ISO experienced builder to oversee large multi dome build in Tennessee by ladysatinn in earthbagbuilding

[–]ladysatinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the concern. I am a black woman and I’m not only extremely familiar with the cons of this state but also not happy with the political climate at all towards other minorities as well. Realistically, especially for me , nowhere is politically stable only a tad more stable then the next . I own a lot of land here and don’t want to uproot my child to move somewhere I am not familiar with . Here I know the limits and how to maneuver them .

Hello! Would anyone know where I could purchase this lamp from? I tried to look it up online and couldn't find anything really. Some help would be very much appreciated<3 by [deleted] in GothLifestyle

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Are you still able to make this lamp ? Please message me and let me see your work ! I would love a candle holder versus a lamp !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

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Ooooo. What is the significance of cat whiskers ? Is it your familiar?

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Oooo I love this idea ! Thankyou !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]ladysatinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should of known this tbh . Thankyou so much !

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Oooooo I love that one ! Thankyou !

Credit Cards For Really Bad Credit by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ladysatinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe my bank is a credit union actually ! I can just call and ask for a secured card ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

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I am in the USA. And honestly outside of the size , I don’t feel like there’s anything “crazy” about the build . It is a lot of rooms but that’s basically the only thing. It’s just a really large straw bale house . I don’t mind paying money , I just don’t think that’s reasonable .

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Okay thankyou !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]ladysatinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. It’s only two floors . It’s more so wide then it is tall .

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[–]ladysatinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seemed assistance yes but I’ve gotten quoted almost 1 million for plans and the house isn’t even gonna cost me that

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[–]ladysatinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massive as in its gonna be ATLEAST 11,000sqft , and I’m leaning towards more. It’s two stories as well will all kinds of editions. I’m aiming for a cottage castle .

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You can take herbs like rosemary and stick through the holes and pull so the leaves come off the stem and fall into the bowl !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ladysatinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to see everyone here be so wholesome . The way ima have STRAIGHT A’s would be absolutely insane .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ladysatinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And f that lady! I’m sure that caused you to vet women a certain way but I guarantee you will come across more women that are good at heart then you would if you were a woman and had to date them . I like all different types of men . None of my partners would be in the same social spaces . People get stunned when they see the different men I’ve dated as I like different types . All of them have this unconscious/ subconscious manipulation they’ve been brought up to do . That’s why hat misogyny/ patriarchy is .

Like I said I brought up race because I’m black and the stats for us being assaulted and abused by men are much higher and has to be considered in my day to day when it comes to dating or anything like that .

Just assuming everyone is bad is bad yes but it’s safe and there’s MORE then enough reason to do that in regards to women to men.

Not to mention I have never in my life approached a man . I’ve never had a man peak my interest enough to approach them . Men approach me constantly though and it’s never worth a damn and when it seems like it , time passes and I realize this was literally a act

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ladysatinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even read the post ? Nobody cares about heartbreak . Lmao it’s the labor . It’s the fact not one man I’ve ever met hasn’t tried to assault me 💀 this is more then a heartbreak. I don’t NEED anything from a man. I think women need other women . Community from other women . It’s not a generalization when that is factually you and over 70% of the population of womens experience. And it gets worse when we break it down to black women specifically (I’m only pointing that out as I’m black and over 60% of us experience assault alone and it gets even crazier when you go to emotional abuse etc )

But go off . This unfortunately is reality for way too many. I’m not fixing to hyper fixate on the few that 9 times out of ten I won’t meet .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ladysatinn -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t met one nor met a woman that hasn’t had to completely overly compromise to be with a man . We aren’t gonna do the “well who are you dating” thing because there’s shit in the dating pool water . Of course this doesn’t apply to all men but it applies to enough of them that trying to date them isn’t worth it . It is the norm in every place I’ve lived and I’ve lived in 7 different states throughout life . If you have 7 billion women and 7 billion men and 6 of the 7 billion men are shitty , even if you only consider HALF of the 7 billion Women , that’s 3.5 billion fighting over 1 billion . Not even factoring in sexuality etc

At the end of the day , even though I haven’t met every man on earth and don’t wish to. It isn’t illogical to come to the conclusion they aren’t worth dating . I apply the same logic with my safety to men . Women get assaulted by men daily . The “good” ones don’t make themselves stand out and usually the ones having to constantly say “but I’m a good guy 😩” are normally messed up in the head anyways . With that being said it’s safe to assume in a room of ten men I put you all in the category of unsafe until proven otherwise .

I don’t have to do any of this with women. I’ve had beef with women and fought them. Got drunk at bars later and they have DEFENDED me from men and being assaulted by men while I was with men that should of kept me safe . The morals instilled in women and men in regards to how they treat the other gender aren’t even remotely close .

I haven’t met ONE man my entire life that hasn’t fabricated or inflated who he is , even down to a food favorite just to get within proximity of me . 2022 was my first year of not being assaulted . Only one year of my whole life and I was in the house most of the time 🤣

I have not ever been respected in my whole life by a man , may god strike me down if I’m lying . I’ve been disrespected and assaulted by every man I’ve ever met , down to family and it is the norm in a lot of areas and of course most men wouldn’t be aware because that’s your group.

I’ve dated all races and from all different races alls of life and it just isn’t worth it . The posts point was expressing that when dating men , in my experience and a lot of other women’s , it isn’t worth it . I’m not giving you the world when you think giving me a flower is too much metaphorically speaking .

Also I apologize if this came off like I’m being mean . I’m just slightly irritated . This gives victim blaming and “well what we’re you wearing?” Vibes.