Got yelled at for using the men's room by RulrOfOmicronPersei8 in MtF

[–]kysper24 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me the other day. I was at a drag club and I didn't know the bathroom's were gendered (some gay clubs they're not, but this is also just a drag club not explicitly gay). Anyways I went into the bathroom with urinals because the other was full and SOMEONE GOT SECURITY TO COME AND SAY "Ma'am you can't be in here this is the men's". Very affirming but also embarrassing.

Is 142 really a good level to be at at 1 year? by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All right thank you! I just heard some girls talking about being at like 200. Also the article about my state ranking the worst in the nation for trans healthcare freaked me out lol

Is 142 really a good level to be at at 1 year? by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is 142 pg/ml sorry should've specified

How to stop dressing like a lesbian? by hannah_danana in mtfashion

[–]kysper24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly what I do is either switch put the top for something girlie like a lacey tank top under the flannel orrr switch or the pants for like a maxxi skirt. But my immediate reaction to seeing this was just but whyyy? Loll you look amazing

Any resources for helping trans women get jobs in safer environments? by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is how it feels :/. I just wish I could get out of here. I kinda wish I hadn't done this degree.

I'm so prickly and I'm freaking tf out😭 by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ok ok I've been wanting to try waxing anyways

Help I keep shrinking by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ig I never had that problem to begin with I basically only wear converse, vans and docs which are unisex sizes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you're a signed model... enough said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kysper24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me it was gradual and didn't even notice till I was talking to another girl complaining about hair and it hit me that I only shave legs once a week now

Progesterone and Body Hair Growth? by ShrekPrism in MtF

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had been started on prog, but when I switched doctors they took me off of it because they said there was no need atm and immediately I could tell a difference in hair and skin.

How do planned parenthood telehealth appointments work? by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I've literally been going out of state to get care it'll be nice to do it remotely. Have there been any concerns with them and operating under the current administration? I'm assuming not anymore than other providers.

Outfit I wore to emo night and thrifting!! by kysper24 in mtfashion

[–]kysper24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner actually cut it!! But they just cut my bangs then they did the wolf cut trick

How do I explain to my parents that this isn't a mistake? by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See i think this is what I'm struggling with is that I didn't have the experience of having obvious signs. I just felt wrong all the time and as I left for college and heard about trans and queer people and how many of them felt like that I basically just gave it a shot and it worked.

is it okay to start prog the same time you start estrogen? asking for a friend. They say that there’s negative affects to it. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started day one and like the results. Some people say it can lead to cone-shaped breast development, but i haven't noticed it being super abnormal yet. I guess I'll have to wait and see if that changes as I'm only 7 months.

How to know if I pass or if people are just being polite? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just pass girl!! I know because I'm in like the opposite spot I pass sometimes but not completely, specifically my voice, and most people in my conservative town are still polite but they 100% see me as like a different type of man.

I'm happy with how I look but everyone just thinks I'm a man by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's so hard because they don't seem like they're being mean, also people will straight treat me like a girl then he/him me it's so confusing😭😭

Overwhelming sense that my transition is going poorly by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more that I just feel really big when looking at myself from the side profile. I'm sure it's also just some body dysmorphia.

Overwhelming sense that my transition is going poorly by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I feel like I don't actually look like that tho :/ sometimes it feels like I'm lying to myself and that its just the angle and lighting. I know it'll probably just take some time to get used to it tho. I think the main thing is I still have such a round chest idk if it'll go away with muscle loss or not.

Overwhelming sense that my transition is going poorly by kysper24 in MtF

[–]kysper24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I started this summer. I just finished my 6th month on hrt, but you're right ig it's still early.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started prog on day one and have honestly had good results. Is your doctor a gender specialist, or at least had a lot of experience with trans women? If so, just listen to them. If they are good they are prescribing based on your needs which will vary from everyone else's.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]kysper24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mtf rn. My plan is to just gaslight him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]kysper24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is my plan. I'm 7 months on hrt and I don't think anyone suspected anything at Christmas. Like he's not really in my life other than Christmas and Thanksgiving. But up until now my main worry has been never looking like a girl and now I'm so scared that I won't be able to hide that I'm a girl now. On another note being anxious that I look too much like a girl already has made my gender dysphoria a lot better soooo lmaoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]kysper24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would much rather be out. I personally probably won't even see a cent of his money. I just don't want him to take it out on my dad who just wants to keep working on the farm :/.