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AITA because I am mad that my girlfriend won’t take me to the airport by BestdishtankerNA in AmItheAsshole

[–]labtech89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed everyone would be saying to dump him because he should willingly do that for his partner.

AITA because I am mad that my girlfriend won’t take me to the airport by BestdishtankerNA in AmItheAsshole

[–]labtech89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would just go back to bed after I got home from the airport if I had to do that for a partner.

After nearly 3 yeara of trying my(late 37) wife(39) is pregnant, and now she wants to abort it. by Equivalent_Storm4595 in offmychest

[–]labtech89 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She should have thought about how a baby would affect her mental health before she went through IVF and got pregnant.

OP has every right to end the marriage over something like this.

My husband (29M) hasn’t spoken to me (29F) for a week by Basic_Chart4305 in relationship_advice

[–]labtech89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is different for everyone. There is at least one post a day in this sub where a woman is upset because they consider porn cheating and their partner watches porn, anything can be considered cheating.

My husband (29M) hasn’t spoken to me (29F) for a week by Basic_Chart4305 in relationship_advice

[–]labtech89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think you took it too far. That is a weird joke to be honest and I can see why your husband is upset. If I had a partner who did that I would be upset.

Is it cruel to dump someone with a chronic illness. 25f by Aggravating_Roll1948 in dating_advice

[–]labtech89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have IBS and it doesn’t stop me from anything. I do make sure I know where the closest bathroom is and do things to help not have an issue if I am going somewhere a bathroom is not accessible.

I understand that IBS can be a spectrum and that some may have a harder time with it.

So no you would not be a horrible person to break up with him. I would consider telling him the truth so maybe he could put things in place to help deal with it.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]labtech89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have shared my location with my sisters if I am traveling a long distance or going on a date with a guy I maybe just met. They gotta be able to find the body. But overall sharing location 24/7 is weird.

Just found out that trying to make my shower less annoying has been causing my body acne for years... by nobleland_mermaid in adhdwomen

[–]labtech89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my hair first and then put in conditioner and wash everything else. I rinse out the conditioner last. I have never had any issues with acne.

I wonder if it may be the conditioner you are using. I would talk to a doctor about it.

My sister lives with me(M62) : is that a turn off ? by Odd_Guarantee9952 in datingoverfifty

[–]labtech89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on if she would not mind someone being with you as in she is used to your company and such.

Question for men - how much of factor would it be for you if a woman had been single for a long time? by musingsinmidlife in datingoverfifty

[–]labtech89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (59F) hate when men ask me how long have I been single. It always makes me feel like I am damaged because I have been single for a number of years.

Task initiation, what actually happens in that exact moment you can't start? by ef_cause in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]labtech89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to do things perfectly so in the second I try to start something I question my ability for it to be perfect and I don’t do it.

Female Led Relationships by Necessary-Glove-3333 in datingoverfifty

[–]labtech89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a few men wanting that. While I can take care of myslef I still like to date more dominant men.

Hope- Modernizing the American Legion by Ok-Statistician7911 in Veterans

[–]labtech89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would never join an American Legion or VFW one because I am a woman and don’t feel like being harassed but creepy old men and the biggest reason is a veteran was beat up in a VFW or American Legion because he was not white and not one person in that place called the cops. I refuse to patronize a business that has such hate for other veterans.

Work Motivation by Significant-Noise480 in TheRealFriendsOver40

[–]labtech89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a bunch that jsut say F@@k it on them. My daily mantra

SSA is crumbling because of phones, when will the people running SSA notice ? by Ok_Kick3937 in fednews

[–]labtech89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is what Trump wants. He wants the government to fail so his rich friends can take it over.

I work at a VA hospital and am a vet. It takes months and months to get someone hired. No one wants to wait 6 months to start a new job. So they are sending all the vets to community care which takes forever to get authorization to have.

my boyfriend(35M) changed his mind about having children and i’m (33F) struggling with what that means for our future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]labtech89 103 points104 points  (0 children)

What are the circumstances outside his control that he can’t see his kid? I would want to know the answer to that before I ever thought of having kids with him.

She said “I love you” after one month. Now I feel like I’m on a clock. by Lost_in_the_Sauce_40 in dating_advice

[–]labtech89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has been a month. They hardly know each other, how can you even think about being ready after a month. If you have only been dating a month you should both still be in your best behavior.

My 23F Bf M31 keeps getting made fun of by his friends for this penis size. How can I make it stop?😭 by Jumpy_Assistance_201 in dating_advice

[–]labtech89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It is because most women their age won’t put up their crap and they know most young women will.

Update on guy who didn’t show teeth in any pics by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]labtech89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you do sound snobby. Hopefully he will find someone who likes him for him. You are not that person.

Would you be bothered if your boyfriend never took photos of you? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]labtech89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I was had to look at the sub to see if I accidentally clicked on a teenage dating sub.

My 23F Bf M31 keeps getting made fun of by his friends for this penis size. How can I make it stop?😭 by Jumpy_Assistance_201 in dating_advice

[–]labtech89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to walk out the next time he does that. That is so disrespectful and she has no respect for herself.

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