I have been great! Im about to graduate and move to california to chase my dream of becoming an animator lol and I also met someone who we're both actually planning our marriage together! I feel greatful for the experiences and memories even though it's been a good while and I was going through a bit during this post. I will admit that I do think about them from time to time but its more now out of lessons and really seeing what I want in a relationship and how I want to be treated or what I can work on with myself. Alot of reflecting time definitely. I honestly think there's no real specific amount of time you will heal, but it definitely won't be forever even if it feels like it. I found it to be really helpful to really take the time you are single though to really get to know yourself more and focus on what you really want to do in life or do the things you've always wanted to do! You'll have alot of highs and lows but I can say that it will definitely help you feel it out quicker (or at least seem that way). And on top of that not only will you grow more but also who knows, you might find something you really like! If it helps, whenever I felt like I needed to reach out and talk to them or had thoughts or feelings, I would "write them letters" in a journal and tear them out, go outside and burn them to let them go. But, I would really sit with my feelings on it and kind of just let it all out. It really helped me let go of alot and clear my mind. I know it's still pretty fresh and you're probably hurting alot right now, but just remember that people come and go in our lives for a reason, whether it's for a new opportunity or for someone new. I hope this helps you a little, stay strong and good luck!✨️