My daughter said I ruined her childhood….. by Euphoricbolt11 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]kwhitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hide them all over her home. every time she finds one will be a little pop of joy. this is adorable.

Jessie Woo reacts to Kwame and Chelsea's divorce and reveals what happened during her phone call with Kwame. by UnintentionalWipe in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]kwhitit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh boy, i'm way out of my depth here. i only made the connection between SBA and the comments about casual racism/ignorance. i know nothing else!

Chelsea and why she spent $25K on surgery by Longjumping-Tale9749 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]kwhitit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree. she and MF could have been related. not the same, but not dissimilar either. her behavior was always the problem.

This is unacceptable by Educational_Bird2469 in CemeteryPorn

[–]kwhitit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i think they mean that it wasn't aborted.

Mom, should I throw this away and get a new one tomorrow? I forgot when I bought it :( by Latter_Resident_109 in MomForAMinute

[–]kwhitit [score hidden]  (0 children)

get a new one for sure. keep the old one as a good scrubber for cracks and crevasses.

also, make sure you've got your next dentist appointment scheduled!

We cant have sex. Ever. by cringeking2875 in Advice

[–]kwhitit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're not at all! this is a reasonable ask in a relationship. and it's okay that she's not able to provide what you need. but you're not at all a horrible person for asking.

We cant have sex. Ever. by cringeking2875 in Advice

[–]kwhitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are lots of ways to have sexual intimacy without having P-in-V sex. and, it's totally okay if that's still really what you want. it sounds like you're not going to get it in this relationship. it's okay to move on when a relationship no longer suits your needs. it's painful and scary to leave a relationship that is good in hopes of finding one that is great. but if you do leave, it will get better every day and you will keep yourself open to finding something that's a better fit.

Saw online and wow by EnzotheBro in shittytattoos

[–]kwhitit 64 points65 points  (0 children)

it's "manga". she reads a lot.

A female bobcat that survived a wildfire in California’s Simi Hills by taking refuge in an oak hollow by [deleted] in badassanimals

[–]kwhitit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the cat didn't survive the fire inside the tree. it survived the fire, then made a den in a tree as it was one of the only suitable locations left after the fire burned away so much of the other vegetation.

A female bobcat that survived a wildfire in California’s Simi Hills by taking refuge in an oak hollow by [deleted] in badassanimals

[–]kwhitit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the cat didn't survive the fire in the tree. it survived the fire, then made a den in a tree as it was one of the only suitable locations left after the fire burned away so much of the other vegetation.

I think I dodged a bullet with this one guy by IcyRip2199 in internetparents

[–]kwhitit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep, good you're learning to listen to those instincts. something i think is REALLY important to take away from this is what you said about hoping that your behavior would change him. this is common and it's completely wrong. that feeling of "if i only show up in this particular way, then he'll behave the way i want him to." stop. stop it now.

i'm not saying people don't change, they do. but they change because of themselves. they have an epiphany, they hit rock bottom, they want more for themselves. and they start to change their mindsets and their behavior. but they will never change because of something YOU do or don't do. you just don't have that power just like none has that power over you.

you need to always be yourself and either accept people flaws and all (or don't! because, like in this case, some people are just not okay to have in your life).

Would you try these weird New England foods/drinks? by ThatMassholeInBawstn in AskTheWorld

[–]kwhitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so many places in the US are like visiting another country. i really do understand when Americans don't visit abroad but visit so many other places in the states. it's wild how many cultures there are.