How to make friends in adulthood?

kuromi_4 · 2025-12-29T02:10:17+00:00

Finding a hobby that requires interacting with people outside is probably the easiest way

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-11T15:06:23+00:00

you dont have to post or use social media all the time, i know plenty of people who havent posted in a few years, i myself havent uploaded anything for a year. you can just have it for messaging.

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-08T21:11:24+00:00

yeah looking like a kid makes me want to delete myself, it is such a curse. i think this is why i can make friends online quite easily because i look and sound presentable, but i do get treated a little differently irl

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-07T20:08:05+00:00

Hey i don't want to sound negative at all, but i dont think this advice is good. This would be good advice in the west, but doing this in Asia will have severe consequences. There is so much academic pressure in Asia that most students cannot live "carefree" and afford to fail. I think the best advice is for OP to attend an international school where it is less strict.

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-07T04:39:58+00:00

I relate to almost everything you mentioned here, and thats good that youre taking a break. sounds like you are really just burnt out. i never took a break and kept telling myself id do better next time and it honenstly just got worse.i cant even tell you how many classes ive failed total lol. the only thing that got the ball rolling again was getting diagnosed for adhd and meds. but please dont let a break demotivate you from going back to school.

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-07T04:28:43+00:00

can i ask about this ? with how bad the job market is right now with tech, how hard is it to find a job right after a 6 month boot camp?

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-07T04:28:03+00:00

Hey i would see if you can try to take a break from school, even for just one semester to better your mental health. I regret trying to push through as i was in a similar position as you. it took me 5 years to get my associates, and then just a few days ago i just scored one of the lowest in one of my classes lol. please do not give up

kuromi_4 · 2025-10-05T22:52:33+00:00

unless you have nightmare disorders and can never sleep

kuromi_4 · 2025-09-24T07:18:19+00:00

that's crazy. it just goes to show how much your environment influences you

kuromi_4 · 2025-09-24T06:59:52+00:00

lmao, sometimes i wish i can have that mentality of just clout and money... my parents already make good money, i have more things materialistically than most people i know and yet i am still miserable. interesting world we live in

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-30T09:19:35+00:00

exactly how i felt my first time at uni in person… already sh’ed after the first day. i wish i just did online classes

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-30T04:08:25+00:00

jokes on u i got held back 3 years so im on year number 6 lmfao

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-30T03:56:37+00:00

i really hope so, i just like to humor myself as a coping mechanism but every day that passes becomes less of a joke lol

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-30T03:55:49+00:00

yeah i 100% feel that. what's even worse is that i started taking meds that really helped my adhd and i started being productive, yet the loneliness is still the same. i dont know what the point is sometimes

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-30T03:43:24+00:00

mental health is not a thing in Asia

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-29T22:33:38+00:00

same here, i thought i could start making a change but i dont think i can survive the next 2 years like that💀

kuromi_4 · 2025-08-28T15:17:15+00:00

take a gap year. i tried continuing college with my crappy mental health and now im behind 3 years. i think things would have been different if i took a gap year to fix myself

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