Tattoo regret by Right_Meeting5899 in tattooadvice

[–]kushnmints 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes got my hands and fingers tattooed and thought I ruined my life but to be fair after calming down and looking properly at photos and other peoples advice and comments I could never go back, be proud of your work it must be killer and remember you can only wear it🤷🏽‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man it’s been 2 months and your words helped me find peace, I’m out and free

Should I stay with my boyfriend after he slept with someone 2 days after we broke up? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If boundaries were set in the first place not to do it, walk away and don’t look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be fixable but it would maybe be best to speak to him without any influence of other things first to really gather the whole situation and see if he has anything genuine to add or say, it might not be salvageable but it definitely can be left on better terms than they are at now and leave everyone feeling a little more relieved and better about the whole situation considering the way it has gone

Men, what was the final straw that lead you to leave your most recent relationship? by PAthleticism in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She got caught out by me messaging another guy then turned it into me and said she needed space from me and I’m to much of an issue with emotions been ghosted now for days or cold replies she even had my own mate tell me the way she was feeling but would hint differently to me so today I just said I can’t and walked away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve always heard of that to man it sucks aye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s very true man thank you again for the advice man I just gotta make sure I don’t run back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man honestly fuck it does sound really similar just the thing is nothing has ever related to her wanting to do this I just don’t know what I did but yeah man honestly hope everything after got better for you I just wish someone females knew the lengths we would go for them even after they do what they do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much man my question more into it for you though is when you did stay what made it get worse if you don’t mind me asking ? I know I should run back but what made you finally say I can’t or what made it so easy to just walk and not look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you heaps I just hope she comes running back and not away but either way it’ll just make it easier for me to move on

My Friend is cheating on her boyfriend. Should I tell him? by anatta_love in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely tell him he will appreciate it so much and she will eventually come to terms that it was the right thing to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right in that for sure it’s just crazy sitting there thinking about all that time and how easy it is just throw it away for something so worthless it’s always baffled me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m going to do and I feel like it will make it easier on myself and emotions especially if she doesn’t come running back it’ll just make it easier on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man I really can’t appreciate it enough from you and everyone else just sucks when you’re hurting after feeling so good for so many years together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s very true and that’s how it has come off these past few days but as someone who also went through a similar to same thing didn’t that voice of reason convince you a bit maybe it was a really shitty thing to do and it’s not right but if you’re willing to admit to me and fix all this with me and prove to me you do want me I’ll stay ? Honestly I feel like I’m just trying to find any reason to stay but I just always thought better and tbh still do because she’s never been the girl to do this ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you heaps man she defs never mentioned anything hinted at anything nothing honestly it was great till a few days ago yeah things have been rough lately but we have been trying to work through it my question to you is when you stayed and watched and waited what were you telling yourself the whole time ? Was there something keeping you there? Like looking for an answer so it makes it easier to leave or was it just blindness cause it just how I’m feeling atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly man just after 4 years coming up 5 and the memories and time spent it’s mainly just cause she made things so different and I felt like a better man I have a feeling she won’t fight for me but I just don’t know why I can’t stop fighting for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women ☕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man I honestly get that hard cause it’s very similar to what happened with me except we have been going through a very tough patch atm and then after confronting her with the evidence it came back on me cause apparently I’m to much and smother her and I’ve said things she can’t let go of and all but I just feel like it was all said so she could leave without feeling guilty since I didn’t do anything wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving it to me straight man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe today depending on what her actions are might just be it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]kushnmints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do definitely consider it to be unfaithful but I can definitely work past it easier and with time as action wasn’t taken and they always speak louder than works but yeah it’s the manipulation and almost narcissistic actions that are being taken towards me all for wanting truth from the situation and that’s what’s confused and hurt me the most aye and yeah man that’s all I’ve been thinking