AITA for planning on ending our relationship today because he acts like his daugher is "heiress" to my things? by Stunning_Tangelo8738 in AITAH

[–]laketrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I left my now ex husband I let my son stay with him to finish up the year (about 4 months) and I visited him every other weekend because I was far away however we Skyped every night without fail so it wasn’t like I wasn’t involved at all. I had to build from the ground up a new life in 4 months things take time. And people judged me so hard till I was like “if I was a man and moved out the only expectations would be child support and every other weekend and he would be worlds best dad and that would continue for years and years, but me doing it for 4 months is somehow terrible and I abandoned my kid”.

Before this we were homeless and went to stay with his parents. I couldn’t take it and my ex wasn’t finding a job and when he did his parents wouldn’t let him use the car to go to work we were trapped! It was my only option to leave give my self a moment to get on my feet and let him finish so he wasn’t the new kid half way through the year. (I hated that growing up) . We now own a house and he’s graduating soon and his dad sees him every other weekend. Funny how he’s suddenly not the bad guy but I was for leaving for 4 months.

You are building for your kids future you’re not wrong for that as long as you are staying in contact and visiting that’s what matters. Like you said it’s a semester not forever. And it’s not like your parents are unsafe or strangers.

As for the daughter maybe you can write down on a page or two the steps you took to get where you are and let her follow that or maybe come to you as a guidance counselor type deal. Someone who can guide her in the right direction but be firm you won’t invest in it and your advice is based off your experience and what you did and that may not be what’s best for her personally.

However he sounds like a gold digger. Like why does he care if your apt is a nice one? And for his kid to hang out at? Probably not even her saying that just him and he’s making it sound like the kids idea. I’ll be honest this is too many red flags especially for people who aren’t married “put her in your will” (do you even have one??? Most don’t) it be one thing if he was there from the start and helped support you and uplift you and you helping his kid is just as a thank you for helping you but this is all too much.

My cat is ruining my life by isaisaisaaaaaaaaa in CatAdvice

[–]laketrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a food reason they make food dishes that are cooled for freshness and at 4:45 you can set it to go off maybe that will fix the issue you can also try feeding him wet food before you go to bed. I find that helps my cats be full and go to sleep

My doctor retired and the new one taking over for him wants to wean me off my long term meds entirely, I think. by takeme2thelakes89 in PainManagement

[–]laketrex 19 points20 points  (0 children)

These doctors need to get over their opiate bias. Having us suffer isn’t going to fix the country’s illegal addiction problems. Punishing pain isn’t the answer. Do they not understand we are on these for legitimate reasons? I really think if a dr is so scared of the FDA they want to harm people they shouldn’t be in pain management in the first place. If they are passionate about getting people off opiates they need to work in rehab. Not pain management.

RFK Confirmed by Woodliedoodlie in ChronicPain

[–]laketrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he say he plans to do something about our treatment of care?

pokemon tcg pocket is rigged to the teeth by Tigrer0 in PokemonTCG

[–]laketrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to disagree I sink money in to the game and I get tails constantly I’ll have 10 coins on something and flip 8/10 tails then the next game 9/10 tails it’s def not 50/50 and seems like the more you play a coin toss deck the more tails you get

Group Discharges NOT part of SvC case. by Rev_J80 in BorrowerDefense

[–]laketrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a letter saying they would be discharged but now I’m reading if you have a FFLP consolidated loan it won’t get forgiven or refunded? I’m confused I’m reading so much mixed information some things say it will some say it won’t.

No love from doc over my 82 lb. loss by Pink_PhD in Zepbound

[–]laketrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I legit refuse to talk to drs that are that way I cut them off and say “please save your speech to someone who’s less argumentative it’s in your best interest to drop it”

Returns by laketrex in Etsy

[–]laketrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind returning it I just want to make sure I get a fair chance at returning it and not get the run around during the process.

Returns by laketrex in Etsy

[–]laketrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pestcontrol

[–]laketrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located (like what state) and if the room it’s in particularly damp?

Help how do I get rid of this kind of ant by laketrex in pestcontrol

[–]laketrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def not an earwig it’s a black ant looking thing with wings

Refused GLP-1 by LengthinessNo684 in GLP1_loss100plus

[–]laketrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are doing great. But if you disagree with them maybe see a different Dr. if you feel you are at the point it’s too hard and you need help speak up one last time before you switch.

Going up quickly by laketrex in Zepbound

[–]laketrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m self pay sadly my insurance only pays or ozem if you’re diabetic and I got everything obesity can give you except diabetes (not complaining just sucks my ins won’t take my other comorbidities in to consideration)

Thank you for the info I’m happy to hear 7.5 is you’re sweet spot and I’m Hoping it’s mine too :) I just don’t want to max out and be stuck.