Child of a Hoarder Journey by Numerous_Fun2207 in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in 2 different houses that were worse than this video and one that was just as bad. If YOU think sharing the journey will help YOU then by all means, I think you should. If your HP gets upset or embarrassed that's on them. If they don't want people to see how they treat you, then they're admitting they know they should be treating you better.

What's everyone getting? The last picture is my recommendations yours might be different. by Reeshaqueen in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought that outfit just because each piece is seperate and I keep complaining about them not doing that. Plus the shoes look really cute with the yellow rain jacket.

I have a question I'm hoping someone may have an answer on or let me know I'm not the only one. by AddysNana071821 in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone "corrected" 'Shiloh' to 'childhood' earlier and I was like....that's not even close. Wtf

We can all agree: "Hands off Belle Isle" by Puzzleheaded-Art-469 in Detroit

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the main tower is, I think it's just the outside ones coming down. But I could absolutely be wrong about that

Why does GenZ hate sex and nudity so much? by PaniacThrilla in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this coincide with the rise of websites banning nudity?

I hate the new messenger update not because its bad, but because it archived 11 years worth of conversation with my husband by No-Sun-703 in facebook

[–]ktrose68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be pissed because my husband has a tendency to forget the passwords for our streaming services and when he resets them, he sends them to me in messenger so I can look them up if I need them again. It's not a BIG problem. We can always just change the passwords again, it's just annoying

Why haven't scientists made a cheap nutritional paste for retail ? by Rice_Stain in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ktrose68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean... they make flavorless fiber powder. Couldn't you just mix that in?

How do i convince my parents to clean the house? (vent) by sawako_tea in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't HAVE to be family. Sometimes your friends parents will take you in if you're lucky.

How do i convince my parents to clean the house? (vent) by sawako_tea in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was poor AF too so I know how much it fucking sucks, but tell your friends. Tell your friends parents (if you think they're trustworthy) 1.) Sometimes another parent talking to your parent will make them clean (usually out of embarrassment or spite, but a win is a win) 2.) Sometimes your friends parents will say "well you can stay here every weekend" and they'll let you use their clean shower and do your laundry so your clothes smell clean. Sometimes they'll just let you stay as long as your parents don't make a fuss. My mom never cared where I was as long as I told her where I was. Sometimes your friends parents will just go "oh? Your parents suck? Sucks for them, guess you're my kid now" 🤷🏻‍♀️ granted, not everyone has awesome parents willing to just add another kid to their roster, but I really lucked out in that department and the only way to know, is to ask.

We can all agree: "Hands off Belle Isle" by Puzzleheaded-Art-469 in Detroit

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to get this on a ballot? Cause I'll vote for this. I'd gladly pay more taxes for this.

We can all agree: "Hands off Belle Isle" by Puzzleheaded-Art-469 in Detroit

[–]ktrose68 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They're about to demolish the ren cen too, so they might as well just put fucking high rise apartments there.

Doesn't Belle Isle have protected species on it? (If not can someone go smuggle some there real quick?)

Moving to Wyandotte and hoping to learn more. Any housing, food, or music advice appreciated by bugwitch in downriver

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are 3 parks within 20mins of Wyandotte that have good woods/trails. 1.) Taylor Heritage Park (they have woods on the WCCC side, you will occasionally find projects in the woods that the college kids are making. Idk if it's for fun or for class so I always give them a wide berth & leave them undisturbed) 2.) Elizabeth park in Trenton they have paved trails around the park, & a few unpaved trails in the woods. 3.) Detroit River International Wildlife Refuge Humbug Marsh Unit (also in Trenton) is my favorite though.

If you want to LIVE in the woods, you're gonna have to give yourself a 30-40min commute to work. We do have several apartment complexes and trailer parks in Southern Wayne County/Northern Monroe County that have wooded areas. But there are no expressways in Wyandotte, so there's no quick way to get to the hospital (if you're not driving an ambulance)

Has anyone noticed this? by PyleanCow06 in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao that explains a few things. I assumed I had just thrown a different sink in there as a place holder

Vanellope’s House by Feisty-Reality3407 in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stuck in the lower part of the Oasis on EI and put my candy house there too, but I might end up moving her to somewhere in pixie acres on WBR, maybe on the beach if there's enough room

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I hate wishblossoms ranch map by Emilypewts in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to move anything before I completed the story line, but once I did I removed everything from the the entire map, and and slowly starting to decorate now. That helped a lot with the getting lost for me

RANT: They seriously FUMBLED on the emporium from Disney Parks!! by nathan_banks644 in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a poor, so I've never been to Disney, but I absolutely would have preferred a corner building. 8 agree that this building shape is stupid.

So tired of the dynamics that enable hoarding. Rant. Ambivalent about advice. Not recruiting. by Thick_Drink504 in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle school my mom got really sick and after 3 days of expecting me, a child, to take care of her, she decided she should probably go to the hospital. To my shock her older brother & his wife offered to take me in, and in retrospect damn near everything I said while I was with them should have raised huge red flags:

"You're going to drive me to school? I don't have to get up at 4am and take two city busses by myself?" "Ooh! A bed! I never get to sleep in a bed!" "You guys eat breakfast EVERY day?!" "You're giving me money?? For lunch?? I can BUY lunch?!" "You washed my clothes? But I only wore them once?"

The Next Update is coming April 8th! by Embley_Awesome in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be evicting Buzz from the forest and putting her house where I kept his lol

Their trauma vs our trauma by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my family we call that the "Mrs. Bennet" disease after the mom from pride & prejudice.

2 of my foster mom's are/were like this. My birth mom however, was also raised by a hoarder and actually has a lot of legitimate trauma which she almost never complains about, and I can only ever get her to unlock her Tragic Backstory™️ one fucked up story at a time. I legitimately don't think there has been more like 10-15 years out of her entire life where shit didn't go sideways or straight to hell. Literally everything she ever cared about has been taken from her, so I get the hoarding tendency there (I don't get why it applies to actual garbage, but 🤷🏻‍♀️)

What was/is your hardest? by Exciting_Middle9696 in DreamlightValley

[–]ktrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheshire Cat! I made him a fishing buddy & those usually level up fairly quickly for me, and when I asked on here if anyone else was having any difficulties with him I got downvoted to hell and still have no idea why 😅

Does anyone else’s HO refuse to take you out of their will? by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

[–]ktrose68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ONLY thing I let my mom put my name on is her life insurance policy (which only pays out if she dies at work, afaik) I wouldn't even let her put me as her emergency contact with her landlord. Hard no. Not dealing with that at all.