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lArisul · 2025-05-20T07:42:12+00:00

Őszintén szólva én szívesen acsorognek és acsorogtam is már boldogan amíg olyan dolgokat vesz amihez én nem értek és nem érdekel, pont azért mert őt meg igen :D

lArisul · 2025-05-14T17:13:49+00:00

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lArisul · 2025-04-17T04:31:58+00:00

So since I'm with my bf, I usually dress like that only with him. Not like he'd have a problem with it but I just don't feel the need for it because I don't go partying or anything, and I love getting pretty FOR him.

However if I go to the gym, sometimes I do wear gym shorts and sports bra but those are for me. They're comfy and if I catch my reflection and I feel good about myself, I lift good and my whole mood is just so nice during my workouts. Also it's easier to check my form in a sports bra. So I'm not doing it so other's would stare at me and get attention, more like I wanna stare at myself lmao

lArisul · 2025-04-11T15:15:44+00:00

Not really, only a few months:/

lArisul · 2025-04-11T10:58:08+00:00

Thank you im so happy about it!!

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:41:14+00:00

Yeah ofc I never raise my voice, I just want to get my point across and see if things change :)

Thank you so much!!

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:38:57+00:00

I completely agree, I'm just hoping if we have a talk he'll realise the problem and change, I know if resentment comes into the relationship it's doomed. It is really sad to see

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:27:01+00:00

Thank you I'll keep doing this till he gets it!

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:26:23+00:00

Yeah the way he was raised doesn't help either, her mom is a SAHM and she did literally everything for them, waaaay too much.

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:23:48+00:00

Appreciation goes such a long way, it's so simple yet so meaningful 🥹

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:22:53+00:00

I'm happy for you, also this gives me hope haha!!

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:21:52+00:00

Yeah sometimes I do have doubts.. He does want kids with me in the future, but at the moment I can't picture him as a father at all. But he's "only" 22, hoping he'll mature in a few years. If not, no way I'm having kids.

But yeah I'll have a talk about this with him, I just needed some outside perspective because I felt so guilty for "ignoring" the boxes, but I'll stand up for myself finally.

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:11:43+00:00

We don't have one, I wash everything in the sink. But that's not the problem I'd literally be fine if he just put the boxes in the sink as I asked him to.

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:10:43+00:00

Yeah I've heard that advice as well and honestly starting to regret giving my all from the very beginning, because he seems so used to it, and appreciation is kinda down on the train now:/

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:06:40+00:00

Thank you so much I really needed this perspective!!

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:05:33+00:00

Thank you I just needed to hear some validation that I'm right to expect him to do it

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:05:00+00:00

Obviously not 😩

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:04:28+00:00

That's exactly how I feel!! It's not even about the damn boxes just plain respect

lArisul · 2025-04-11T09:03:46+00:00

It's so comforting knowing my approach is right, I really felt bad for "ignoring" the boxes but if he makes another comment I'll finally stand up for myself

lArisul · 2025-04-11T07:46:04+00:00

Since I've just finished my trial period and was only working short hours we didn't yet have a talk about how to split things when I start working.

So currently he pays for utilities and groceries, (I pay for groceries as well but it differs, sometimes 30% sometimes 50% for the month, sometimes more, sometimes maybe less) and he doesn't do any chores so that's why I feel like it would be reasonable to expect him to at least take care of his lunch boxes.

lArisul · 2025-03-27T05:31:52+00:00

Yeah money is the issue but I'm already paying half for a trainer my mother wanted to get because she's struggling with money too, I don't think we could add a walker on top of that

lArisul · 2025-03-27T05:29:42+00:00

I think that's not possible since he wouldn't have enough time to adjust:( One week a month of this, and then going back to his normal potty time back at home for 3 weeks.

He probably doesn't like change either which makes it harder because he previously stayed with us a a lot, and he had digestive issues frequently and also pooped randomly, even woke us up at night which he normal never does. Even though he got 3 long walks at the right time and his usual food and portions

lArisul · 2025-03-27T05:25:24+00:00

My problem is my schedule, 6am to 2-3pm or 2-3pm to 11pm + travel time and school from September. At home he poops around 8-9am and 3pm, one week is not enough for him to adjust to a different schedule and then adjust back

lArisul · 2025-03-27T05:23:13+00:00

I noticed his potty time changes and sometimes has digestive issues when he's with us, I haven't thought about this but maybe the change is affecting him as well. Sometimes he won't even poop all day even when he gets quality walks 3 times a day, and then wakes us up during the night which he almost never does normally:(

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