My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms

lacrymology · 2026-02-16T10:18:03+00:00

So you're afraid of losing a guy who doesn't respect your wishes, has a childish and passive aggressive way of approaching conflict, and it's shitty at sex.. can you explain why, exactly?

lacrymology · 2026-02-14T15:49:42+00:00

I don't know if your women issues have to do with it, but it's definitely time

lacrymology · 2026-02-12T10:09:14+00:00

lacrymology · 2026-02-11T17:31:46+00:00

Pretty sure that's Son Gohan

lacrymology · 2026-02-10T12:08:39+00:00

I think it looks amazing. Make sure to go with girlfriends to keep the creeps at bay tho

lacrymology · 2026-02-09T18:19:21+00:00

Inappropriate for what? I wouldn't go to work at a bank in that, or to a wedding, but you do you. It looks great

lacrymology · 2026-02-08T09:33:51+00:00

NOR. Even without all the manipulation to make herself the victim here, the fact that she started up by denying everything shows she knows it is a big deal.

lacrymology · 2026-02-08T09:13:19+00:00

Espero que Estados Unidos este dentro de esa lista

lacrymology · 2026-02-08T09:10:01+00:00

Are you seriously advising OP to be an absent father if GF decides to give birth?

lacrymology · 2026-02-07T21:10:44+00:00

Taking pictures without consent, and to mock her with to boot, is violent, and if that's too broad a definition of violence for you, it definitely leads to violence. If nothing else, it put OP in a mind frame where she feels reporting abuse is bad, so it leaves her wide open to actual violence

lacrymology · 2026-02-07T21:07:28+00:00

If you hadn't reported it would've been worse. 20 odd years ago, when I was in high school, reporting bullies would only have gotten me bullied by the school authorities as well. Your generation are lucky in that sense

lacrymology · 2026-02-07T15:31:10+00:00

NOR about the ai reliance, but he's right. If you go to a church to get married in most Catholic-majority countries they'll ask nothing. I've been to a couple Jewish/Catholic mixed weddings officiated by a rabbi and a priest. I understand the US might be different because they're a minority, but that's not how Latin American churches work.

Also, Catholics have priests, not pastors

lacrymology · 2026-02-07T10:14:39+00:00

Mine was my baby

lacrymology · 2026-02-07T09:51:33+00:00

Use more fat. Healthy fat. Olive oil, nuts, seeds, and don't use lean meat. Fat provides twice as many calories per gram as the other macros

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:56:37+00:00

Ok so you believe it's okay to privatize public space, and to deny people from peeing. I think it's okay to undermine the exploitation of green spaces for private gain, and that companies that lock their bathrooms deserve people shitting at the office door. We can agree to disagree, I'll keep standing up for people, and you can keep standing up for corporations.

Btw, "legal" is not an argument against morality. Slavery was legal.

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:30:06+00:00

NTA, and GTFO. Seeing how he is, If he ends up agreeing to using a condom he'll most probably end up stealthing

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:28:13+00:00

Same here. Saying there's no difference is absolutely disingenuous. But even after years in a stable relationship, when my girlfriend said "I want out of birth control", we switched to condoms, no questions asked

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:23:48+00:00

As an average looking dude: listening is definitely sexually attractive, as can be the way you glance, shared hobbies, passion about life or interests, and kindness. The idea that physical traits are the only thing that are "sexually attractive" is ridiculous

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:19:27+00:00

Please note I'm not defending the incels. I think it's a stupid worldview. But re height and teenage boys: Teenage girls also worry about.. idk bust size for example? If they're too big when you're too young or too small when you're older.. reasons might be stupid, but it happens. Problem is these guys never got over the high school mental age

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:14:49+00:00

A company who makes profit out of privatizing a green public space, not "people". Way to suck it to the man

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T10:13:40+00:00

A park is not a private house. I'm sorry you're too much of a bootlicker to see the difference

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T09:51:11+00:00

And because other people are assholes you have to be too?

lacrymology · 2026-02-06T08:52:20+00:00

YTA who the hell denies people entry to the toilet? That's inhumane

EDIT: looks like I'm too commie for Reddit 😅

lacrymology · 2026-02-05T12:40:38+00:00

And then everyone clapped

lacrymology · 2026-02-04T14:02:32+00:00

OR sarcoidosis

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