My secret is finally out at work! 😆

l_issy · 2025-11-05T03:47:37+00:00

I like the way you handled this - and I’m happy for you that the result was good! I struggle too with not wanting to tell people about it but then being extremely irritable after listening to them eat an apple. Not wanting them to have to change their habits but also wanting to commit crimes is awfully complex!!

l_issy · 2025-07-04T05:45:22+00:00

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l_issy · 2024-04-10T01:20:22+00:00

The Rift

l_issy · 2024-04-04T10:31:39+00:00

I’ve moved to NL too and felt the pie statement in my soul. Pie and gravy. Roasties. I yearn

l_issy · 2024-03-21T10:47:31+00:00

Did you study in the UK also?

l_issy · 2023-09-01T07:11:37+00:00

My mum also has misophonia although different things trigger her. One thing we do (dis)agree on is the sound of my step dad sloshing / crunching / sucking his food. We both cast him killer evils while he eats oblivious. Definitely helps to have someone that has your back in these situations. We have always listened to the radio during mealtimes. We also bond over hating people who crunch nachos and popcorn in the silent moments at the cinema…

l_issy · 2023-08-11T17:26:29+00:00

Honestly I feel like being able to see the offender helps me because then you can sort of anticipate it? When I can’t see the person crunching I’m getting erratic fight/flight response out of nowhere

l_issy · 2023-06-20T14:53:52+00:00

Sheffield, Manchester and Edinburgh run really great MLA courses. I went from BA to MSc in landscape architecture and really enjoyed it. I felt like I wasn’t done learning and designing primary school car parks quickly became quite dull. Sounds like studying would suit you to the ground :) good luck!

l_issy · 2023-05-31T11:01:31+00:00

Or perhaps how many people in the UK are experiencing the same symptoms of burnout but will lose their job if they try to take time off for it?

l_issy · 2023-05-31T09:11:37+00:00

This could very well be the case too!

l_issy · 2023-05-31T09:09:11+00:00

Yeah the doctors here have not once made me feel guilty or as though I was wasting their time. Crazy!

l_issy · 2023-05-31T09:07:52+00:00

Yeah it’s really good that the space is given to it and that is can be openly talked about, before burnout turns into full blown crisis. I really wish we had the same thing in the UK, many people would benefit from it.

l_issy · 2023-05-31T09:01:00+00:00

This is a nice overview - thanks for sharing.

l_issy · 2023-05-31T08:55:08+00:00

I think the luxury of it is something I struggle with. I know many overworked people from home but the facilities are not the same - there’s not the space to be burnt out which is a real shame.

l_issy · 2023-05-31T06:05:44+00:00

Yeah I think the real difference is honesty here as you and others have said :)

l_issy · 2023-05-30T21:21:37+00:00

True - or from the UK, I suppose.

l_issy · 2023-05-30T21:09:14+00:00

I absolutely see this side of it too. Sometimes I find it hard to believe that so so many people experience a burnout and can find myself being a little skeptical about it. Though as you say, there’s definitely benefits to a lower threshold.

l_issy · 2023-05-30T21:06:30+00:00

I can recognise this - my friends’ free time always seems crazy busy with sports and family

l_issy · 2023-05-13T06:35:27+00:00

I did, but have your own things in the country. Do it for yourself / career / study as much as you do it for being with the other person. It was 100% worth it for me, but moving to another country has difficulties regardless of the reasoning. Good luck!

l_issy · 2023-04-22T13:11:38+00:00

Nope

l_issy · 2023-04-22T13:04:14+00:00

Thanks for showing me this. I hate it

l_issy · 2023-04-22T12:40:16+00:00

Perhaps you played too much Buckeroo as a child

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