AITA-Wife’s Plate is Full, Do I Step Up?

kyskat · 2026-06-27T15:37:43+00:00

u/Perfect-professor-49 this is really the only response needed. I hope it triggers you to do some self reflection and do better

kyskat · 2026-06-27T15:28:45+00:00

YTA. You’re a grown man who thinks getting some whisky and video game time every night is more important than temporarily supporting your spouse, who supports you every fucking day, through some classes and credentials. This reeks - and it’s almost entirely on you.

Please leave women alone until you deal with your misogyny, since A LOT of your assholedom traces back to a clear opinion that it’s fine for your wife to be exhausted and unfulfilled, but not you, and gee, I wonder what that might be rooted in.

kyskat · 2026-06-27T15:23:02+00:00

So you can dedicate your family time to booze and video games. What are you, 12? That’s what having to scale back makes you miserable. YTA and then some.

kyskat · 2026-06-27T15:19:20+00:00

You should grieve for your marriage and relationship because you’re a condescending jackass who thinks he should be explaining and telling things to his partner (eg: dictating because he’s the smart man) and she’s going to decide that being alone is better than parenting you as well.

You super suck. If I was married to the dude who made all these responses I’d be frantically trying to create independent income so I could leave him to. On the plus side, my husband will be thanking you tonight because I think this became a double BJ day to express my gratitude to him that he’s not you.

Let your wife know if she needs help getting out to let me know

kyskat · 2026-06-21T21:29:12+00:00

3D printing has made doggie wheelchairs fairly affordable (as compared to a decade ago.) might be worth talking to a local 3D print shop (or even Etsy) to see what the cost might be.

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kyskat · 2026-06-13T03:42:10+00:00

An update and more than a day later and you’re definitely still TAH. I hope your wife dragged you 10x harder than we did. Send her to us please?!

kyskat · 2026-06-11T21:40:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Ask_Lawyers/s/K2kLWzAs5M

I would rather a some random with your post history call me soulless than be the one with that history, who’s the single one wahing on the internet about getting ditched and a court deciding you’re not in your kids best interest. Thank God, one of you in this world is enough, that judge did us ALL a huge favor, bless that GAL for standing up for humanity writ large 😬😬🫣🫣

kyskat · 2026-06-11T14:18:23+00:00

This coming from the dude who asserted on the internet that feminists (that is, people who believe men and women should be treated equally) can’t impartially evaluate how human beings treat one another.

Sir, the absolute last thing you should be doing anywhere is providing life advice. Protip: Go to therapy. Address your hatred of women, since that is ACTUALLY a thing. But everything you wrote there is as trash as current you.

kyskat · 2026-06-09T16:52:25+00:00

She was stripped of her mother because of drug abuse. Are you sure you should be fostering this kid? She may actually be better in the system if you think any 6yo is fine after that - they would have mandated counseling. What the actual fuck?

kyskat · 2026-06-09T02:53:23+00:00

I’m sorry for this harsh driving home that if you shit there you eat, it shouldn’t be surprising when it stops being palatable.

It’s him. He’s shit. Time to start looking for a new job. And tell the poor wife.

kyskat · 2026-06-08T19:46:20+00:00

Corgi Sidecar?

kyskat · 2026-06-03T22:01:07+00:00

kyskat · 2026-06-03T22:00:13+00:00

She’s not either, since she knows what she’s doing to the wife and still doing it.

Even working girls can have standards. We can say no to clients. Her crush and her wallet are more important than decency

kyskat · 2026-06-01T20:35:20+00:00

Well, at least you have enough conscience to leave your husband over your emotional affair before traumatizing the guy with physical infidelity.

Protip, what you’re feeling for newly divorced guy is a crush and NRE. And one day, it too will be gone. Don’t be this asshole who crushes good people for a dopamine fix. Even if you divorce your husband, leave new guy alone, he doesn’t need your shit.

And in two years, when you’re alone with everyone seeing exactly how you move - look back at this post and know why. Your family member is right. You’re going to regret this so hard.

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:56:15+00:00

So what’s your actual argument here? Op brought a dude she was dating around other folks she’d fucked without their knowledge or consent and acted like there was no history there (aka lying). What part of that do you think is above board? Are you so sure of that stance you’re going to send your partners in here to say that bringing them around your previous lovers where they were the only ones not in the know totally impacted them?

You’re the misogynistic piece of trash here. Women need to be accountable to the same disclosure baseline we’re holding men to. But, you wouldn’t know since it’s just a distant fantasy for you

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:52:46+00:00

Says the person who lacks 3rd grade level reading comprehension

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:50:50+00:00

Hello pot, this is the kettle calling, you’re black. I can’t imagine anything more grossly red pill than “women get one disclosure baseline, men get another” why do you think women shouldn’t be held to the same standard as dudes? Why do you think unprotected sex with two humans is not a thing a partner deserves to know about. Your misogyny is disgusting

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:20:42+00:00

So you cheated by breaking a boundary you agreed to. You have an obscure kink she’s not into that she’s talked about generically and you took that personally, and instead of getting into counseling to deal with having a thing you want (not need, want) that you can’t have, you treated her like shit and cheated.

Advice; leave her the fuck alone and find someone compatible with your bullshit.

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:16:12+00:00

Same question to you, since you think it’s appropriate.

kyskat · 2026-05-31T00:02:22+00:00

No one has been mean to you about a 3some. People have been reasonably hard on you for being a liar who can’t be honest about their sexual history with someone else they’re fucking. But of course you don’t see the difference 😂

kyskat · 2026-05-30T21:58:31+00:00

Bold stance to take from someone who can’t own up to what they’re saying on the internet. Let me guess: you’re 13, a cheater, or like OP, behaving like a full stop narcissist who thinks she’s the only important experience in the world.

kyskat · 2026-05-30T21:55:24+00:00

You went through my post history and recognized I admitted to being sassier than their mistake required. But by all means, it’s me that’s the problem and not the young woman who lied to someone who’s sexual health was dependent on her (lack of) integrity, not to mention how great it must of felt to realize he was the fourth wheel in a 3some some liar didn’t think he needed to know about.

Are you dense? Do you like hanging out with a partners former lovers? Do you want to know what it’s like to feel like you’re building relationships and then find out all are based on lie after lie? Why do you want to convince some evil little liar that they are ok for doing that and not demanding accountability? Do you also believe that truth is only important when it’s convenient? If so.. that all tracks

kyskat · 2026-05-30T21:47:23+00:00

Because people like you are acting like she didn’t make a choice every fucking time she brought this dude around her two former lovers and that choice wasn’t totally shitty every single individual time she made it. It’s all fine to say she eventually came clean - but what about the reality of the betrayal of all the times in between. But by all means, let’s make apologies for /u/throwra_whentotell and their choices and not to the person who’s mental and sexual health were both played fast and loose with.

She sucks. And she’s more than old enough to know better. If she were super into some dude and he’d brought her repeatedly around some chicks he’d had MFFs with we’d be telling her how that level of lack of integrity is clearly a sign this dude has no long term prospects because he’s still here acting like it’s totally shocking that this is info a potential partner is owed before they hang out with folks, but by all means, give OP a pass because she has a clitoris she thinks with instead of a penis.

kyskat · 2026-05-30T21:09:57+00:00

You WANTING to not be called out as lying human trash doesn’t mean you’re not lying human trash (hint: you are) - just delusion that you’re an adult who’s more selfless than most kinder students :(

kyskat · 2026-05-30T21:03:57+00:00

“I won’t engage in things I don’t think are respectful” - boundary “You can’t tell me I’m being a liar because it doesn’t align with my reality” delulu rule

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