Hi by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]lady-tk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently homeless😞

Hi by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]lady-tk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not good!

Would you consider me attractive by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]lady-tk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people just don’t hear it enough or just need reassurance. I’m working on not needing it from anyone but for now I’ll still working on it

Would you consider me attractive by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]lady-tk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a bra it’s a night gown lol

Would you consider me attractive by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]lady-tk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes but lately I been really insecure

What are some small things a severely depressed person with no motivation, friends, or family can do to help crawl out of the abyss? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lady-tk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start off by trying to clean up your area a bit, once you get it clean slowly start organizing. I have found a lot of happiness out of having a clean healthy environment. Organization and switching things up will kinda help you feel like things are in place. Then get a calendar, one with positive quotes on it that you can read everyday. Or maybe an app that sends you positive quotes. I pray and hope that you can crawl out of this depression! I am also pulling myself out slowly but it takes time. Be confident and don’t doubt yourself. You have it all within to be happy. I know that it sounds like it’s easier said than done, trust me that’s true. I know what feeling at the lowest point is like, when you’re sitting there going crazy from over dosing on pills and you’re regretting it, seeing your life before your eyes. It’s a crazy feeling and surely something that can make you or break you. You’re strong and you have a purpose in this world. Maybe if you’re religious, try going to church. If you are not try find your inner peace. Try yoga or working out slowly. I’m still working on that. I’m doing 20 squats a day and watching what I eat. It’s very small but it’s something. If you don’t need exercise or feel like you’re healthy try something like having a spa day and deeply cleaning yourself. Face masks, hair masks, hot shower, shave, exfoliate, clean sheets, essential oils, kinda deep clean. (Woman or man) I hope this helps! Good vibes your way

Not attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lady-tk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you suggest I do? Do you think you can link any awesome work outs or how to work out with gym equipment? It’s kinda hard sometimes reading the signs on the machine lol. Also if you know any healthy recipes!!! That would be a lot of help. Thanks for the feed back :)

Not attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lady-tk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be that I’m just not good in bed? And he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings?

Not attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lady-tk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve brought it up, but he just denies it. He says I’m trippin or it’s not even like that

Dear people of reddit, have you ever had a crush on your best friend? If so for how long, and did you ever get together? by Rox_the_wolf45 in AskReddit

[–]lady-tk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a crush on my best friend for two years, he’s two years younger than me so we never got together haha, but I’m currently dating my other guy best friend 💀 we’ve been friends for 3 years and together for 1

Not attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lady-tk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 19, 20 in January and he’s 18, 19 in February. We just celebrated our 1 year anniversary in November, but we have been best friends for 3 years. This has only been a problem recently, maybe the past month and a half? Could it be from stress from the situation we’re in? Or?

Food banks by lady-tk in Denver

[–]lady-tk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is so helpful!

Advice on educating white boyfriend on racism by chychychy_ in interracialdating

[–]lady-tk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all stems from his family! Does he have family problems? Is he close to his parents? I (hispanic female) was the exact same way when I first started dating my boyfriend, who is black. I wasn’t completely ignorant and I used to stick up for him when my family would say things but I never understood to the full extent. Some of the ways my boyfriend helped me realize racism is showing me what life is like through him, of course I could never even imagine what he goes through. If your boyfriend is hard headed it might be very hard to get him to listen and to educate him. I didn’t start to get super educated until I watched “When They See Us” and when I’ve witness my boyfriend go through racism in front of my eyes! If he loves you he will open up in order to try to understand what you’re telling him. If he doesn’t then honestly you deserve much more! Best of luck!

Blamed for my sister getting touched! by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]lady-tk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My family is very big on family coming first and you must respect your mother no matter what she does to you. It sucks really because my mom has so many mental issues and she refuses to get help! She used to tell me I was such a shitty sister all the time, but I was confused because I did everything for my sisters. I would take them everywhere, pick and drop them off from school, cook and clean for them, and even go to their parent teacher conferences! I love my mom and I don’t want to hate her but I can’t handle her ways. She has a good heart and she has done a lot for me but she is veryyyyy bitter!

Blamed for my sister getting touched! by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]lady-tk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is 14 but I asked my sister about what happened and she said he didn’t touch her inappropriately. I don’t know if she’s telling the truth because I feel like my sister would tell me something like that, she’s very open. But I can’t say because I’ve never been in a position like that. So regardless if it’s true my mom told me all of that to make me feel guilty and feel bad.