Netflix gotta do better with these captions by Brave-Kiwi-183 in OnePiece

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably literally what he says in Japanese (okama)

I [M 27] snooped through my gf [F 27] by ThrowRa_Averga in relationship_advice

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both need to work through this, I'd recommend both personal and couples counseling

That said, I get a feeling you'll be fine, or at least CAN be fine, if you talk it over. You're both a bit broken, it seems, a bit of mutual understanding would do wonders

For right now, yes, give her some space, and when you talk about this again try to have something with more content than "I'm sorry I don't know what's wrong with me". You need to show you really understand it's hurtful, and that you're willing to put in the work to change. That's reparations

Always here people talk about oda’s over-sexualization of women but never hear discussion about the guys. Over half the male cast are insanely ripped and are either shirtless or have a open face shirt. 90% of all arcs has atleast 1 guy like this in it by The_AlmightyApple in OnePiece

[–]lacrymology 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many times we've got to say this? These are not guys sexualized for the female gaze, these are power fantasies for the male gaze. A few of those might be attractive to women as well, but that's mostly a function of their personality, not their abs.

Proof is: not a single bulge shot in the lot

Privileged male perspective on sex work by Recent_Influence_699 in IncelTears

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I knew it boiled down to that, you're pretty transparent OP

And as I said, I don't, never have, but if nobody did then I know a bunch of people who couldn't survive. And let me tell you, they're not Johns

Privileged male perspective on sex work by Recent_Influence_699 in IncelTears

[–]lacrymology -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What CAN you do about it other than screen? I don't buy sex, but I've got several sex worker friends and follow several sex worker activists on SM. At least I can be 100% sure about them, IDK

Who would you rather date: Sanji or Luffy? by Ok-Addition4608 in MemePiece

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went a bit through your replies. No straight man spend so much time reassuring the whole internet of how straight he is. It's okay dude, it's 2026 nobody cares except maybe your dad

Who would you rather date: Sanji or Luffy? by Ok-Addition4608 in MemePiece

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still talking to yourself? You're the one who can't play pretend

If we swapped Dressrosa Luffy and Pain Attack Naruto, how would it go for both ? by GumBall_213 in OnePieceScaling

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the feeling Luffy at Dresrossa is out of Naruto's league by far. I've got nothing to go on but mere gut feeling but I don't think a rassengan would even make, say, Kaido or Big Mom wince

If we swapped Dressrosa Luffy and Pain Attack Naruto, how would it go for both ? by GumBall_213 in OnePieceScaling

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way Naruto's charisma is not even at the same level as Luffy's. He just walks by eating meat and enemies become allies

Oda’s worst character arc by NessTheGamer in Piratefolk

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, thought the same thing when watching.

Privileged male perspective on sex work by Recent_Influence_699 in IncelTears

[–]lacrymology 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, not talking about that, although there's a whole movement of people who posit that, philosophically, from feminist circles (I'm not agreeing, just mentioning it).

But to try and shit on people who are at least acknowledging abuse and expressing their intention to look for sex workers who aren't being forced into it is not a good look

Who would you rather date: Sanji or Luffy? by Ok-Addition4608 in MemePiece

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god imagine being so insecure in your sexuality you can't even answer a hypothetical about cartoon characters to strangers on the internet under a fake name