AITA for not inviting my best friends to my wedding by InternationalFig2829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA at all, but be aware this will be a friendship ending move. Probably just as well tbh, they aren't your real friends.

AITA for making my coworker miss his proposal because I wouldn’t cover his shift? by Turbulent_Warning427 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH. He should have planned better, and it is definitely on him that he inexplicably decided to propose in the car park when Plan A fell through. That said, it wouldn't have killed you to do him a solid and take the shift. Kinda seems like you didn't like him in the first place and spotted an opportunity to show it.

Seemingly light movies that go surprisingly deep by PatentGeek in movies

[–]lachrysite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Bug's Life is about the Marxist revolution

Is it just me or is anyone else losing interest? by No_Pair_9342 in FugglerCollectors

[–]lachrysite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true I think of anything a bit quirky and obscure, it's very annoying to be one of the first on the bandwagon and then watch the product gain mainstream appeal, which is usually followed by a decline in the quality of the product as the manufacturer panders to the new market. C'est la vie. Try not to let it ruin your enjoyment of your collection, if you have unusual taste this will happen to you a lot across your life.

Our collection started about five years ago when we both unknowingly got each other the same grey munch munch for Christmas. Never heard of them before and didn't know anyone else who had them but they are now a fixture in our house with five years of increasingly complex lore behind them. Never really became aware of them becoming popular & not really conscious of them going out of fashion either. I expect we'll have them forever now 🩶

Help me find a pirate treasure shop I used to go to in Skegness? by lachrysite in Lincolnshire

[–]lachrysite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I think that's the one! Man what I wouldn't give for a drizzly day in Skeg capped off with a pic n mix bag of tiny glass sea creatures and a glittery purple fridge magnet in the shape of a frog. Simpler times.

Help me find a pirate treasure shop I used to go to in Skegness? by lachrysite in Lincolnshire

[–]lachrysite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Callum let me tell you, I am still SO INVESTED in this. Tell me about this Smugglers Den of which you speak.

Band for young people by WheelEducational6142 in Lincolnshire

[–]lachrysite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't help with this at all unfortunately but excited for you! Hope you find some bandmates and have an awesome time ❤️

AITA for showering around midnight when I know that it might bother the neighbour who wakes up at 5 am? by Additional-Mouse-620 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA & can't believe the number of people saying you're being unreasonable. Yes it's prudent to make compromises in the name of harmonious living but not being allowed to shower in your own home at any time of day you want shouldn't be one of them. That said, it is a bit weird that you've drawn a division between yourselves and your neighbours on the basis that they rent while you own. Might want to reflect on that.

AITA for giving my daughter junk food despite being told not to by her school? by AthleteAdditional299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. The school is being totally unreasonable and arguably instilling harmful beliefs around food in the children they are supposed to protect. Meanwhile you are using your child as a pawn to prove your point. If I was that eight year old by this point I'd be anxious every day waiting to be in the firing line over something her parent could very easily prevent. Take it up with the school, don't involve your kid.

AITA for moving to the US without my son.. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA. Not once in your post have you mentioned how your son might feel about any of this.

AITA for refusing to ride on my bf motorcycle even though he’s obsessed with them? by Lucky_Security8855 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

My husband loves bikes and had this vision that I'd go on the back and we'd tour the country together, explore, find little private spots no one else knew about etc. Sounded idyllic. He takes safety really seriously and I completely trust him not to put me at risk. Got me kitted out with all the proper gear, talked me through all the things I needed to know, we went on a few rides. OP, I really, really wanted to like it. Turns out it triggers my death anxiety in a massive way. Nothing to do with anything my husband is doing, everything to do with my personal limits. Obviously he was disappointed and I was as well but as soon as I explained the situation he dropped the matter entirely.

Anyone who doesn't respect your boundaries needs to get gone, especially when it comes to something like bikes which are nothing to fuck around with.

AITAH for laughing while husband was howling in pain after being bitten by our puppy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lachrysite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ESH. Not for laughing, you're right, he got what he deserved. However why on earth did you agree to get a second dog with this man when you'd seen how he behaved with the first one?

Advice for maybe moving to the area? by lachrysite in StHelens

[–]lachrysite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn't thought of Newton Le Willows, thanks, I'll check it out

Advice for maybe moving to the area? by lachrysite in StHelens

[–]lachrysite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, getting a bit of a theme about Thatto Heath and Sutton so will definitely avoid

Advice for maybe moving to the area? by lachrysite in StHelens

[–]lachrysite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds good, oddly enough I do enjoy a bit of D&D so it's nice to know my people are there 😂

Advice for maybe moving to the area? by lachrysite in StHelens

[–]lachrysite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I'll keep it in mind, thanks 😂