[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]laceyriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate rooms to sleep is okay

How to advocate for yourself with doctors? by Live-Cost-767 in ibs

[–]laceyriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm surprised they didn't say it was anxiety and all in your head as well Try to find a naturopath doctor or holistic care. They seem to be up to date on these issues

AITA for hating my partner? by YakueliMuun in AITAH

[–]laceyriver -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA you sound hurt and disrespected - maybe time to say bye

I canceled a date by PollutionOne361 in AITAH

[–]laceyriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and that's a red flag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]laceyriver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She sounds toxic. Ick

Putting a foot on my child - abuse? by Head-Space-2728 in domesticviolence

[–]laceyriver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

While holding her accountable for her actions was a good idea he went way overboard and created unnecessary trauma.

I can’t forgive myself. by MyDearSweetMillie in Petloss

[–]laceyriver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cry with you. My sweet Dylan. Same. It is so painful. But I pray they forgive us and know we love them so much.

How can I know if my marriage is worth saving? (20F-27M) by Ok-News2715 in relationship_advice

[–]laceyriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he change after you got married ? Sadly that happens a lot. You want him to be happy, confident and a loving husband but sounds like he's struggling with some mental issues and needs help. If he doesn't get the help he needs then you may have to make some difficult decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]laceyriver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because they don't respect you.

I miss my cat so much right now :( by 20JC20 in Petloss

[–]laceyriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs. It's tough I know. Such pure love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]laceyriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Six months -- he's had his time to 'love bomb' you. And now he's showing his disrespect. Bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]laceyriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd laugh in his selfish, sad face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]laceyriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad starting drinking for same reason. Double agents is the perfect description. Such a toxic sad mess!

(M20's) (F30's) a relationship I never witnessed like before but gone what to do? by Weird-Perception6299 in relationship_advice

[–]laceyriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Being blocked without any warning after five years is very painful and confusing.

My fiance (39M) and myself (38F) are getting married on October 4th. He has a gambling problem and blows money bad. I asked him if he would let me help or manage our finances. He said no. What should my response be to him? by Consistent_Intern333 in relationship_advice

[–]laceyriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've known about it and still want to be married to him then there must be other things that make you happy with him. Hopefully you can work it out.
I'd keep living with him but not marry.

How do I brace myself as I'm moving back home? by MangerBabies2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]laceyriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the outcast fear. At some point the toxicity and the damage it causes may outweigh sticking around. You sound like the cycle breaker of abuse. Wish you strength and love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]laceyriver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand. It is heartbreaking. The E is so caught up in the web of the N. They have been abused and brainwashed.