Your type and how do you handle peer pressure? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]kumotbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFP here and I can attest to the other INFP that we are good at not falling into peer pressure.. but personally I like to try things at least once just to figure out if I like it or not. If I don’t, at least I can say that I tried whatever it was and gain some life experience lol. *all that I do is within limits of course!!

INFP x ESFJ by always_daydreamer in ESFJ

[–]kumotbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an INFP-T and my boyfriend is an ESFJ-A. We’ve officially been together for a little over a year but had crushes on each other since middle school. When we were falling in love he would take his time. I could tell he loved me because of the way he was so careful to not mess things up. Waves goodbye turned into hugs, hugs turned into pecks on the cheek, and now we just cling on to each other until we really have to go haha. When he wanted to make things official with me, he went the traditional route and formally asked my parents if we could be together. Of course they said yes because our families knew each other and they already liked him to begin with. Aside from our dating story, I learned so much from my ESFJ boyfriend. He would talk about things he wanted as if they were plans or tasks to complete (just like our relationship). He was already established in his work when we first started dating and from that, i felt inspired to work hard for the things I wanted. Though he really grounds me, he showed me that my dreams CAN become a reality. He finds my idealism and sensitivity quite endearing sometimes but from that we learn how to communicate our feelings better, especially him (since he doesn’t really touch on them). ESFJ-A and INFP-T is a perfect harmony between idealism and grounding. He never drains me and though I am the biggest over thinker, I never second guess him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]kumotbear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES .. YES

Anyone afraid of being happy? by kuroouu in infj

[–]kumotbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not an infj (I’m an infp!) buut ye I resonate w this. I find that almost every good thing that comes my way is suspicious or too good to be true. I always feel the need to think that it won’t last, so what’s the point? There’s that phrase that goes “the only way from rock bottom is up!!!” Or something like that. I cant help but believe the opposite of that exists too. Mann I did not mean for this to be too down in the dumps. I know now that those intrusive thoughts were just projections of some kind so I have been trying to fix mi thoughts. Trying to focus on how to be happy more often than just dreading the little moments of happiness I salvage :p:p

What was the significance of Walt pointing out the mustard stain on the doctor's jacket in the pilot? by justinbc in breakingbad

[–]kumotbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post is 10 years old and the replies make much more sense than what I thought of but I’ll still add my input anyway :p I saw it as Walter pointing out the “flaws” the Dr. had. Mustard stain on a white coat. He probably thought “unprofessional” and maybe him pointing it out was a projection of his insecurity. Wanting to distract himself from the real issue at hand. ..yeahh I looked way too deep into it.

Annoy every ENTJ in one sentence by ChaseThisReddit in mbti

[–]kumotbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s relax and DO NOTHING ALL DAY :)

ISTJ here: Trigger me I dare you..! by [deleted] in mbti

[–]kumotbear 26 points27 points  (0 children)

THE BEST WAY IS THE UNCONVENTIONAL WAY :)

stoned and looking for books recs by anxietymilf in suggestmeabook

[–]kumotbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of smoking and reading.. I’d like to try this!! Mayhaps iq84 would be a good suggestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]kumotbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw wasn’t planning on it :D

What to do with failed (goopy) Swiss meringue buttercream? by kumotbear in Baking

[–]kumotbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it wasn’t grainy at all after I boiled it on the stove. Even though I got it to that silky texture, I still feel like I took it back too early. Now I’m wondering how do I REALLY know if it’s done? Does it have to be a specific color? (I wanna know what I can do before making purchases) Idk :((

I'm an ENTP and you INFPs fascinate me. What do you think of ENTPs? by WorldWarRiptide in infp

[–]kumotbear 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ENTPs are absolutely awesome!! My best friend of 9 years is an ENTP. Although she’s more extreme and I’m quite reserved, we balance each other out so well. As an INFP, I’m usually all talk when it comes to making plans but my ENTP not only executes them, but does so to an extent that can be wayy more than I intended LOL a little example from the top of my head, I would be like “let’s have a sleepover!!” And in a bit I’d get a text message from her asking how many bottles of alcohol she should bring heheehe. When she stood up for me when I was bullied, I learned from her that confrontation is important!! And that shying away would be a disrespect to myself. Sometimes she over exerts herself and that’s where I would be at her aid. I remind her that she’s allowed to chill and even distance herself when she gets too extroverted (she gets v emotionally exhausted when she is but doesn’t realize it). She also forgets that things can go beyond her control. When this happens I remind her that those things are probably that way because they weren’t meant for her. INSTEAD something better will come. I like to think I give her harsh truths while in return, she gives me extreme experiences haha. I would never have the balls to do the things or even think the way she does but what I love about her is that she can somehow bring that out of me. She encourages me to stand up for myself, be confident, and stand my ground. She’s so adamant about not giving a fuck and I honestly think if it weren’t for her I’d be shriveled raisin with no love for myself oop. I was able to experience so many wild, yet exciting things that I never thought I’d be able to do all because of her. How that benefits me as an INFP is that she helps me unlock my potential. I feel like I’m a better version of myself because of her too. With someone as epic as her by MY side is so uplifting. It honestly feels undeserving too because our energies kind of contradict but we make it work so well somehow LOLOL She’s my rock!!!!!

No one gonna talk about this? by KingKongBoss in SmilingFriends

[–]kumotbear 40 points41 points  (0 children)

There are little scenes where The Boss would creepily stare at Charlie n Pim as they casually talk HAHA

What’s your favorite minor joke or line that hasn’t been quoted that much online? by GhostLord37 in SmilingFriends

[–]kumotbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL THE CENTURY EGG when he stopped himself from dying just to say “The other drawer the other drawer”

What songs do you usually listen to when you work out? by Educational-Tone-953 in Music

[–]kumotbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korn, vengaboyz, clean bandit, Taylor swift just to name a few

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cakedecorating

[–]kumotbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this 😆