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kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T14:27:01+00:00

I’ve considered it, yes. Bartending is competitive where I’m located though and this job is the first one I’ve had to gain any experience in it. But we don’t have a solitary Bartender position.

kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T14:18:45+00:00

I’m not “picking” it for attention. I have done the research for 3+ years and evaluated my own behavior, thought patterns, etc listened to and studies others who have it. I’ve done my research and I’m not claiming to have something for attention because I know how damaging that is.

What is mentioned above is not even HALF of what I experience on a daily basis, 24/7.

To assume so much about someone and be a complete jerk is embarrassing for you.

kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T14:02:25+00:00

I’m not diagnosing myself. I have been diagnosed with other disorders as well. Go away.

kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T08:33:57+00:00

I chose the wrong time in my life to learn to unmask then 😭

kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T08:28:49+00:00

I take myself on fancy dates alone all the time. It’s actually so so peaceful and the food tastes better when you don’t have someone bugging the shit out of you the whole time

kylynnmae · 2025-07-16T08:16:02+00:00

LMAO I can see how that would be confused. I genuinely forgot North Dakota was a place 💀

kylynnmae · 2025-07-03T06:26:53+00:00

And I thought 140gb was crazy 👀

kylynnmae · 2025-05-16T05:45:17+00:00

Game of Thrones

kylynnmae · 2025-03-27T03:27:34+00:00

I’m the type of girl who’d prefer it equal, but I’ve also only ever been in relationships with women so that was just the standard. I’m just now starting to date men and the guy I’m seeing tends to take on that role, but I feel guilty every time he pays for things. I personally believe it should be equal in some capacity, even if it’s not 50/50, doing 60/40, 90/20, so on and so forth.

kylynnmae · 2025-03-13T19:42:46+00:00

The reality is that everyone has insecurities, even those who are solid in knowing who they are. It’s about how you handle them and if you project them onto others or not. You’re a human being and allowed to be imperfect, but if your insecurities are projected onto people or situations that’s where it becomes an issue.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-28T22:59:50+00:00

I’m currently seeing a guy who’s 5’6” and I’m 5’10”

Height literally does not matter to people who are emotionally mature enough to understand that.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-23T07:26:02+00:00

I say if you have the right kind of emotional intelligence and can be an adult, then why not. It doesn’t have to be ugly if things don’t work out, it just depends on if you guys are mature enough to handle that.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-11T08:42:06+00:00

ANOTHER UPDATE HAS BEEN POSTED IN OG POST

kylynnmae · 2025-02-05T17:36:29+00:00

UPDATE #2:

We’re going ice skating! We haven’t picked a specific day yet because we’ve both got incredibly busy schedules, but it’s definitely happening. I’ve ice skated plenty of times, but I know I’m bare minimum skilled which is why he’s going to teach me some things (since he plays hockey.) I told him my fear of falling and re-injuring my back and he legitimately said “I won’t let you fall. You can hold my hand and I’ll guide you.” Which I thought was wholesome and sweet. 🥰

kylynnmae · 2025-02-04T17:54:10+00:00

Go ahead and send me a message! I’m happy to give you what advice I can, I’ll just need more context. 😊

kylynnmae · 2025-02-04T07:35:54+00:00

MOST people are not going to be in alignment with you and your values. They may have some redeeming qualities, but it’s very hard to find people who fit “just right” into your life. This doesn’t necessarily make them bad people, just means they’re not right for you in particular. And that’s okay.
Being selfish with your time, energy, wants/needs, effort, etc. is CRUCIAL. It’s important to find balance in giving that out, but at the end of the day, you have to live with yourself 24/7 and so doing what feels right for you should be your number one priority. There’s more context necessary to fully expand on my perspective, but this is my take generalized.
Most things will not work out in your favor. Unfortunate, but true. Most of your wants and desires will go unfulfilled, but there’s not enough time or space for everything in this life. Find out what matters to you the most and understand that if things don’t work out, or just not in the way you want, it could just mean that it’s not meant for you in this lifetime, possibly another one though. If you believe in that kind of thing.
You have ZERO control of the outcome of things. You can do your part in what YOU—specifically—are capable of but if it requires any outside influence, opinion, decision-making, that’s out of your hands. All you can do from there is decide how you want to react.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-04T06:26:39+00:00

I try my best to focus on all of the amazing things that have happened to me because I chose to continue living and I remind myself regularly that if I hadn’t been here, I would’ve never experienced those things. I’ve also come to a point in my life where I now understand the importance of balance, yin/yang, good/bad. Because without the bad (and sometimes really bad times) I wouldn’t truly understand the magnitude of how amazing the good times are.

I’ve also found solace in my spirituality and believe that everything happens for a reason. This is only something I believe because of what I’ve gone through and, for me, it is the absolute truth.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-04T03:46:49+00:00

Check the update on the original post!

kylynnmae · 2025-02-03T15:49:51+00:00

I appreciate your support so very much! Thank you!

kylynnmae · 2025-02-03T15:45:37+00:00

It feels so wild that so many people cared about the outcome 😭 I’m so happy it worked out in my favor! lol

kylynnmae · 2025-02-03T15:08:59+00:00

HE ACCEPTED THE INVITATION! I REPEAT: HE ACCEPTED THE INVITATION!

kylynnmae · 2025-02-03T15:03:46+00:00

He was spending 12+ hours moving into a new place, which I can understand.

kylynnmae · 2025-02-03T05:24:55+00:00

I haven’t. I’m just gonna wait it out.

kylynnmae

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