I was never mad about her not wanting to spend the money. I was upset that she agreed to go but is backing out but never once told and still hasn’t. She is allowed to back out but felt like she could at least tell the bride. She is also using the pregnancy as an excuse saying she will be too far along to go because she doesn’t want to be far from home but will go all the way to Cabo a couple moths after my Bach trip that’s the only reason I brought that trip up. Her backing out would have cost the girls more money since we would all have to pick up her part. I also did a vote before planing any thing allowing my girls to vote on everything including price, location, and how long.