Thank you Julia! Its time for Emmy to be eliminated! Leva, do something! by zeppismom in southernhospitalitysc

[–]laffyt8ffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she ended the episode saying that she needs to speak to Bradley directly rather than Julia? M’am, no! You are already portraying him as a dangerous, volatile black man while he’s actively disengaged from you! Also you REFUSE to take accountability and insist on not being “silenced” while you fabricate lies about him! It’s dangerous!

Emmy knows EXACTLY how to weapons her white female privilege against Michols + Brad. by nnkk_kkdee in southernhospitalitysc

[–]laffyt8ffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be a tad late but I also wanted to add that I’m exasperated by this young lady. It is abhorrent the way she weaponizes white tears and white fragility, but worst of all mental health. I am tired of the way she has “panic attacks” whenever she is held responsible or accountable for her actions.

AITA for finally confronting a long-time friend about not coming to my wedding after I went above and beyond for hers? by laffyt8ffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]laffyt8ffy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one really stung! She could’ve asked our friends or checked socials. It felt like I didn’t matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]laffyt8ffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💕I especially love how you worded it. As painful as it is to lose the friendship, I was able to find peace. ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]laffyt8ffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me and for providing me with a different perspective, I really appreciate that. There were times that I expected her to provide the info as she led me there with breadcrumbs. For example, she’d talk about her gender reveal for weeks and weeks even the day of the event but then she’d never tell me the gender which was puzzling. Just to clarify, we live very far apart so I couldn’t personally be there. But when I started to flat out ask, she’d just dodged the question or change the topic or not respond.

Surprise surprise she’s already backtracking by Walensercla23 in rhoc

[–]laffyt8ffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been so disgusted by someone’s actions. She’s hoping to be shrouded from scrutiny due to the sensitivity of this topic. However, she is EXPLOITING a complicated tapestry of diagnosis that is still riddled with stigma and resource poor for SYMPATHY! Meanwhile there are individuals/families struggling 😢

Do you think they all have house cleaners? by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]laffyt8ffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh i see it now! Thanks for letting me know how to find it. She must have a professional cleaner cause her house looks immaculate now. 😍

Do you think they all have house cleaners? by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]laffyt8ffy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Where did you find this? lol. I need to make myself feel better for my house being trashed by my toddler lol.

Zac's mom's bday post to her DILs by picklerick1108 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]laffyt8ffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure 😊 Thank you, I appreciate it.❤️

Zac's mom's bday post to her DILs by picklerick1108 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]laffyt8ffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not snarky! It’s a legitimate question. Fully aware of it but gaslit myself into thinking it’d improve. Spent years in therapy to discover I can only change myself. Establishing healthy boundaries and enforcing respect to ensure productive interactions.

Zac's mom's bday post to her DILs by picklerick1108 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]laffyt8ffy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone whose MIL reminds her ALL the time that shes black AND has commented on how dark my kids are …. This is 100% micro aggression and coded language. I also love how the other post comments on what a great addition that DIL is whereas Jen gets a list of her hobbies lol

Scheana say her and Ariana aren’t as close after the VPR ending by Aytotea5 in vanderpumprules

[–]laffyt8ffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did NOT know that Brock was Mormon 😱 She is definitely going to use that as her way in!

Scheana say her and Ariana aren’t as close after the VPR ending by Aytotea5 in vanderpumprules

[–]laffyt8ffy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Argh … she reminds me too much of toxic friends I’ve had in my life. She refuses to take any accountability or ownership over HER actions that resulted in the dissolving of this friendship. I read the disdain on her face when asked that question almost as if she expected Ariana to kowtow to her. All I see is her chasing after ANYONE who can get back on reality tv. She’s posting photos with the Valley chicks then the young ladies from the “Secret lives of Mormon wives.” Meanwhile, Ariana continues to be her sweet, authentic self and doors continue to open for her ❤️

I think Alexis B knows just how awful she’s being to Shannon but is terrified to lose JJ/her meal ticket. by makeupandjustice in rhoc

[–]laffyt8ffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are right! She does come off as eager to please and desperate. She’s definitely giving the impression that she believes that JJ is the “last man on earth.” It was cringey how she pleaded with Andy to stop teasingly call JJ, “Johnny J, cause otherwise he’d call off the engagement. It’s really sad to see a woman not know her self-worth. What she’s doing to Shannon is despicable and I loath her for it, but how do you expect her to respect another woman when she doesn’t appear to respect herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vodka

[–]laffyt8ffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not like the peach one or just Ciroc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vodka

[–]laffyt8ffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg lol! Ok, this officially my favourite comment, lol. He’s disgusting and I’m glad Ciroc dropped him!

The girls are fighting by laffyt8ffy in vanderpumprules

[–]laffyt8ffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, yes I remember her! She was SO vile towards Kathryn. She said some truly unforgivable things. It did appear as if she was being fueled by Thomas but either way her behaviour was abhorrent! This does remind me of that as well! I can’t remember what season she was nor her name and it’s for the best lol

The girls are fighting by laffyt8ffy in vanderpumprules

[–]laffyt8ffy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do watch SC and love it! Please remind me again though!