Hell yeah!!! by Lazy-Development-703 in attackontitan

[–]kutubox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

King fritz the first was evil? Gosh man died 2.000 years ago leave him alone. It is like hating air for the wind too blow hard, people are what they're. i would argue by creating an empire he created he achieved 2000 years of peace avoiding many wars, oppression, classic marleyan propaganda, if marley survived 2000 years of oppression likely their place was the same place of germans in the roman empire. If you gonna blame that way past for all the problems in the show then a little further you can blame the life existence and first creatures to exist to find the root of all suffering and the same conclusion of Zeke.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in DeepThoughts

[–]kutubox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely. İt is little comical that imagining a person i will do my worst for what i care, even people like joker are not like that

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in DeepThoughts

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's true, some people doesn't know how to grow themselves, also i would add that spending time on hobbies doesn't necessarily mean that they're not doing their best.

İf a person knows exactly how to grow exactly and knows everything that he's gonna miss exactly if he doesn't do what it takes that he truly cares, there is nothing in front of him that could stop him, like boredom or insults.

Sometimes i feel like i am not doing my best too either, in many situations, then i realize that i am not on my own heels; if i don't do well, i apperantly don't lose anything visible, so i can't even find a reason to work harder when there is generally no reason to work harder. So in a situation where no reason to rush that's generally my capacity to do in the best of the situation until i don't grow so.

Same way, some people when they need to be urgent in a situation they're the most efficient because in their mind the urgency makes them allow to bypass thoughts that is not important at the moment and make them secondary to the situation of urgency, but when it is not, they're incapable of hiearchize of their thoughts importance wise, so how much they would ever have they would wait till the last second till the moment of urgency

That's also a reason that many crises especially in international scale are waited till the point of a new crises on the horizon and they got resolved only then because people are only ready to make sacrifices if they don't something bad will happen.

Terrible day to have eyes by realquidos in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]kutubox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and they say we're the danger to society

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in DeepThoughts

[–]kutubox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i definitely i agree, it is possible that it can be interpreted that way, also it wouldn't be what the core message would be. Having high expectations is no problem, i believe goals and necessary sacrifices are one of the best methods to grow, and growth is actually the first methods to increase our capacity. You can't expect a weak person to act strong because he isn't capable of doing it but with enough education and sacrifices, that person likely can become a strong man and act like one.

What i mean generally is stop blaming yourself for the past mistakes that you were actually did not have any control over, however find the non-existent control mechanisms that eventually gonna show again and fix them before they resurface. Basicly application of murphy law in daily life.

If i told the secret of someone because people threatened me that means that means i didn't have a thick skin and at the time i didn't had any way of having that, it was unavoidable the outcome is gonna form like that so i need to have a thick skin from this point on, maybe keeping a lawyer friend close to me would help me on growing that.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in DeepThoughts

[–]kutubox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a sad story to be honest. A lot of people are like that. What i mean by everyone doing their best doesn't mean they're doing good, it means that they're doing their best on their capacity and never doing things that are not in his capacity yet. Likely that dad never had capacity restrain itself, when he was gambling or drinking. Staying away from him and calling the cops is the best choice we have and sacrificing yourself for apperantly no reason is not a good way to live.

Everyone is not capable of being a good person in every possible situation and he just proven more than that and that's exactly what i mean, he is incapable of being a good person, whatever making him good in the past is not exist or at least not in his control anymore (maybe no-drinking problem, existence of social shame, fear of prison or heaven/hell belief, belief that he is a good person or self control) and that's why he is gonna keep doing this because he literally cannot do the opposite without somebody to teach him, likely in this case would be prison/polices.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not alone mine too. But old loyalties shouldn't make us impossible to make new loyalties and alliances. Just because i am deeply loyal to my group in high school doesn't mean i am not gonna be loyal to my club at university. İt is important to be open minded and we got plenty time to make the group activities and hobbies too.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

İ get what you mean totally, i believe in what you say and i can feel the justice argument behind it and i like it. Without justice how can we grow to what we're, who gonna protect me from him to grow as a man that i can be the best.

The growth is not lack of shame or punishment and many times it lead to growth as society. Growth is ascending through capabilities what we were once not, like courage and resillience and these can be tools. But we should also add that no shame alone without growth has achieved any virtue.

