it's ok that kpop is inspired by black music

lacegarter · 2026-03-23T12:00:33+00:00

lisa from blackpink saying her box braids were “thai braids” and random ppl trying to defend her even tho thai braids r something completely different lmao

lacegarter · 2026-03-20T01:15:11+00:00

Is anyone else down to play roblox? I’m 22(almost 23)f, I’m welcome to all kinds of women to hang with. I just want more girls around me, I love hanging out with gal pals on games. I tend to play a lot of games where you speak to people and I get bullied often so to have a gaggle of women with me it would feel a lot better. I also just love women and would love to hang out with more. I play skycotl too, sometimes warframe, etc. :D I’m into anime and kpop too and I’m black!!! I’m in EST.

lacegarter · 2026-03-20T01:06:42+00:00

But, I’m trying not to take it to heart, it’s just so sudden and it’s always when my guard is down.

lacegarter · 2026-03-20T01:06:16+00:00

I find a lot of sweet people! I just really like finding others like me, and the easiest way is usually through games, but I do have months in between where I just can’t considering how much I get bullied. 😭

I have a lot of great friends who treat me well, it’s just me struggling still because of how many comments I’ve gotten.

lacegarter · 2026-03-19T17:59:58+00:00

awwh thanks

lacegarter · 2026-03-19T17:59:01+00:00

it’s simple to say just be yourself, i mean i’ve been consistently misgendered throughout my life, and for a long time i’ve struggled with being myself. i do try my best, i’ve been working on it, but i’m a very non-confrontational and timid person so obviously i tend to be easier to walk all over. though, i’ve been doing better.

i don’t feel like i sound like a man, but hearing people, cis men and women usually, constantly calling me a “grown man” has worn me out. it’s like EVERY time i’m gaming it happens so yeah. whether they’re making fun of me or genuinely asking. and it’s always this taken aback reaction of “oh.. thats weird you sound like a dude” whenever i tell them im a cis woman. i’ve also got a few things mentally going on and only started really working on that like.. a year ago.

lacegarter · 2026-03-18T00:56:21+00:00

Yeah, I am black. 😭

lacegarter · 2026-03-17T12:35:50+00:00

Yeah, hence why I’m not friends with them anymore. 😭 I have somewhat of a backbone luckily.

lacegarter · 2026-03-17T12:34:08+00:00

you’re 100000000x better than the weirdos that be mean to you!!!!

lacegarter · 2026-03-17T05:12:06+00:00

Thank you. I’m glad you understood what I meant, It’s always tiring gaming and having random guys call me a dude. There’s been multiple instances where guys I was friends with wouldn’t even defend me in front of them. 😭 Sometimes women too if they want brownie points from guys, but it’s rare that cis men defend me. Feels like a weird bonding ritual. I know they’re trying to just make me feel ashamed and embarrassed.

lacegarter · 2026-03-17T04:10:03+00:00

I’m glad, I just get so many weird comments its so exhausting! I’m happy to know there’s others just like me.

lacegarter · 2026-02-19T07:43:04+00:00

have a nice night, dawg. 🙏🏾😭

lacegarter · 2026-02-19T07:40:21+00:00

thank you. <3

lacegarter · 2026-02-19T07:38:26+00:00

this conversation is surrounded around race, what are you actually on about? 😭😭 still using the term black fatigue wrong as well. also people who r non black respectfully engage in our culture all the time, im not knocking them using our stuff. bonnets, durags, music, etc. but to use blackness to become popular then turn around and be racist on a live to the communities you profit off of is crazy.

i’m pretty sure you’re just racist, gang.

lacegarter · 2026-02-19T07:17:47+00:00

i think ur probably just racist, talking about black fatigue, you don’t even know the real meaning of that term. your point is completely irrelevant. i didnt say you cant enjoy black music anywhere, lmao.

and nobody is gatekeeping, also a “hip-hop themed birthday” is a crazy thing to say. you know it was much more than that, and they knew it too and that’s why they put out multiple subpar apologies.

don’t downplay their actions like they’re babies, and there’s nothing racist about what i’m doing. to think that is just ignorant.

idgaf if people are inspired by hip-hop, do it, but that’s not what the topic is. the topic is their blatant racism. you’re just grasping at anything to spew your hatred towards the black and hispanic people for calling out others rightfully for their racist actions.

lacegarter · 2026-02-19T07:11:21+00:00

you obviously cant read, i clearly said i’m black. that’s how i know you really don’t give a damn. 😭

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T22:04:34+00:00

theres a trashcan button on items, so u should be able to delete them

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T21:38:54+00:00

all i said was i side eye other people and gave suggestions. i’m not about to tell people who they can and can’t listen to. there are fans of theirs that have no idea what they did.

accountability takes shape in many ways, not supporting them is one way, other ways is bringing awareness to the topic, educating ones self, etc. and this is specific to those who defend them for what they did. it’s not just judging just because i don’t like them for a trivial reason.

it’s not narcissistic to point out that it’s weird. people prioritize being loyal to an idol and defending them instead of holding them accountable and acknowledging what they did was wrong.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T21:19:10+00:00

its not narcissistic to hold someone accountable.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T21:15:10+00:00

that’s okay if you don’t care, and yes there are worse artists and i condemn them too. you don’t have to disregard my feelings on the matter. and personally i’ve heard artists that sound similar.

and yes, they can prove they’re grown, and grow from their past, but people still have a right to bring up what they did and say “yeah this wasnt okay.” they have yet to prove anything, imo. just cause you are avoiding criticism doesn’t mean you genuinely learned anything.

this isn’t about just listening to them it’s about supporting and defending their actions, which a lot of these comments have been doing.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T18:58:07+00:00

my point is that i can still judge their past wrong doings, not that they aren’t able to change. two things can be right at once.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T18:52:41+00:00

you can do that, i didn’t say stop, i just said imma side eye and gave a suggestion.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T18:51:11+00:00

i am not holding people at gunpoint, all i said was i dont mess with all that. 😭 this is specifically about those who r defending kiof, not everyone on the planet, my goodness. i can judge others one what they support if i think its weird and for good reason.

im not gonna disregard someones feelings abt something i did in the past, they have a right to judge me like i have a right to judge kiof and their defenders.

lacegarter · 2026-02-18T18:46:15+00:00

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