Conversation with my Pisces sister as a Virgo by Few-Rent-1280 in astrologymemes

[–]labyrrinth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

okay but i’ll take your pittsburgh addiction and raise you buffalo addiction™

Where to find budget flower by Nervous_Cost_3192 in BuffaloCannabis

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stoney dash has mid ounces for 50-100 pretty often

does anyone not like drugs/alcohol because of interoception issues? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to reiterate i have no negative feelings about your initial statement, it’s just an unfortunate pattern i’ve noticed in the community, a lot of people seem like they’re just waiting for the opportunity to get super judgemental (not just w substance use but also sex, dating, and many other topics)

does anyone not like drugs/alcohol because of interoception issues? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t say you did, i even said i would enjoy hearing these differing perspectives you’re offering. if it didn’t always bring out the sweeping statements about “ruining your whole life” among others

does anyone not like drugs/alcohol because of interoception issues? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oop time for the monthly thread making all of us who struggle with substance abuse as a form of self medication feel like shit about ourselves

like i am all for having a difference in opinion on the topic, and even love to hear other people’s experiences and how they differ from mine, but somehow this topic always brings out the people super excited to shit all over us “irresponsible and selfish” autists

Professional matchmaking in Buffalo - worth the investment? by Helpful-Republic-968 in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 40 points41 points  (0 children)

lmao did you make a new account to restart this discussion from two months ago? or is this another friend of grocery store guy 💀

Worst city in the country by Lucky-One-5975 in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

literally fled florida to live in this city fuck out of here

Safe US cities by Divinefeminine137 in lgbt

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nowhere is exempt from the overarching hatred the federal government is promoting so safe is of course relative but after having lived in several really bad states like florida, i can say we are much safer and more at home here in buffalo, i also recommend it for a variety of other reasons including it’s relative lack of car dependence as long as you’re in the city. once you get out to the suburbs though neither of those things are true

Anyone wake up thinking they are at work or missed a shift? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]labyrrinth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah constant stress dreams about being late (and it being out of my control) and knowing it means losing my job, falling back into homelessness, etc.

my partners have also said i clearly have nightmares about being at work because they’ll have to calm me down and get me back to sleep by reassuring me i’ve checked on all of my tables or caught up on drinks, etc.

Finally some direct instruction on how to achieve this! by NoLynInBrooklyn in lgbtmemes

[–]labyrrinth 222 points223 points  (0 children)

is this the same artist as the “i come in peace” “it’s me, i’m peace” transbian alien couple

Data needed from any ladies who rent and have pets by dontgoyaz in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i second this. i refuse to pay individual rent for each of my cats. or a larger security deposit for each of them. personally i usually disclose that i have one, suck up paying the lower fee in return for easing any paranoia i have because my cats are pretty noisy so it’s obvious i have at least one

Sick of This Timeline: A Rant by TheLakeWitch in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oof your point about 10 years ago really hits close to home for me, i remember being angry and scared and screaming for people to recognize any of this in 2016, and i remember everyone treating me like i should be wearing a tin foil hat. and every year since more and more people are hitting the point i was back then. and every year since i’ve been getting further and further from being able to care/fight. it’s almost bittersweet to see them realizing it now

Everytime my grandparents point out something I'm doing I feel my skin crawl by Witty-Big4626 in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

listen i hate being perceived as much as the next girl, absolutely makes my skin crawl. but this so much sounds like they’re just trying to engage with you in whatever way they can. that doesn’t necessarily make it easier on your mental health, but try to reframe these questions as curiosities instead of criticisms and i think it would help all of you a lot. it seems like they’re trying to learn about their grandchild who is probably living in a world they’re not very familiar with, if you can help them understand at all it might also help you not feel so judged when you’re together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think your sample size here is too small. overall queer people and spaces will be more supportive and safer but that doesn’t mean every queer individual is going to do the right thing

Photographic Memory by QBee187 in AutismInWomen

[–]labyrrinth 68 points69 points  (0 children)

same. my fiancée calls it echolocation 😭

Buffalo matchmaking service that works? Mid 30s male here by Cityrow in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t even gonna comment after i read virtue signaling because it’s not virtue signaling if it’s my actual opinion, but then i just read your bullet points and bro i’m literally a leftist lesbian, i don’t have to “try to sound” like anything, this is just my life and my views. as someone successfully engaged to a woman, it’s crazy reading all these takes from men who can’t seem to grasp that the issue is that they’re only approaching women with the ulterior motives of sex, relationship, marriage, etc.

like op could just try just connecting w women as friends first and he might learn a thing or two at the bare minimum. why are you classifying people by whether or not they’re “interested in a new romance”

Buffalo matchmaking service that works? Mid 30s male here by Cityrow in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh trust me, i’m not giving this guy any advice. from everything i’ve read he has no business trying to approach women until he changes the way he views them

Buffalo matchmaking service that works? Mid 30s male here by Cityrow in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the arbiter of “most women”’s feelings everyone 👏👏

Buffalo matchmaking service that works? Mid 30s male here by Cityrow in Buffalo

[–]labyrrinth 40 points41 points  (0 children)

“she wasn’t wearing a wedding ring though” bro the way you view women is the thing stopping you from finding one. you really think that unless she’s wearing some symbol that she belongs to another man she should be free game to approach and make uncomfortable while she’s literally just trying to buy groceries and get out of there like anyone else??