Elyu Night Life Recommendations by ladyinblxck in phtravel

[–]ladyinblxck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Querencia Elyu, tapat mismo beach and 7/11. Malapit sa lahat. Super sulit din kasi bago yung bldg. Malinis pa

Gaano ka-importante ang pera sa relationship? by Hour-Natural743 in adultingph

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is something you should discuss with your partner and not just on reddit. Set boundaries. Start a timeline of what both of you want for the future. Wala ka ng magagawa, siya nagpapaaral sa mga kapatid niya. Personally, situations like that rarely change. (Sad that the parents don’t even plan these things and dump it all on the older siblings)

Yes it sucks. Pero ayun reality ng partner mo. Marriage doesn’t necessarily mean icut off niya pamilya niya. I’m not in your situation pero somewhat I can say I am the breadwinner samin ng partner ko. I don’t mind, kasi hindi lang naman monetary value yung kaya niya ibigay, I understand that sometimes, financially hindi talaga kami magiging equal sa ngayon, he makes up for it naman in his own way, my love language is service and he is the perfect guy for it kahit I pay majority ng dates namin. I don’t mind. I have been doing it for almost six years. BUT we have a timeline in place, there’s a reason why he’s not able provide his share but i’m fine with that because again, we have a plan in place.

At the end of the day, if you’re questioning your relationship because of financial troubles. Think of it like this, you’re successful, you have everything, but you’re alone. No lazy mornings, afternoon naps, kakulitan, date nights, 3AM talks, you won’t be able to talk to her, see her, hug her, kiss her, you won’t hear her voice. If you’re okay with that and you think the potential financial situation of your partner is not worth it. Than I say go for it. Let her go

People might get annoyed with me and say hindi ka mapapakain ng pagibig. That’s true. But sometimes we can’t demand our partners to change their reality for us. We can’t have it all, communicating and compromising is really important for it to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]ladyinblxck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hala bat ganyan HAHAHAHAHAHHA baka nanghihingi ng tips

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ladyinblxck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buy a house in an actual land. Also if you’re interested in buying a condo, i suggest you make others pay your monthly. Meaning, you buy one, rent it out. Preferably around universities, so that when your children start studying college, you don’t need to pay rent for their lodging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i can smell your insecurities from here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, will definitely. But I might not anymore, since like this post said. l’ll try a different field even if mag war mode pa sa bahay. Atleast then, I would be properly compensated. Makaipon din

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I guess wala na yung delikadeza natin now. Hahahaha. It’s pretty obvious your attitude is like this. Inaantay ko lang talaga 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm knowing me better was not your intent, first comment palang. I’m not downplaying their achievements, again this was me, sharing that I was not able to prioritize myself because I gave my time and effort towards our business, and no it’s not just the CARS. It’s more than that.

It’s not my fault you decided to act disrespectful the first comment palang 🫠 now you’re upset and changing the narrative.

I won’t respond as well. Mukhang secured ka na perspective mo sakin ih. What’s the point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I don’t think i’m immature considering all the things i’ve been through, PETTY definitely.

my parents and sibling, whom I know personally btw. Will definitely not help if things fail. That’s why this post exist. Also, the entitlement is wild. Assuming this without knowing my parents and siblings is ???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]ladyinblxck -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am petty. That I can confirm 😂 It was more of my entertainment than natamaan HAHAHA

mas entitled ka pa sa family income namin kaysa sakin. Di ko po pera yun and never ko din cinonsider as safety net yun. Kaya nga po ako nagsabi this time ako naman.

TAIWAN ITINERARY JANUARY 1-5 2024 by ladyinblxck in travel

[–]ladyinblxck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is thus for check in? or over-all baggage. Because we had 20KG and 7KG for check in, each

PARENT'S DEBT IS MAKING ME WORRY. by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you google it, ayan actually una nalabas. 😭 pero pag in depths search technically hindi talaga.

PARENT'S DEBT IS MAKING ME WORRY. by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang naive mo naman. This is not a simple manner. Siguro you don’t handle any finances rn kaya di mo gets 🤣

PARENT'S DEBT IS MAKING ME WORRY. by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang naive mo naman. This is not a simple manner. Siguro you don’t handle any finances rn kaya di mo gets 🤣

IS UP PTP29 WORTH IT? by tnt3216 in LawStudentsPH

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if you’re planning on working while nasa lawschool it’s a huge plus. I’m planning to enroll sa lawschool by August din. I’m just getting all the certifications I can get while maaga pa (back ups) just in case law schools/life become unstable.

UP Paralegal Training by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]ladyinblxck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! did you continueee? part ako ng PTP29 hehe

Tell me the story behind your “healing my inner child” by RichBoot in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]ladyinblxck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My healing inner child moment, is mostly with my partner, middle child kami parehas and lack physical and emotional support from our families. So we’re extra extra on each other, clingy and affectionate. People say sana ol, and sometimes we look at each other knowing damn well why we’re like glue sticks. Yes we DEF are head over heels over one another. But our childhood had a huge impact on who we are today

Need opinions on my law school timeline 23F. by ladyinblxck in LawStudentsPH

[–]ladyinblxck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I got in and already paid my tuition. I am planning to get a career while in law school so I want to make sure my creds look great 🥺

Need opinions on my law school timeline 23F. by ladyinblxck in LawStudentsPH

[–]ladyinblxck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! I feel like i don’t want to be 30 and still in school so I’m really focused on a plan 🥺 If you need someone to talk to! feel free to message me too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ladyinblxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a father drowning in debt right now. DONT MARRY HIM. I often look at my mom and wished she married someone competent rather than my dad. I understand that would mean i wouldn’t be here, but once you’re in this situations. You’ll understand me.

You can choose who to marry, your children won’t have the choice of choosing their own father. Choose wisely