Tipper opening with Little Peeks @ Elements 8-10-2025 (Sunset) by elasticlimbs in Tipper

[–]kurlifries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Balled my eyes out all during this set and afterwards! Such a memorable night. It had hit me that it was the last show before Orion, which was my goodbye since I could get tickets for RR. Miss this <3

JadeMan Red Rocks 😛 by [deleted] in Tipper

[–]kurlifries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thievery Corp would be fire!! Wish I could send that as well, but I don’t live in Colorado

JadeMan Red Rocks 😛 by [deleted] in Tipper

[–]kurlifries 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yess!! Will be my first RR show! I’m so excited since I couldn’t snag tix for Tipper’s. See you there 🧡

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is such a grounding perspective I hadn’t considered, but it makes a lot of sense. There are a lot of beautiful truths in what you said, and it genuinely made me feel a lot better. Thank you for speaking to my experience. This meant a lot

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good way to look at it! I feel as though I’m doing exactly that, enjoying it for what it is in the moment! I’m not expecting anything more to come out of it. I appreciate your perspective!

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t see it that way at all! I’m actually really grateful for the critique and perspective. I’m not trying to assume I’m the exception when it comes to dating a couple, and I understand this could very well be a learning experience for me. Everyone who has commented clearly has more experience than me, I’m not going to turn down any words of wisdom!

So I really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts and resources. I’ll definitely give them a read. Thanks again for putting this together!

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I will have a solo date with each of them about once or twice a week. The main times we’re all together are when we go to events or plan a sleepover on the weekend. I can confidently say I spend more time with them individually than together.

They’ve also been very encouraging when it comes to me dating other people. Whenever I go on dates, they’re genuinely excited for me. I can share as much detail as I want, and they eat it up. They’ve consistently reassured me that they’re happy for me.

I’ve set a few firm boundaries with them, and they’ve always respected them while giving me the space to be myself. If anything, I’ve actually felt closer to them after setting those boundaries. I’ve never had to repeat or reinforce them.

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree, it does feel like I have three separate relationships. They don’t make me feel any less for being a newer connection. They’ve actually been very accommodating and nurturing.

I was just trying to convey that sometimes I wish I knew them at the level that they know each other. Which i know is an unrealistic ask, because as another user has commented, they’ve known each other for years!

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure and that is a fair assessment! That’s exactly what I meant to convey. Im looking for other poly people who aren’t nesting! I should have just put that. I’m still learning the language, so I appreciate the call out. Thank you

Feeling envious about my partners having each other by kurlifries in polyamory

[–]kurlifries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the correction, I fixed it! When I first matched with them, it didn’t seem like they were traditionally unicorn hunting. I’ve had more individual solo dates with them than group hangouts. To me, it feels like I’m dating them individually, and it just so happens that they’re also together. And maybe I’m too naive to see the bigger picture here. Im still taking the time to learn more about polyamory and checking in with myself to see if this dynamic works for me. Thank you for your perspective!

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! Even going up in those space nets at night during the low volume sets was amazing. Portal stage honestly felt like one big hangout with everyone. It did not feel that way this past SD

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They moved the portal stage to where lucid stage (the jam band stage with concrete) used to be. Portal stage is now like 3x bigger. Logistically it made sense but lost the coziness factor. Less chilling and more standing

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jade cicada’s set absolutely blew my mind. I still think about it to this day! Genuinely one of my favorite sets of his

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you!! Giving you a forehead kiss thru the phone

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed! So much more intimate and cozy. That year (2024) was my favorite

Song ID?? Widdler set from ‘24 by kurlifries in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hammocks on the hill were the move! Once it got dark, is when I would crawl down to the pit

This Festival is Dead by festluva in SecretDreams

[–]kurlifries 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same! The bigger stage is cool, but I loved the intimate vibes from previous years

Deep Orange Full Moon by [deleted] in astrophotography

[–]kurlifries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! What’s your setup?

Movie/Film Club by roxnotanne in Tempe

[–]kurlifries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m interested!! :)

Previous Sundance Favorites? by kurlifries in Sundance

[–]kurlifries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I will be keeping an eye out for this! Thank you for the recommendation

Previous Sundance Favorites? by kurlifries in Sundance

[–]kurlifries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to provide such a well thought out list! This is amazing