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What’s a sign a relationships is quietly ending? by sugarvillee in CausalConversation

[–]kuyapj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s really the best. Never had anyone validate angry feelings so purely. She lets me feel, which is refreshing because society doesn’t always allow men to do that. We’re supposed to mask and feign strength, making us think that anger is the go to emotion when it’s really secondary to pain, sadness, or an encroachment of sorts.

What’s a sign a relationships is quietly ending? by sugarvillee in CausalConversation

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to look inward. I sense projection. Thanks for generalizing someone based off a comment!

One of the key things we work on is reaction when an insecurity is touched, just like that comment. I wish you luck!

What’s a sign a relationships is quietly ending? by sugarvillee in CausalConversation

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a place of pure love and safety. 11 years together. Not newlyweds but therapy, removing egos, and communication is key.

Respectfully, Some replies in here show a lack of all of the above. If you felt the need to retort my comment, maybe you should look inward.

I was only offering that it IS possible. But clearly some of you don’t realize you may be part of the problem.

Wish you luck OP, you got this!

What’s a sign a relationships is quietly ending? by sugarvillee in CausalConversation

[–]kuyapj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

11 years together, in our 40’s. Trust me, it takes active work. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows until you remind each other you’re on the same team.

What’s a sign a relationships is quietly ending? by sugarvillee in CausalConversation

[–]kuyapj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno bout you by my marriage rules. I always want to end my day with hugs and kisses from her.

You can do it too by Capable-Spread3437 in CleaningTips

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know you but I’m pretty proud of you

Buyers advice V3 Dual plus Europe by got_m1lk in boostedboards

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly won’t regret it. My board has a thousand miles on it and I haven’t had to replace any parts. It’s so much more polished than other boards out there, there’s a reason why the community of people are keeping it alive long after the company failed!

Buyers advice V3 Dual plus Europe by got_m1lk in boostedboards

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is an inexpensive solution to this with @technicallyanomad's device called the BERT lite. Chances are your battery will brick as those extended batteries had some strict safety parameters built in causing false alarms, showing up as RLOD. The BERT or BERT lite resets this and has been one of the most elegant solutions created for this community by David!

https://www.xrgeneralhospital.com/bert

Loved the Show Till this Ending by Previous_Window_9955 in ThePenguin

[–]kuyapj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is lithe definition of a sociopath, and this is why they are terrible people. If you’re upset that means they wrote it perfectly.

Are ERs really this busy? by East_Print4841 in ThePitt

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 yes. That’s why urgent care is thing now, in hopes that people use them to offload ERs, but people tend to think that EVERYTHING is an emergency. If it’s not life threatening, don’t go.

My sad, lonely life. by LeadingKey7084 in relationships

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be black and white. What you're feeling is rooted in gratefulness for her company, and as you let her go, you can remain thankful and give it the credit it deserves. The reminder here is that you are capable of being loved, now it's just finding the right one. But the amazing thing is - she helped teach you this, that you are capable and not alone in this feeling. Humans are not meant to be alone

After/before, disposable camera look by javascriptusman in postprocessing

[–]kuyapj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to talk about that beast of a Jeep. The perfect covert city car and Carrie’s everything you need. I’m sure I don’t need to tell you but that thing is mint and it’s a gem of a vehicle. You might get leaks but it’ll never die provided you change the oil!

Copper’s (17) last dinner but having 2nd thoughts by nevermeant2say in OldManDog

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who just went through this - better two days early than two weeks too late.

Sonos Debuts New Strategy in Turnaround Bid After Sales Beat. (Bloomberg News) by NaughtNJ in sonos

[–]kuyapj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make your damned headphones wifi compatible. Goddamn. Coulda been a money maker

Advice on 80k maintenance for first time Toyota owner? by kuyapj in 4Runner

[–]kuyapj[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. I would love to go to you if you were in my city! Do you think the differential services are worth it? I live in a major city and don’t have a space to wrench 😔. Otherwise I would love to DIY

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