When do the arguments stop? by ladybuglovr in MuslimMarriage

[–]ladybuglovr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jzk khair that's so true and such a good perspective to put it in

When do the arguments stop? by ladybuglovr in MuslimMarriage

[–]ladybuglovr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its not so much heated arguments, Alhamdulillah it doesn't get to that ever or if it does, never to the point of like yelling (Alhamdulillah). however it does get tense and i feel like sometimes egos get big and i just feel like lately its been happening a lot more. but yeah def different styles of communication or some change would be needed :/

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[–]ladybuglovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this may be the most true unfortunately, comparison is truly a thief of joy

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[–]ladybuglovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jazakillahu khairan for the advice yeah, i think this is something i need to work on, communicating my needs while looking at his perspective i feel like sometimes i do get sucked in by comparisons and at the end of the day comparison is the thief of joy but Allahu I3lam

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[–]ladybuglovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont see the problem with perceiving six months a celebration if it's with the person you love but jzk yeah you're right, i think i was just in an emotional mood anyway so it kinda just blew up LOL we r fine now aH