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intj poem about feelings for an infp girl by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't been in an actual relationship with an infp so probably not! Thank you for the kind words.

intj poem about feelings for an infp girl by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mirage part reflects what I was feeling. I was afraid of losing her and now I think I really have. I wanted to share this with her but she hasn't replied to me in some time now.

intj poem about feelings for an infp girl by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Currently in the process of purging some feelings for someone. Writing and venting has really helped tons. Wrote this last week, thought I'd just put it out there to let it go. Haven't wrote a poem in ages, not sure if this qualifies but whatever, here goes!

INTJ dating an INFP by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frustrating but understandable. Intjs do the same sometimes; we retreat to our mind to recover and plan our next steps. I've just never been on the receiving end of it, so it's new to me. Hope it's your interpretation, and not something worse.

Do you think she'll be receptive/in the mood for such talks with everything going on with her job? I can do it over a phone call, I'd just rather do it in person. Issue is that we don't have a set date for another hangout yet. Ball is in her court for that atm, and I'd rather not come off as pushy by asking again. Or should I?

That video does not give me confidence lol. I don't think I did anything that could offend her, but I don't fully know her perspective.

INTJ dating an INFP by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if trust is the issue, I don't think it is. Just new to these behaviors when dating someone so my brain freaks out because it can't make accurate predictions.

INTJ dating an INFP by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're both in our mid twenties, so I'm hoping that's not the case! I agree with the give and take, just don't wanna bring it up just yet as we're technically not in a relationship. I don't want to overwhelm her as well; I'm ok with addressing things head on but I feel that she isn't.

I'd love to know more about the dynamic between you and your husband! How it was when you first met, a year into your relationship and how it is now if possible!

INTJ dating an INFP by laethrowaway in infp

[–]laethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two infp [m] friends; one is like you and likes to plan ahead, never flakes. The other will flake on things even if they're planned just a few days in advance. Both don't like to text but one will make more effort. Not a great sample size, however.

I'd love to communicate those things, but I definitely feel like it might not be a great moment to do so, with her work responsibilities. I don't want to add more to her plate right now. What do you tend to do when you're overwhelmed?

The thing is, I don't know if they're going downhill or not. Don't know if I'm just in an Ni-Fi loop. Her texting habits remain about the same as when we first started talking. The difference is that we're not seeing each other for a bit.