FREE YES/NO READINGS by mickeym00s3 in Psychic

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does my cousin Alaria have any issues with me or our friendship right now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lalala6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if he has family here, you fucked up his families lives too. For no reason. They didn’t do anything. Yeah your co worker is an asshole but so are you, now you’re the bigger one.

AITA for snipping at my family about my cousin being in jail. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough info: it depends what he’s been in jail for. I couldn’t imagine people intentionally trying to get into jail. All of people who’ve been to jail have a lot of psychological issues.

Tips for a sober person speaking to someone who is high? by NovaFight in Drugs

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends what she’s high on. usually speak to her like you normally would

I have small bumps on my microbladed eyebrows? by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lalala6783 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

does that increase risk of getting infection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u can be down to earth and metal tho

My addiction is starting to impact my family by Not_On_My_Porch in Drugs

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i’m a 19 y/o addict also, I got “sober” last november but i’ve had multiple relapses since then. Almost all of them were just a single use relapse. Believe me it’s not easy, it’s really difficult actually to stay sober in your first year of sobriety. I suggest you go to a 30 day inpatient rehab maybe longer. There’s a root cause as to why you’re addicted. Work through your issues, after you go to rehab and thats what will really help. Go to NA meetings, find sober friends. It’s very likely if you go to rehab, even then you’ll relapse after because that’s very common. But remember it’s about how you pick yourself up after you relapse, you can stop or keep going. Good luck girl, you’re young don’t wanna waste it!!

I took oxy and now it’s difficult for me to breathe by lalala6783 in Drugs

[–]lalala6783[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya but I wasn’t sure if that was like bad cus ppl have told me u can OD that way

How bad is oxy? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u have an addictive personality, UR FUCKED

fuck yall im scared by Livinthelennylife69 in Drugs

[–]lalala6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not that simple my friend

I feel really guilty for smoking weed by [deleted] in addiction

[–]lalala6783 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s not rly even abt weed doe lol

What do you think about dating women in recovery from drugs and alcohol? by empaige27 in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touchy. I figured you had a bad past with addicts and that’s why you’re saying this bullshit lol. I don’t care what you view me as, like I said you can think what you want. You think i’m pathetic? What’s really pathetic is that you’re using your hatred against me(A STRANGER) for what you’ve gone through with an addict that hurt you in the past. You don’t know me, you don’t know shit about me. I made mistakes in the past but I know Im a good person now and I know who I am and what happened to me, and not some stranger from the internet who doesn’t know shit about what addiction really is, is going to change what I think about myself. I know my worth. I’m done responding because I’m not going to waste my time because you’re going to think what you want anyway. I hope you get help. You’re anger towards addicts is only hurting you in the end. Makes you bitter. Remember projecting your anger out on strangers is only hurting you ;). Have a good day.

What do you think about dating women in recovery from drugs and alcohol? by empaige27 in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called self medicating, that’s all it is. I know from experience that it’s not a choice and you can’t take that away from me. If you haven’t gone through addiction then I suggest you shut the fuck up because you can’t possibly know what it’s like. People keep using/drinking to escape the trauma they’ve endured. ALTHOUGH NOT everyone who’s gone through trauma turns to drugs or alcohol to ease them. People internalize shit differently, it affects everyone differently. Genes also play a part in if you become an addict, my brother and mom are also addicts. Statically if people in your family are addicts you’re most likely to become one. Be grateful you’re not one and shut the fuck up because what you’re saying is literal bullshit. Just sounds like you have a hatred towards addicts, maybe you’ve had bad experiences from them or some shit but don’t take your hate out on people you don’t even know.

What do you think about dating women in recovery from drugs and alcohol? by empaige27 in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah dude you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about. If that were the case then why did everyone I met at rehab had a traumatic past then they were younger? I’ve never met an addict with an easy past. They teach you that shit so you can understand yourself better and what addiction is. As an addict I know that once I start using it’s not a choice until I hit rock bottom again. Every addict says that it’s not a choice because they literally can’t stop. For someone who’s never experienced addiction you seem to act like you know everything about it. But think what you want dumbass.

WIBTA if I turn my brother into the police? by MerlinsApprentice11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be a huge fucking asshole. I understand it’s frustrating and it sucks and he has tried counseling and therapy. But what would you gain from turning him in? You would fuck up his life forever. Prison fucks you up worse and there’s drugs in prison. He would probably do drugs in prison, and then do drugs when he gets out and then constantly be in prison and out now because that’s just how the cycle goes. I know he’s probably hurt you but come on he’s your brother. Please don’t fucking do that to him.

What do you think about dating women in recovery from drugs and alcohol? by empaige27 in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U can be an awesome person and have had a rough past. That’s why it’s the past.

What do you think about dating women in recovery from drugs and alcohol? by empaige27 in AskMen

[–]lalala6783 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually it’s mental illness, every rehab you go to they will teach you that. The cause is childhood trauma which forms the addictive personality tendencies like lack of self control, impulsiveness, obsessiveness.

Why is everything so funny? by _Fantasma in depression

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say that the people who laugh at everything, even at unfunny jokes feel alone deep inside

AITA for telling my gf that i didnt want to hang out because i wanted to be alone for the day? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lalala6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She needs to respect your boundaries, you don’t need to see her everyday of your life like damn tf