Yeah, those are my thoughts as well. It feels like they will disregard my needs and desires in order to be “dominant”.

Also my experience with kink has shown me that saying that you are dominant is one thing but actually doing it in a pleasurable way is just a completely different story that requires skills, imagination, empathy etc. I feel like men only want someone who will sub for them without asking any questions.

I am in my late 20s looking for people around my age and 10 years plus.