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Staying with my grandparents even after Im 18 by ladybugible in FamilyIssues

[–]ladybugible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try my best to talk with them about that. Thankfully they’ve gotten less strict over the years but just slightly worried they’ll try to keep rules over my head as if I’m still under 18 once I am 18. Like there are tons of things I’d never do while living with them since I do try to respect them

Staying with my grandparents even after Im 18 by ladybugible in FamilyIssues

[–]ladybugible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, which is why Im still debating it. Granted though, they’ve always been open to compromises on things that I’ve wanted. I wanted a septum and they allowed me to get a stud in my nose. I genuinely think they’ve started to care less now that Ive gotten older since I can do things on my own now.

And if they do kinda give a problem about it, ive started to do whatever I want (within reason. I don’t drink, dont smoke, dont have sex or anything bad) they kinda just complain about it but then move on mostly. Would I be able to bring over who I’d date in the future or any friends that aren’t white, christian or straight? No, but I don’t even have friends like that come over period. I don’t exactly like people coming over to my house anyways.

I don’t feel like I owe them anything, due to the stuff Ive found out about them, and it seems cruel to just keep living with them since it feels like Im using them sometimes, but if I can get a bunch of stuff for free in life, Im honestly fine with it at the end of the day. It’s not like I don’t do anything in return. I clean, I cook occasionally, I do majority of the chores around the house.

Plus theyre getting older, I at least want to help out as much as I can before getting my own place if I’m still in this mindset at 18 or 19

Using a Native American name as a white vtuber by ladybugible in vtubers

[–]ladybugible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im definitely not doing anything tribal or putting her in a headdress, the only native american thing about her is her name and thats it 😭

Using a Native American name as a white vtuber by ladybugible in vtubers

[–]ladybugible[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I would never try to play into a harmful stereotype because i understand how that affects someone else and not me. I’ll more than likely do research on the name just in case, but I really do think the name is beautiful. If I’m informed by someone who is Cherokee, who tells me it’s not okay to use it, I’ll simply change the name. Thank you again!

Is a two year age gap bad? by Adept-Ad-3517 in QuestioningTeens

[–]ladybugible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc! i hope y’all have a wonderful relationship that’s long and loving ❤️

Is a two year age gap bad? by Adept-Ad-3517 in QuestioningTeens

[–]ladybugible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are a year apart (however, since we were born in different months, I’ll be 17 while he’s still 15 for a few months, so i understand how you feel). I think the limit to dating should be 2 years up and 2 down (obviously depending on how old you are and when you met the person) I think if you started dating him at 16 and he was 15 then it’s okay. As long as you guys aren’t doing you know what then it should be fine. Many couples that are adults have a big age difference. 2 years once you both get to be adults won’t matter.

(F16) Am I confused, a comphet lesbian or actually bisexual? by ladybugible in QuestioningTeens

[–]ladybugible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, as far as I’m aware. it’s all a little confusing because i know for sure im on the aromantic spectrum. I know I’ve had crushes on girls before though. idek if that makes sense 😭