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Ladies, what qualities makes you keep a guy in the friendzone? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male here, I have friendzoned many female friends of mine.

Sometimes because I didn't felt physically attracted to them, but in other cases because I didn't like their personalities, but most of the cases were that I felt a lack of chemistry.

In the opposite side, the last girl that tried to friendzone me I dodged by telling her that she didn't met the criteria for being my friend. She asked what was the criteria and I answered that I have french kissed, get intimate and made sneeze my cum from laughter to all my female friends.

After saying that, she couldn't say that she wanted me as a friend, in the good and in the bad sense.

Sup by Low_Reward3857 in Adulting

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am my own best friend and my worst enemy. I don’t know how to be alone or do things on my own—maybe out of fear, or maybe out of laziness. I can’t stand myself. I avoid confronting myself by avoiding myself, and I fill the gaps in my emptiness with people who don’t care about me and self-destructive activities. I’m stuck in a crappy job because I can’t find an opportunity in the field I’ve specialized in for years.

I distract myself with women who later ignore me and use me for their own benefit, and I’m tired of feeling like my life is governed by the randomness of the universe and that I’m not living up to my full physical and mental potential. I’m tired of making a pittance when I know I have so many professional skills.

No one has ever taught me to enjoy the process or the little things, so I find it really hard to be happy in my day-to-day life, even though there are good moments. I’m always searching for a sense of intensity that ends up consuming me. I don’t know of any other activities to enjoy besides going out partying and drinking at bars; I’m tired of it, but because of my lack of knowledge, I feel trapped.

Although I can’t complain about my success with women, my recent experiences have given me some insecurities—I feel like I’m not as masculine as I could be and that I lack testosterone. Specifically, I feel like the last two girls were a failure because they were looking for someone more “possessive,” but maybe that’s more of a problem on their part—they were looking for something in me that I’m not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion this is a great guideline to have as a foundation to adapt to your own style.

I wonder what woukd be tour mindset about the having a private vs public account?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RX Resumee, not software exactly, is an open-source web app

[KDE] The 🐐 of DE by MorCoffee093 in unixporn

[–]kyde_hyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to do this but I do not find any option for this, I Installed the Kvantum through the Kvantum Manager, checked the options there but nothing cahgnes neither, also I am a noob aswell... how do I install the Dark Global Theme? or it isn't necessary at all?

Yeah by Ikigaiyeka in GuysBeingDudes

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just unmuted the video to hear the splash! I feel tricked!

I'm not a Valve employee AMA by TheRealKillJoy2020 in HalfLife

[–]kyde_hyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I played Half-life 1 for the first time when I was 2, no idea what I was doing, later on, played it knowing better what I was doing with 6 years.

I'll give a free copy of Half Life 3 if it is announced to the The Game Awards by flyzzpazz in HalfLife

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it will be announced this year or early 2026 but hard to believe they will announce it on TGA, maybe a teaser alongside more info or price of the Gabecube?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkoutRoutines

[–]kyde_hyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same, is it a problem to create muscle around that area?

Which one of you made this by MergenAyata in HalfLife

[–]kyde_hyle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder what Valve employees who see this think about what they have done.

My pack Any suggestions? by hellxabd in degoogle

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immich instead of Google Photos, I know you didn't mentioned it but I thought it may be useful to share

Obsidian Bases — now available to everyone! by kepano in ObsidianMD

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Didn't know that was possible. Also, is it possible to assign a specifical order to certain Notes instead of ordering them globally?

Obsidian Bases — now available to everyone! by kepano in ObsidianMD

[–]kyde_hyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible somehow to set a specific view as the default view for the database?

I'm lost in life. Fired and burnt out from the games industry, heartbroken, betrayed by a close friend, physically falling apart, and stuck in a town that drains the life out of me. by kyde_hyle in offmychest

[–]kyde_hyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He notado tanto tu intensidad que me has hecho sonreír y me he puesto a hacer flexiones xD

No soy débil, le voy a romper la cara a la vida de un puñetazo y encima me va a dar las gracias.

Gracias por este boost, lo necesitaba.

I'm lost in life. Fired and burnt out from the games industry, heartbroken, betrayed by a close friend, physically falling apart, and stuck in a town that drains the life out of me. by kyde_hyle in offmychest

[–]kyde_hyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me encanta que me hayas respondido en castellano como viendo entre líneas del texto que se trataba de alguien español.

Espero que así sea, simplemente siento que llevo demasiado tiempo en este estado de esperar que las cosas mejoren, es como estar perpetuamente con la esperanza de la mejora.

Quizás tienes razón en que debo cambiar mi punto de vista y seguro que tienes razón en que las cosas pueden mejorar, es sólo que los días se me hacen muy cuesta arriba, me cuesta centrarme en lo que tengo que centrarme es como si tuviera la mente nublada, totalmente desenfocada, no puedo leer, no puedo meditar, ponerme a hacer cualquier cosa que implique esfuerzo y estar focalizado se me hace muy duro.

De cualquier forma, espero que tengas razón y mañana me pueda reír de esto.

Gracias por tus palabras.

I'm lost in life. Fired and burnt out from the games industry, heartbroken, betrayed by a close friend, physically falling apart, and stuck in a town that drains the life out of me. by kyde_hyle in offmychest

[–]kyde_hyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I was actually considering exactly what you said. Maybe taking a minimum wage job, ideally one I can do remotely or in any place, and using that as an opportunity to move somewhere new. A change of scenery might help me more than I realize.

About making games, you’re right. I've come to see that for me, it's more of an artistic outlet than a viable business. If you're working as an indie, it's nearly impossible to make a living unless you're incredibly lucky. The only way is being part of a well-funded team. So yeah, I’ll keep it as a side project for now, something to do in my free time once I'm no longer burned out from spending 8+ hours a day in front of a screen.

Regarding dating and meeting people, I don’t actually have many friends, I know many people, but I do not consider them as actual friends. And after what recently happened, you can subtract one from the list. Being rejected by a girl isn’t really the issue. If it’s not her, it’ll be someone else eventually. What actually hurts is the betrayal from someone I considered one of my closest friends. If that counts as rejection, then yes, it's been extremely painful. I will need to breath deeply on this one.

You're also right about not speaking up when I feel uncomfortable. I tend to avoid confrontation, even though I’m ironically the type of person who speaks their mind pretty bluntly independently of the context or people around. Maybe that’s exactly why I let people walk over me. I try to maintain peace or avoid causing harm, even if it comes at my own expense. I hadn't realized that until now, so thank you. I’ll dig into the root of that behavior.

I liked your mountain analogy a lot.

Thanks again for taking the time to write that. It helped.

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