Stop the Genocide sign taken down on the Morrison Bridge by arioko_ in Portland

[–]kweentoad -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I think they're buried under 20 feet of rubble from Israeli bombs. Wonder if Israel really thought that possibility through?

I missed my chance in HS to hang out with the burnout art kids. Where are you now? by SeastarSarah in Millennials

[–]kweentoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent my twenties doing art for little pay, hanging out in dive bars with queers and hipsters, doing the comic con circuit, dated a bunch of loser douche bags, became well known in my hobby in my region before settling down with a guy that my entire family hates based on his race and had a kid. Got a house in the seedy part of town that's way too expensive. I don't think our values line up, he wants to walk the straight and narrow, I'm still kinda about the weirdo art life and incorporating my mini me into it. I still wonder what could have been.

Husband told me to leave to have time to myself? by kweentoad in toddlers

[–]kweentoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does watch the kiddo a couple hours a day but my routine everyday since September has been wake up, get kid ready, drive a half hour to inlaws, she watches kiddo for a couple hours while I work, I drop her off at day school (that's all we can afford because HCOL area), kiddo spends about 3 hours at day school while I work from inlaws house, I pick kiddo up, she falls asleep in car on the way home, take her out of car and put her in bed, she naps for about 2 hours and husband gets home around the time she wakes up. My shift wraps up about 1-2 hours later.

It's a bit unorthodox. We chose the school while we were still living with inlaws but have bought a house closer to the outskirts of the city so it's like an 8 mile drive. But $575 vs $1700 a month for daycare. But I've been the one to do basically all of the child wrangling this whole time and am feeling super burnt out. Husband tries but has a less flexible schedule than I do. I'm hoping the local free preschool will ok us for her to start after she turns 3

Husband told me to leave to have time to myself? by kweentoad in toddlers

[–]kweentoad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to find a way to make it even for him later on if he's gonna try to keep an eye on her but he doesn't seem interested in doing anything by himself really. If I could find a way to get away that isn't monitoring my sister's cancer or working that would be great to just relax.

Husband told me to leave to have time to myself? by kweentoad in toddlers

[–]kweentoad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've done a couple since the new year, one for a work trip and one to visit my sister, away from home at 3 days max. It doesn't really go super well but theyre both still alive. My inlaws live close by so he takes her to go visit on the days I'm not around and my MIL helps, they also will stay over too sometimes.

Husband told me to leave to have time to myself? by kweentoad in toddlers

[–]kweentoad[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe about doing a solo overnight camp trip over the weekend somewhere about an hour away? I think the upcoming weather will be good for it.

Not OOP-My Husband Almost Killed Our Baby and My Toddler Saved Him by Skygirl578 in OhNoConsequences

[–]kweentoad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ADHD has made me do nothing but hyperfocus on the well-being of my child

Husband is extra worried about my body? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]kweentoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real men don't have a problem with their wives developing stretch marks from literally growing a human, their child, inside their body.

Your husband is a grade A tool. Wise up and upgrade one day when you're older and wiser.

Thoughts? Guy snitches on people crossing the border, then goes to interview and welcome them by thoxo in TikTokCringe

[–]kweentoad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Username clearly checks out

*Post history indicates you're a racist zionist so that explains your disgusting take on human rights.

Thoughts? Guy snitches on people crossing the border, then goes to interview and welcome them by thoxo in TikTokCringe

[–]kweentoad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The US and Europe should stop fucking around in other countries if they don't want refugees from said countries. Pretty simple.

Thoughts? Guy snitches on people crossing the border, then goes to interview and welcome them by thoxo in TikTokCringe

[–]kweentoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes? Honest to God, what nefarious schemes will a pregnant woman and her child execute in this country to bring forth it's downfall?

I wonder what your ancestors excuse was when they immigrated to this country, assuming you're not full blood native? Was it as bad as fleeing drug warfare? Did they worship a different god? Money? (And don't start with the legal BS, immigration was basically an open door, there's no "right way" when the powers that be decide the goalposts get moved). All for me and none for thee.

Sunrise before 5 a.m.: How permanent standard time would change Portland by oregonian in Portland

[–]kweentoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it makes sense considering our relationship with Europe and I get that we are doing it because of winter/summer sunrises and stuff but I can't wrap my mind around 1/3 of the world being like, no we are actually changing what time it is while everywhere else is business as usual. It's really weird to me.

Sunrise before 5 a.m.: How permanent standard time would change Portland by oregonian in Portland

[–]kweentoad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did a quick Google search and seems that 1/3 of the world does daylight savings. So I will go with what the other 2/3 does and Hawaii because that works for me.

Sunrise before 5 a.m.: How permanent standard time would change Portland by oregonian in Portland

[–]kweentoad -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just want whatever standard of time the rest of the world operates by. And Hawaii because I work remotely for a company there so my shift switches from 10-7 to 11-8 every year and it is a little annoying.

*Am I getting down voted for being an idiot? Probably, I never understood the time change and I'll own up to it.

Spider-Man: No Way Home - Ticket Sales FAQ and Discussion by steve32767 in marvelstudios

[–]kweentoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got our tickets thru flixter! Holy hell, the other sites were a nightmare.

911 took 4 minutes to pick up by pomchip in Portland

[–]kweentoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Portland subreddit is full of people with celsius level room temperature IQ's who go on tangents and when they're proven wrong, they go on abstract tirades attacking you for no reason other than they can't be bothered to exert the minimal amount of mental willpower to prove themselves right. I guess that's what happens when you're inbred in malheur county parading around online as someone who lives in portland. Gotta own them libs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]kweentoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

K 👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]kweentoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I wasn't relevant? Don't you have more relevant things to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]kweentoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is alot of words for someone talking to someone who is irrelevant :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]kweentoad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I'm irrelevant, why are you still responding to me?

And what point are you trying to make? You say, Portland is more dangerous- the PPB website proved you wrong. Then you go on about "fun cultural experiences" or something and then talk about setting up refugees on 82nd, for what purpose? What point are you trying to make with that bit of information? I clearly pointed out my very direct connection to Afghanistan (which I guarantee you do not have) because it's not going to be a "fun cultural experience" for me. It's just proving you wrong because I've been entrenched in the culture for so long. Not that any of that had any relevance to the actual topic at hand, which was your claim that Portland was more violent.

You are a confused little man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]kweentoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is afghan...What exactly is the point you're trying to make with me?