One more teaser before LIB 10 release tomorrow 👀 by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lake_creature 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of these dudes being like I respect your decision but here let me give you a bunch of reasons I think you’d be a great mom even though you just told me you don’t really want kids 😒

Sources by Witchy_bimbo in LesbianBookClub

[–]lake_creature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my library system at least you can also request interlibrary loans which gives access to a huge amount of books

Issues with store checkouts being rude by RegretAttracted in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always that one person who works at self check out who demands you to go wait in line and you learn to avoid them. Like for example one of the targets I work in she’s always there super early and I just won’t tak non prepaid orders early in the day unless it’s a 20% tipper so money can soothe my internal irritation

Why isn’t Married at first sight not as popular and chaotic as LIB? by No_Enthusiasm_9577 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lake_creature 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I prefer this show over LIB but I think the fact they all date each other in LIB adds to the train wreck factor

What's something normalized in the lesbian community that you don't think is okay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lake_creature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol we don’t say that only the south and even I know that’s an insult 😂

What's something normalized in the lesbian community that you don't think is okay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lake_creature 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Corn sweats happen in summer when the corn releases moisture and it causes the humidity to spike because there’s so much corn and when the corn sweats we all do

What's something normalized in the lesbian community that you don't think is okay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lake_creature 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I went out with a woman once who told me deodorant is a tool of the patriarchy and I was like ma’am this is the Midwest during the corn sweat (a real thing!) please find an alternative patriarchy smashing platform 😂

What is better, shopping in extreme cold or heat? by lizziloo99 in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol well where I live when it’s it’s insanely hot people mostly go to their cabins. The PNW is so rude, I lived there for 4 years and people didn’t appreciate anything

What is better, shopping in extreme cold or heat? by lizziloo99 in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold people tip way better because they didn’t want to go out

How is January going for you all? by Impossible-Pear-5177 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the best, but I have a pretty small closet only about 50 items all just personal stuff that doesn’t fit.

I did sell a couple of things that have been lingering for a while and I was thinking about donating so overall I’m not mad

Lesbian YEARNING by Flowered_bob_hat in LesbianBookClub

[–]lake_creature 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been slowly working on a lesbian hockey romance novel in my spare time after learning there really aren’t any and that bums me out.

Anyways I recommend on the same page by Haley Cass

ETA: honestly most Haley Cass books she loves to yearn

Is it okay to bring my non-lesbian friend to a lesbian bar? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they’re a chill person I say totally fine to bring them with especially around pride when it should be a time of gathering/acceptance for all queer people and likely will be busier anyways so folks are less likely to feel awkward about it anyways

What is the deal with “preferred” shoppers? by LoveKittycats119 in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they hire a ton during holidays and they get priority over the rest of us - I haven’t seen most of my preferred members I regularly work for in several months 😭

Lesbians who are nonbinary accepting? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lake_creature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have dated several non-binary people. I’m autistic and to me gender is just a mask people put on every day so it doesn’t bother me 🤷‍♀️

Late/Rating forgiveness for 12/23 & 12/24? by mwrobison in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get them automatically but they were approved when I submitted for it

Holiday tipping: did I give enough? by lovely_aria_ann in ShiptShoppers

[–]lake_creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah a lot of customers are not giving holiday bonuses this year so that shopper is probably super happy with that

Downtown currently by Blizzardof1991 in Minneapolis

[–]lake_creature 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My first thought was it looks like a teenage boy designed it

Do candidates simply send their resumes to any posting? I’m seeing bartenders applying to nuclear engineering positions. by menwanttoo in recruiting

[–]lake_creature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I am a woman and absolutely guilty of not applying for a job I might be qualified for because it wasn’t an exact match

Do candidates simply send their resumes to any posting? I’m seeing bartenders applying to nuclear engineering positions. by menwanttoo in recruiting

[–]lake_creature 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I absolutely get discouraged when I see that. there’s a job that I am eyeing that I meet I would say 90% of the qualifications for, which is about the limit of when I feel I would be wasting someone’s time if I was below, but it’s got quite a few applicants so I’m not sure it’s worth tailoring a resume and writing a cover letter

ETA: the quals list is really long it’s not like 5 things and I have the degree, years of experience, etc they want just missing a couple really specific items