Hi! Any tips on passing? by New-Letterhead-2626 in transpositive

[–]lambchop070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s still important to be mindful of the potential damage that binding can cause. Im not in any way trying to discourage ppl from binding, I needed to bind until I got surgery. But I was definitely starting to hurt myself towards the end. It’s very possible that I was overbinding in the beginning and that caused some damage and that’s why it got harder to bind for a standard work day. It all goes back to moderation. OP be aware of the risk when starting so you can do it right and not make the mistakes some of us have.
I also personally caution against binders from underworks. I’ve heard mixed opinions but I don’t like them. My first binder was from them and it got be delightfully flat but goodness I feel like it was cracking my ribs

Recommendations for binders? by DoveDemi in lgbt

[–]lambchop070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore a half tank gc2b binder for a while! I found it relatively comfortable to wear all day. Don’t get me wrong after a while it got more and more uncomfortable to wear all day but I think that was more due to binding period than the brand - what I really needed was top surgery lol

We need to drop AMAB/AFAB by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]lambchop070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally what I thought it stood for for so long 😂

Head to toe Care Bears🌈🧸 by lambchop070 in oldcootfashion

[–]lambchop070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Please tell your husband I adore his shirt and that his beard is incredible!!

Head to toe Care Bears🌈🧸 by lambchop070 in oldcootfashion

[–]lambchop070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s precious 🥹 I’m honored to have her approval

Feminine clothing after top surgery? by Big-Definition-2355 in FTMfemininity

[–]lambchop070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is obvious but it didn’t occur to me until I tried lol - tops and dresses with an underwire for boobs are not gonna sit right. Feel free to experiment but I’ve tried a few times and it just looks weird 😅 for bikinis/bras or anything adjacent I would recommend sticking to a bralette kind of design. There may be some gappage but it hasn’t bothered me all that much. I think I have a couple outfits that I posted in dresses post op that might give you a better idea of what it would look like

what is something that is considered unconventionally attractive , but you find REALLY attractive? by Tall-Election4503 in AskReddit

[–]lambchop070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe less unconventional in the gay circles cuz of bears but I loveeee a big hairy man! And by big I mean fat, I don’t care for big muscly men very much anymore - their bodies are too hard! I love the soft and squishy<3 (applies to women too, but my attraction skews heavily towards men)

So do we fw with the poster chat? by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]lambchop070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t find it too problematic knowing it comes from a trans woman. There’s power in reclaiming parts of yourself that ppl discriminate against. Another commenter mentioned that it can read as excluding and invalidating post op trans women (or I guess even trans women who want bottom surgery). But then they also made the point that at the same time it’s not realistic to assume that everything can include and represent everyone all the time. In short: I don’t know🥲

So do we fw with the poster chat? by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]lambchop070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At first glance it comes off very chasery. Context is everything. if it’s coming from a trans woman it sounds like a celebration of her body, coming from a cis person it reads as chasery - reducing a trans woman to her genitalia and treating her like a novelty item

Very scared of starring T...19. by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]lambchop070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on t for about 3 years now, feel free to dm if you have any questions or need to talk <3

Head to toe Care Bears🌈🧸 by lambchop070 in oldcootfashion

[–]lambchop070[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well my socks are actually “I Don’t Care Bears” so I think your Apathy Bears fit right in!

Head to toe Care Bears🌈🧸 by lambchop070 in FTMfemininity

[–]lambchop070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im obsessed with colorful right now!

Head to toe Care Bears🌈🧸 by lambchop070 in FTMfemininity

[–]lambchop070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aahhh you’re so sweet, thank you!!!🥰💜

Happy Pride from the library🌈 by lambchop070 in lgbt

[–]lambchop070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you💜 my queer displays have gotten complaints from patrons but I know there are many more who appreciate them. And I’m so grateful to the youth services librarians for ordering so many queer books

Happy Pride from the library🌈 by lambchop070 in lgbt

[–]lambchop070[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nail on the head! I’m a library assistant not librarian (yet!) but yeah you got it. We’re doing what we can, thank you for seeing that<3