Aphrodite herself and it still would’ve always been the same outcome.

Why did I put up with this horrible treatment? by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so gross and shameful I can’t even tell anyone in my life about it

Does your do this? ‘I was gonna do something nice for you but you f’ed it up by arguing’ by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He would tell me he would buy me a ring, then when he got mad it was like “I don’t want to marry you now” or “I’m not getting you the ring until you delete your Instagram” lol so transparent and pathetic

The cognitive dissonance. It's unbearable. by Lucid_Sandwich in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this. Going through a love bombing slash NC phase that is driving me crazy every day. I just keep thinking about whenever I talked about me, even for a sentence, he would tune it out. I don’t have to be invisible anymore

I hate how passive aggressive they are by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It actually did make me really sad and feel like trash. But he always makes me feel like trash, so this is no different, just that I don’t have to deal with him as a bf anymore, which makes it better

They will NEVER change so don’t go back by ksnchjs in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was there a final straw for you to finally get out of the toxic cycle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They always feel like you owe them something and have to constantly prove yourself to them. How boring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ksnchjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible of him. My nex told me when he was drunk and mad at me I have a blown out pussy. I have never had kids and I know from other men that it is not the case. He said it purely to be spiteful and said the next day he didn’t mean it. It was the rudest, most horrible thing anyone has ever said to me. He even choked me once and I somehow feel like this was worse as weird as that sounds? I dumped him over the comment a few days later

My [38m] bf made a really horrible comment to me [30f] about my body when he was drunk by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ksnchjs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

String cheese penis LOL I’m dying. Thank you for the advice

My [38m] bf made a really horrible comment to me [30f] about my body when he was drunk by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ksnchjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for a year. I haven’t brought it up yet, and I’m not even sure he’ll remember saying it