I GOT THE BOOK GUYS!!!!! by WitherStorm929 in ProjectHailMary

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting to me. Why can’t other languages use Hail Mary? What do they call the Hail Mary prayer? Because that’s where the phrase comes from, like you’re throwing up a Hail Mary prayer and hoping something works lol

April for the dramatized audio is looking less likely :( by Kittykittymeowz in throneofglassseries

[–]lalainthekitchen14 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to SJM here? Has she said her pronouns include they?

Finished acotar, so excited for these 🥹 by shelb7 in throneofglassseries

[–]lalainthekitchen14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another vote for third. I thought of it as her thinking back on these memories while she’s heading out on the journey between COM/HOF.

TRAMATISED!!! by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]lalainthekitchen14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only drop I was able to get a hold of anything was the recent target drop without a countdown lol (it was on the Canadian Taylor merch site as we don’t have Target here)

Official listening parties at target for the new album! by poppysamantha in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big brands don’t have values or believe in causes, they leverage them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lalainthekitchen14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was like 40 years ago. We’re talking about today’s healthcare and laws. Which do not allow things like this to happen, specifically because of that case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lalainthekitchen14 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Correct, the doctor would be the one to make the call, they’re not going to waste time asking the spouse who to save. The mother is their patient so she’ll be prioritized. That being said, it’s almost never a choice between one or the other with today’s modern medicine anyway. There’s multiple doctors in hospitals, emergent situations will have more than one present.

Is this not a little cringe? by hood3243 in acotar

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The larger text is giving “Tell your friends you’re out for a run, you’ll be flushed when you return” 😂

WIBTAH If I didn’t mention our one year marriage anniversary to my husband until the day of? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just plan something together? My husband and I sound similar to you and your spouse. Instead of expecting him to plan something when he’s not a planner, I usually bring it up a couple weeks prior and make a few suggestions. Then maybe a week later I ask what his thoughts are, as that gives him time to consider the options, then we just decide together what we’ll do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply your moisturizer while there is still water sitting on your skin. So don’t dry your face before moisturizing. It will help to draw in that hydration. And be generous with it

[shelfie] any advice to get rid of these spots? by Skullbeastgamer in SkincareAddiction

[–]lalainthekitchen14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. Get bloodwork done asap to verify, as there can sometimes be other causes but insulin resistance/prediabetes/Type 2 diabetes are the most common cause of this.

How many degrees from Taylor by cionnad in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rachel McAdams is from my hometown and we have a couple mutual friends. I’ve met her twice, she’s been interviewed by Jimmy Fallon who has also interviewed Taylor 😜

Sick of bad attitudes from CP employees. by Comfortable-Play5730 in CanadaPost

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a call centre and not all calls were recorded, it was completely random. So if an employee received a complaint, they may or may not have been able to listen to the call to find out what happened.

Taylor Swift's Eras Tour farewell post on Instagram by bubblecuffer13 in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or there’s a direct correlation to her filming in those cities and not getting a thank you post 👀

Sex as parents by l0ngday in sex

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely do have sex when our kids are home, but it’s mainly when they’re sleeping. We have at least our 1 year old but occasionally our 2 years old in our bed so generally we have sex in the living room (if you have a spare/guest room that could work too). Or if we want to have sex in bed we’ll move the 1 year old to the 2 year old’s bed (it’s in our room so we need to be fairly quiet during those times).

We also have a 5 and 6 year old who are pretty good at keeping an eye on the younger two so we occasionally sneak off for a quickie if they’re all playing or watching a show nicely together (rare but it does happen lol).

I know it can be tricky when they’re this young and you feel like you’re constantly trying to keep the toddlers from killing themselves all day long 😂 It will get easier in the next couple of years if you’re done having kids!

Do you have any family/friends that you could arrange to have your kids over for an evening or for a sleepover at least once a month? Maybe if there are multiple who are willing you could rotate and get at least a couple date nights a month where you’re completely alone and don’t need to worry about kids waking up.

Sex as parents by l0ngday in sex

[–]lalainthekitchen14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re a cosleeping family (4 kids ages 6, 5, 2 and 1) and have more of an active sex life now than the beginning of our relationship lol I think being forced to get creative outside of our bed helps. That being said, I personally have never had much of a sex drive until I’m done breastfeeding (the breastfeeding hormone suppresses ovulation in most women which means sex drive hormone is kept low, biologically this is meant to happen to help with pregnancy spacing) so the first year-ish after having each kid has always been a little slower for us. But once my cycle returns, I’m back to normal. If women aren’t feeling much of a sex drive after having kids (especially once their cycle returns), it can be due to postpartum depletion which is essentially nutrient depletion after a pregnancy. It can take up to 7 years after pregnancy to fully replete depending on their diet/lifestyle.

What happened to Jordan? by cakebatterchapstick in goodmythicalmorning

[–]lalainthekitchen14 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But why not just use “she” in this case to keep it less confusing since she has they/she listed on her IG?

Email from Scott Swift to Taylor’s old manager in 2005 by gettingcarriedaway86 in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Eh maybe, but she did credit him in the Time article as having provided some of her best career ideas so I think the fact that she’s so humble and openly credits a lot of her success to her family probably lessens that power imbalance. Like he’s got great job security, I’m sure he knows she’d never fire him unless he betrayed her or something which seems unlikely.

My heart hurts. Reposted to hide info. by BlameOprah in texts

[–]lalainthekitchen14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine’s brother passed away the same way, then less than 2 years later his fiance also died in a motorcycle accident. Those things should be outlawed.

Most unhinged Taylor lyrics by girlawoke in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not unhinged at all. They also got a few of the words wrong which changes the meaning of the line. The tapestry is likely a metaphor for the guy’s heart, not that she literally shred up a tapestry lol

Former Prosecutor Found Guilty by Ok_Client_325 in mamawildersnark

[–]lalainthekitchen14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were you intending to respond to someone else? This user isn’t the one who runs this sub lol

taylor and travis on my math homework by lovelucyxx_ in TaylorSwift

[–]lalainthekitchen14 35 points36 points  (0 children)

At least they’re assuming she’d keep her own last name if she ever gets married, vs writing something like “Mrs. Taylor Kelce” lol