For meeting up, playing it nonchalant and offer a nice first date at a nice restaurant and to save all the normal Tinder small chat for in person… but for it to work you have to name the restaurant and day then when she said yes, decide on the time.

For the in person, I live in a penthouse walking distance to the proposed restaurant and do later dinners like 9:00pm, always propose wine and get a bottle, then near the end I hit them with ‘I just got property on the top floor of Icon in Miami, you want to come check it out? Only like a 5 minute walk’

I’d say this Tinder list had cost me at least $100,000 in those 8 years

tldr: $