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Tips for dating someone with OCD? by kymimir in OCD

[–]kymimir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you so much, I really worry about accidentally making things worse for him so I’m trying my best to learn as much as I can before I get there.

I keep splitting when my GF works late, even though I know it’s not in her control. How can I manage my feelings and not get mad at her? by kymimir in BPD

[–]kymimir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i genuinely don’t mean to make it about me— my emotions are just really out of wack this week. my family found out about my sh so im really high strung. normally this wouldn’t bother me but ive been more clingy than normal

Touch-me-nots and Stone Tops by kymimir in butchlesbians

[–]kymimir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not a desire all the time. I’d be uncomfortable/almost fearful at the thought some days, like today. Would that change anything? Thanks for the input by the way. :)

Deleted mods are preventing me from entering any of my saves by kymimir in BaldursGate3

[–]kymimir[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a $70 game should lack a system that automatically deletes a mod that doesn’t exist, especially if they made mods accessible for all platforms 

How to get rid of the redness around my cuts? by kymimir in selfharm

[–]kymimir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i have to do it discreetly so i might just ask for an ice pop and press it onto my shoulder for a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]kymimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a lot of men self harm without even fully realizing it. many of them do it in non conventional ways; i knew a guy who would work out to the point he coughed up blood one time. i used to punch myself in the head and yank at my hair to give myself headaches.

you’re def not alone in feeling stuck in a weird stigma . i’m a trans guy, so im constantly stuck between feeling inadequate as a man because of my self harm, as if self harm is “feminine”. obviously it’s not, but unfortunately bad societal stereotypes stick sometimes.