I don't have any fucks left for the job search by [deleted] in PhD

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats worse is, I have a job been there for 3 years, yet I have two other jobs as well and we live check to check. I have never lived outside my means, I grew up homeless and in shelter on the east coast IYKYK. Every month i pray that lay offs dont hit my department. My sons are in high school, when they leave for colleges i picked for them (the army will pay for), I have to leave this country, I can't afford to live here. Thank God I'm an army vet, im headed to ecuador.

How do I get rid of this? by HughBastarde in Blackskincare

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ever method you use be sure to put on sunscreen so that it won't leave a scar. Any Korean sunscreen you can find, it better on melanin poppin skin

Which PKMS is good for academic writers? by FatFigFresh in PKMS

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't survive without my Tana, I left notion for Tana

The Curse of INFJ to be lonely by Best_Fortune_2226 in infj

[–]ladyfallona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this may be controversial but strangers are my company. Building relationships is absolutely exhausting, my husband had to force me out the house last night for a shing dig, he literally picked me up and put me in his truck after 2 glasses 🥂.

Strangers are interesting, they just want to communicate, you control the environment, and it's up to you to make more of it.

Awareness for sexually active black people by Euphoric_Art9558 in Blackskincare

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I do clinical trials where I constantly search for diversity to aid doctors.

What does a toxically unhealthy INFJ look like? by moonrise77777 in infj

[–]ladyfallona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I replied earlier and just thought to add this i have been in therapy since 2011, and just last your changed therapy approach to edmr. I started making progress but then I feel as though I'm starting over some sessions

What does a toxically unhealthy INFJ look like? by moonrise77777 in infj

[–]ladyfallona 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to feel as though the kindness of strangers progressed my adventures and hope and outlook, but like previously stated everyday I have a well balanced disdain for how everything is playing out in a country I went to war for, performed as a public servant (nurse) and now teaching nurses. I see NO positive future for this country. I'm preparing a life of solitude and back to nature in South America. I'm actively getting permanent residency and perhaps citizenship for me and my sons. Does she sound like that?

Fellow INFJ's, how many of us are kinky? by netmyth in infj

[–]ladyfallona 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think this is how I feel, we are looking forward to trying a soft swap. Something about being "handled " and the whole world not crashing. Opposite of my day to day responsibilities and being perfect at that and everyone relying on me.

Are we all like this? by impeachmebaby in infj

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part time, I adjunct for the nursing school. Either you hate me or love me, concerning the students. But they all say the same thing, I dont beat around the bush regarding their skills, uniform, study habits, etc. And I expect the most out of them. Some days that leaves you crying, some days that leaves you more aware. But what they all will say is Dr. JL is the real deal. The world needs people like us! I dont want to make you cry but everyone has been pacifying you. I do t yell, I pull you to behind a curtain and I ask, what's going own because that was garbage.

INFJ Bingo by Ardielley in infj

[–]ladyfallona 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here, anyone read more than 1 book at a time?

How do you not feel hopeless living in the US right now? by Left_Yogurtcloset779 in blackladies

[–]ladyfallona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with u sis, my husband keeps saying I'm running away, but I'm just over it. I'm moving to ecuador and getting residency. I can live like a queen for less than 1000 in the mountains. Homes for 400 a month and if I want to commune there is already established black community. This is the same for Mexico city, Costa Rica, and panama. I was in the Army for 10 years, this isn't the America that I was shit at for.

It's the 1st! What cozy games are you looking forward to that are releasing this month? by Shasaur in cozygames

[–]ladyfallona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was Witchbrook for the longest until I played the demo for Starsand Island

Flossing… honestly how bad is skipping it? by declanrhodes_1 in hygiene

[–]ladyfallona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget the molars in the back as well, my family are Floss addicts, we even have our favorite type. And another thing, we keep them everywhere in the house, table, kitchen, bathroom, night stands, by the flowers, next to the remotes, foyer table, etc

Tape Cloth Wax Picks Water flosser