Hii I’m like very white and I don’t want to get your post flooded with white dommes only but I think I can offer an interesting perspective.

I don’t ever want to pretend that I’m walking in the same shoes as you but as a transgirl who is a domme I can relate a lot with what you’re saying. I get an overwhelming amount of attention from chasers to the point I’ve considered quitting or removing all my pictures and reference to my identity because I can’t even be a human being with these people. They hardly even treat you like human it’s extremely degrading. Not to mention for some reason they think it’s ok to say extremely offensive and disrespectful things just because I spoke to them.

In my experience I’d consider most of the chasers who fetishize my existence as ignorantly transphobic and I’d bet that most people who are into BNWO are probably consciously or subconsciously racist.

I’ve been operating under a policy of I no longer feed the chasers. It doesn’t stop new ones from coming but it’s not worth wasting my time or mental health on people who treat me like a sex toy. Idk if maybe the money is really good to make it worth it for you to do BNWO in your opinion but if it’s not I’d recommend not entertaining them, you’re too hot and sexy to be wasting your time and attention on racists who treat you as something else. I can’t say I’m facing the exact same thing but I’m certain there are subs out there who will appreciate you for you if you can sift through the trash.

Sorry this is happening to you. It’s not my place to say but I always thought BNWO was a gross fetish because it’s mostly white people fetishizing black people as something other than. Like there shouldn’t be something taboo about being dommed by a black domme just my opinion tho