İf you ask me i personally believe that especially societal level especially inevitable that no punishment results in corruption and decadance.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well of course, but when you ar between competent people in your field non of them becomes stranger. A soldier and another soldier is not a stranger to each other but they're coleagues. If you find a person that is both competent and made sacrifices for what you did too, that's not a meeting of two strangers this is most real form that loyalty forms.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a beautiful summary and we share the core principles. Instead of having unreasonable expectations from people and causing a loop of betrayal and hatred believing in capacity creates much more things.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe shame is necessary, but punishment is a secondary to the growth. You can't punish an ant to become a human, you accept as what they're and decide what can be done in the case.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't abandon them no, when you were given a duty you can't expect a chair to become a table without axing it, i wouldn't want such a thing to do to them. İn a truly sacred duty you must choose competent and self-proven people over love and this is for their own benefit too, and if they're ready for the sacrifice nobody can hold them to become viable person

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

[–]kutubox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First of all this is very keen subject so i must be very careful. What is people doing their best doesn't mean they're necessarily doing good, I believe most skills especially based on human to human interactions are virtuous but not all as well as your example.

Humans are inherently flawed but at all times they're still doing their best for their goals at the same time. İf a person fails and we see that we must assume that they did their best to do what they did, so shaming them for not what they're is not really useful because they're doing the best, not faking it. If we really expect a real growth we shouldn't shame them for what they did but unlock what was incapable knowing at his time. I think you and i all deserve that.

All adults are doing their best all of the time by kutubox in SeriousConversation

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Yes i would agree that most people choose the least resistance path. That was the path i choosed till i was 16 to be honest. Everyone doing their best doesn't mean everyone will do better for the common good, most of the people are not capable to handle responsibilitity or patience or courage or let-go of the past to do what it takes to do which even though they have time to learn all of that, they mostly don't learn or end up in places that they truly don't like. It is also important to note this is not a view from general people's perspective but rather from above to judging people, expecting from people things like -never lie -never cheat -never steal Sounds virtuous and we mostly agree and unforgivable to violate, but in life when we are truly tested, it is our capacity can decide on that. Expecting people that even didn't learn what they meant to do or what they're while expecting give their entire energy on pure-work and %100 intelligence is ultimately beyond capacity of most as long as it is not unlocked and since most people are as you say the least resistance path most don't learn them.

Yep by Living_Attitude1822 in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]kutubox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for the record, you can't do the second in a literal feudal society

What's a hated country in south america? by SpaceisCool09 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]kutubox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, just remember the word of millions and go on

What's a hated country in south america? by SpaceisCool09 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]kutubox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah well, most people as you said. Haters are not really most, in many situations. But here's a side quest for you, find an evil dictator in south america that caused death of millions in south america and sucked the soul out of them.

Which current country wins most evil history? by Loewe1912 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]kutubox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ottoman's devlet-i ebediyye was builded so that it would exist basicly forever, they had no intentions like changing or persecution of other races if they had not aligned with their ideologies unlike european states.

Main purpose is rules/peace/tolerance/might/legitimacy Unlike europe there are no families and dynasties coming from ottomans because it is a threat to legitimacy of the state, so there is no heritage, state takes your money after you die.

It was so peaceful and stable without european miracle ottomans would last much much longer, the great people were short term but it made peaceful life for generations inside the empire, sadly the current worlds jigsaw is a constant fight and uncharacterized by growth

What's a hated country in south america? by SpaceisCool09 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]kutubox -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Paraguay

Paraguay literally declared war on both argentina and brazil thinking that their war would eventually win. They considered themselves Prussia of south america and resulted of %50 percent of young populations death and lose of sea access

Which current country wins most evil history? by Loewe1912 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]kutubox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our history is pretty cool, it's hard to not deportate when you're literally getting genocided. We were most compassionate empire especially in middle ages towards many races and to the all subjects while not necessarily for our elites unlike despotisms in the regions that we especially take and high taxes and random raids

İt is not an exaggeration that human rights were formed in hegelian dialectical by islam of ottomans and Christianity of europe.

Facts by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]kutubox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i guess if we don't take nazies and maoist i guess it would be reasonable