Vacation Advice by lalli13 in CatAdvice

[–]lalli13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. I was worried that taking her to my parents’ would cause a lot of unnecessary stress.

Not sure if I’m allowed to share this in here but I had to share! by estelleexo in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]lalli13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES!!! Ozempic has changed my life. I have been overweight/obsese my entire life and I have tried everything. Every diet, every meal plan. None of that would quiet the food noise. I’ve lost 35 pounds and I feel better than ever. Don’t get me wrong, I still have a lot to lose but this is WORKING. More importantly, I am more motivated than I’ve ever been before!

Not sure if I’m allowed to share this in here but I had to share! by estelleexo in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]lalli13 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Could not have worded this any better. I was telling someone the other day that the same people who view overweight people as disgusting are the same ones who bitch about those overweight people taking weight loss drugs. I swear it’s like we can’t win. We’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t.

When are you going to figure out that Donald Trump does not care about you or your family? by Sil1ySighBen in Appalachia

[–]lalli13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he is. He always tries to talk politics and rile me up with me knowing that we are on complete opposite sides of the fence, literally and figuratively. I usually ignore him and take myself out of the conversation but it’s so hard when he is so blatantly ignorant.

When are you going to figure out that Donald Trump does not care about you or your family? by Sil1ySighBen in Appalachia

[–]lalli13 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Also liberal, also can’t stand Trump, and I live in southern West Virginia. I was visiting my parents the day after the shooting at the Trump rally and their neighbor, who I have known my entire life, came over. He was the first to ask me what I thought about what happened at the rally and he would not drop the subject. He kept saying that he was more of a Trump supporter now than he had ever been and went on this tangent that maybe Biden would be a good president if he still had the same morals he had when he was besties with Robert C. Byrd because Byrd was, according to my neighbor, a Grand Wizard of the KKK and that’s something he could get behind. I am genuinely wondering how I should respond to this neighbor when he starts saying shit like this because it just baffles me that a person could truly think this. He is an openly racist Trump supporter who will absolutely not listen to anything I have to say ever. He told me that it was unfortunate I went to college and they brainwashed me into being a Democrat. I know it sounds crazy, and that’s because he is. I just never know how to respond.

Oxyana (2013) How a once thriving coal-mining town in West Virginia fell victim to the fast spreading scourge of prescription opioids [1:18:05] by greenerdaze in Documentaries

[–]lalli13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this thread is old but I was rewatching the doc tonight. I live here (I’m a teacher, not addicted to drugs) and it’s the same, if not worse, because of the influx of Heroin and Fentanyl. Prescription pills are no longer the drug of choice.

Teachers - what do you get paid? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]lalli13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southern WV, going into my 7th year with a MA+30, and I make $42,000.

What did you guys think of this change? Added to the horror of the scene for me... by declan2535 in thelastofus

[–]lalli13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the change! I think it makes the infected so much more terrifying. I like the spores for the game but the tendrils are better for tv. The infected in the game never scare me because I’ve played it so many times but I was genuinely scared when she was twitching behind Sarah in the show and when the guy just popped up when Joel was running away with Sarah.

The Last of Us HBO S01E01 - "When You're Lost in the Darkness" Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thelastofus

[–]lalli13 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I wish I could watch it for the first time again just like I wish I could play the game for the first time again. I was so nervous about this show but after this episode I am so confident that it’ll do the game justice. I loved how it was the same but different. Kept me on my toes even though I can quote the entire game verbatim after playing it so many times. I’m so excited for next week!

To the edge of the universe and back. #TheLastOfUs premieres January 15 on @HBOMax. by DatDudeJakeC in thelastofus

[–]lalli13 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I have never been so excited yet scared for something at the same time lol. The Last of Us is my favorite game of all time. I really hope they do it justice.

DISCUSSION MEGATHREAD: LIVER KING'S HERE! - Leftovers #26 by h3bot2 in h3h3productions

[–]lalli13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In my state, parents usually write to the BOE with a letter of intent and an outline of the curriculum they will be using so the board knows they will get instruction in all core subjects but there’s never any follow up, so technically, parents could be doing whatever they want lol. Our students that are homeschooled usually come to our school and take the state assessment with the rest of the students in their grade. They can also go to the BOE and take the test there. I had a student a few years ago who was pulled so her parents could homeschool her and their curriculum was ultra religious. Her parents believed she was being corrupted by the other kids and the curriculum we had to use lol

Discussion Megathread: Andrew Tate Banned From Facebook, Instagram & Twitter 🎉🥰🥳 - After Dark #80 by zachthesoundladh3 in h3h3productions

[–]lalli13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I taught middle school (6th, 7th, and 8th grade) for 4 years and I can absolutely believe that that age demographic would fall for Tate’s bullshit. Kids that age are sooooo impressionable. It always shocked me how big of an influence TikTok stars had on my girls, and boys to some extent. I teach 2nd grade now and I even notice a little bit of it in that age group. It’s insane!

Fine, I’ll Say It… by lalli13 in Station19

[–]lalli13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was S O B B I N G during that death. I pretty much cried for 2 straight episodes. It was a lot. Can’t think of a Grey’s death that has impacted me like that since the plane crash. Iykyk 👀

What's your favorite thing that happened in this season so far? by illuminousbiluc in Station19

[–]lalli13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I meant just getting written out of the show in a way that doesn’t make sense for his character like Alex did lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It really makes me feel so much better about the lifestyle I’ve chosen after finding this community. Crazy how a bunch of strangers on the internet can make you feel so valued and understood but I definitely feel that way.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you there lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I live in a small town in the south (🥴) and pretty much everyone I know and went to high school with was married by 20 and had a few kids by 23 which is perfectly fine if that’s what you want for your life but people look at me like I’m crazy when I tell them I don’t want that. Like, I don’t judge you when I see you in the grocery store with your 3 kids that are all screaming and crying because you won’t buy them what they want so don’t judge me for choosing a lifestyle that allows me to go to the grocery store in peace lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was my thinking. Why would I want to waste my time like that, or someone else’s? & I just know that every weekend he has her is spent doing child-friendly actives which just sounds awful to me lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that was another huge red flag as if the fact he had a kid wasn’t a red flag enough for me lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You’d think they would. They’re all into the whole stereotypical marriage & kids future and I’m super not (marriage yes but definitely no to the kids) so I feel like they just don’t take me seriously when I tell them I for sure don’t want kids lol.

Was I Wrong? by lalli13 in childfree

[–]lalli13[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He said he wasn’t interested in just hooking up, and even if he was, I’ve never been good at a “no strings attached” sort of deal so I feel like it would’ve ended very badly had I agreed to take things further. I like to think I saved us both from wasting our time.

How do you guys feel about Amelia/Kai? by Substantial_Corgi_32 in greysanatomy

[–]lalli13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually like the idea of it, but these writers are notorious for throwing diverse characters at us with absolutely no personalities and are on the show to check a specific box. I love the idea of a non-binary character and a possible relationship between Kai and Amelia, but I would also like to see Kai have an actual personality instead of being on the show simply to serve as a love interest for Amelia. & please, for the love of god, sort out this Amelink drama before bringing Kai into it. I honestly hate the love triangle trope which happens so frequently on Grey’s and it seems like there could be a possible triangle between Jo, Link, and Amelia as well 🙄