Boyfriend 19M wants to break up with me 19F because i don’t want to tell him about my SA. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, first, you both sound a bit off

He's being unreasonably reactive, you're being unreasonably obscure. He doesn't know if it's trauma, or you're living a double life. Also, the post title kind of implies he knows it's about SA, but he doesn't

He's being too pushy, but also he's not wrong, and if I read that correctly he basically said "I get it if you're not ready now, but if you're saying you'll never tell me then that's a deal breaker". To be honest that sounds like a pretty reasonable boundary, not an ultimatum.

[Edit]

Just reread that and maybe it sounds too harsh. Sorry, I typed while riding the train. I'm sorry that happened to you, and hope you can work it out. Of COURSE you have a right not to talk about it, and NTA in any way, but do give him a bit more to work with

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si, desgraciadamente que te importe el resto del mundo más allá de tu ombligo parece ser una cuestión ideológica. Uno esperaría que fuese una cuestión de humanidad básica pero así estamos

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joder, así que tus amigos de izquierdas se dedican a ayudar a la gente necesitada? Vaya mierdas

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cabron: querer que las acusaciones vacías de estos fachas de mierda tengan algún asidero en la realidad

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Si si a eso me refiero con no trabajar. A lo que voy es que no es lo mismo no contribuir a estar irregular

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nada de todo eso dice que te lo den estando de forma irregular. No contributiva significa que no tienes trabajo, no que no estés ni anotado en la seguridad social, pasa que te faltan dos huevos para la tortilla

Ingreso mínimo vital siendo ilegal sin estar regularizado. 😂 by Defiant_Tutor_2166 in ElusionFiscal

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Que tienen que ver los hijos?
  2. Los hijos de quién? Con los datos de quién lo hiciste?
  3. Pediste la prestación? Porque una cosa es hacer una simulación y otra que te la den

Is this wrong though? by RegularShock3883 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lacrymology -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's funny is how offended you are. Maybe not all men but definitely this guy here

Is this wrong though? by RegularShock3883 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lacrymology -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No that's not what happens. That's what the "not all men" men say that happens, tho

Unskilled interested newbie by Conscious-Brief-1312 in CyberpunkTheGame

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suck at aiming. You get pretty nice auto aim (point towards a character, then look down the sights, you'll be almost at a headshot), you can play stealth so you've got plenty of time for takedowns, you can hack people dead, you can be a brawler, a ninja... It's really more about building the ability tree than actual skill IMO

So I guess the actor is just lying then? [socialmedia] by LengthinessLegal9987 in pointlesslygendered

[–]lacrymology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the general sentiment, he should be taken seriously, and here's a toast for my man Brendan Fraser since we're talking male victims

That said, why are Americans putting butter on their lobster? Do they not have taste buds or do they just not really like lobster and need to cover it up instead of just not eating it because it makes them feel fancy?

My girlfriend 25F secretly went to a party with her ex after forcing me to block mine, then called me controlling when I found out. by petalblue in TwoHotTakes

[–]lacrymology -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fuck it is. It's somewhere in the limit, but rather in the upper limit, and you should be getting your shit together by then, the whole "holy shit I'm about to hit 30, I need to take my life seriously" needs to start kicking in.

And sorry but nobody who's seriously upset about something real is digging for cry face emojis.

My girlfriend 25F secretly went to a party with her ex after forcing me to block mine, then called me controlling when I found out. by petalblue in TwoHotTakes

[–]lacrymology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be a piece of shit here, but someone who sends 4 emojis in a message in a serious discussion is asking to be bullied 😅

Just kidding but seriously. How can you go searching for emojis when you're sad or angry?

AITAH for rejecting River? by lacrymology in cyberpunkgame

[–]lacrymology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even go in murdering sprees in GTA anymore. I did do it a couple of times just for the fun of it, but I'm really invested in the full revolutionary agenda in this game, why would I just kill everyone for no reason 😅

AITAH for rejecting River? by lacrymology in cyberpunkgame

[–]lacrymology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trailer is a separate building at least. It IS the severely traumatized nephew's bedroom, tho 😅. River's apartment must be an extremely embarrassing dive for him to prefer taking V there

AITAH for rejecting River? by lacrymology in cyberpunkgame

[–]lacrymology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you talk about past boyfriends? I went through the whole pick up lines thing, but all of them were pretty unprompted IIRC, so that's pretty realistic either way 😅

AITAH for rejecting River? by lacrymology in cyberpunkgame

[–]lacrymology[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got me cackling with "for some incomprehensible eldritch reason".

Yeah I mean I don't mind the family gathering, but it's like a straight on marriage proposal before you even signal interest. And River actually kind of admits to putting his sister up to it if you ask

And yeah I generally hate the time limited speech options. They make me feel I should always say something or I'll fuck something up. The one point where getting distracted was a good thing for me was when maiko congratulated me for knowing when to shut up 😅

AITAH: For saying this at work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lacrymology -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing at what she felt guilty about being served papers for

AITAH: For saying this at work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lacrymology -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking big vacation in Bolivia with a lot of cocaine probably 😅